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Jul 09, 03
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bad break up stories
Try and top this one.
My girlfriend and I had been going out for almost 15 months, for the past 5 months we had been planning on moving to VAN in sept cause she was going to school down there.So I had been saving every cent in order to have enough cash to move down there. I also sold my buisness ,one of my cars and most of my personal belongings I wouldnt be needing for down there. Basically all i have left is my clothes turntables and vinyl, cause she had everything else. So last week I was in VAN looking for a job and a place for us to live. I found both, so I call her all stoked with the good news and what does she tell me, that she doesnt think we should see each other anymore and that its over.So I fly back to my town of 3000 people with almost nothing to my name and without the girl I love. And to make matters worse VAN was insance fun and I totally wanted to live there. But that isnt gonna happen now.This is the most fucked over I have ever been by a chick. 
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Jul 09, 03
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Well this might be a contender... this is the abridged version of the story:
I was seeing this girl when I was at UBC for over a year and we went out for dinner on my birthday. Earlier that day she asks if she invite a friend to the party. It's a party so I didn't think much of the request and the more people the merrier. During dinner we chat have a great time and then head off to Graceland where all my friends were waiting for me. As we were walking to the back alley entrance she say 'Oh! There he is!' and runs off and comes walking back with this guy and I never get introduced.. We head towards the door and I have taken care of her the entire time we have been seeing each other. Tonight she takes care of his and her cover charge and I think this is mighty strange. I go inside and find my friends and I tell them I don't find this joke funny at all. From their reactions I know that they have no idea what I am talking about. My g/f an this guy show up behind me and it turns out that I just got dumped on my birthday. That is all.
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I was in shock still and hoping that it was a bad joke and when I clued in it wasn't I wanted to go hunt them down. They broke up after being together for 5 months but that isn't much of a consolation. I'll tell you the complete story if you hit up the Momento meet.
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Jul 09, 03
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Good call mugsy...What is stoppin you...
I was dump by my girlfriend that I was going out with for a whole year. She told me she wasn't sure about our relatioship and thought that it was ending and that she ould think it over during the weekend.... Ok I was a sucker and I wanted to stick with her because I thought I was pathetic and couldn't get anyone better. Even though she was the bottom of the line. So I am sitting in school the following monday morning when Kyle [a friend] comes up to me and says: "hey I am sorry to Hear about you and Nicole." I'm like What...."oh didn't you hear Nicole is now Going out with Coin?" Colin was my best friend at the time and he knew about it too for like a month that Nicole liked him. I lost a Bestfriend and a girlfriend all in one weekend. On top of that al the people I tought we my friends were better friends with Nicole and didn't want to talk to me anymore after I flipped on the two of them for being backstabbing assholes.
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Jul 09, 03
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The weekend my cousin died I didn't go to school at all. I decided to go one day and at lunch my bestfriend gave me a note from my boyfriend. In that note he said his mom's marriage was too much for him to handle and he doens't want to go out with me. I walked right up to him and punched him in the stomach, then phoned my mom to pick me up. When one of my friends found this out she slapped him across the face. Hahaha sucka!!
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Jul 09, 03
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I dated this guy Myles for a year and a half, and over that time I had heard rumors that he had cheated on me (I confronted him, more than once, and he denied it).
So we make plans to go over to a mutual friends place for his (Alex's, not Myles') birthday, and throughout the day, I hadn't heard from Myles at all. I had paged him, called him at home, and no response. So, I was pretty pissed off by the 8:30pm point (when he was off work at 5) and I said "Fuck it, I'm going to Alex's without him". So I did. I got there and ranted to my best friends about what an ass he was and they hauled me out of the room, shoved me into a bedroom, and locked the door behind the 5 of us. They said "sit down, shut up and listen to us. We're sick of your bitching, and we have something to say." They told me that all of the rumors I had heard were true, and they even called on of the girls he cheated with (who I knew and was a different buddie's girlfriend by this point) so that she could give her side of the story and apologize. So Myles finally shows his face at around 10, and I'm still in the bedroom spazzing about the fact that I had been such an idiot for over a year. Alex tells him the shit hit the fan, and Myles did what he always did. Headed back to his car and started packing a bowl. As soon as I found out he was there, I headed out to his car (followed by my girl friends, who stayed about 100' away), and I got in. All the windows were up, the sun roof was closed, and my girls could all hear my yelling clearly from where they were standing. He actually came clean to the 2 girls that my friends had known about, as well as to 2 more that I had suspicions about. Needless to say, he found himself promptly single. It wasn't a pleasant experience, but it makes for a decent story.
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Jul 09, 03
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I quess i could still move but right now im not really in the mood to leave, im more in the i wish i was dead mood.Plus I dont know anybody in van and that place is way to huge for a small town kid like me to just up and move too by himself.
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Jul 09, 03
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Damn hardstylin... that sucks dude.
Here is my story: It was my first "real" girlfriend, who I was with for 3.5 years, right up until I just turned 19... I had been through everything with this girl... lost the big V with her, started driving, graduated with her. In addition, I moved out when I was 17 as my parents moved up North and thus, her family became my family IE: mother, father, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, etc... At the time I was the Assistant Manager of the computer department at London Drugs and sometimes had to work bunk hours IE: 2PM - 10:30PM, etc... Even though I had worked all day, I would still go out of my way to go over to her house, tuck her in and say goodnight, etc. So Thursday night rolls around and I just finished one of those nasty shifts... So I go over to her house, tuck her in (after having some crazy s_ex) say the "I love you's" and she mentions that she will call me tomorrow (Friday). Friday comes and she mentions that she is going to have a girls night with her Mom and Grandma which is totally kewl as I will go out with some buddies of mine... Saturday morning rolls around and I get this call at 10AM and I could tell something was up from her energy over the phone... just a real strange vibe. Sure enough, she has the nerve, over the phone (and keep in mind we were together for 3.5 years) to say "I think we shoudl see other people." -- I was like "huh?" This made no sense as the past couple of days were all good. To wrap things up, the beatch dumped my ass on the phone (which is totally disrespecful) and not only did I loose her but her entire family all at once. THE POSITIVE - I look back now and I see that it was THE BEST thing that ever happened to me. I learned so much from that relationhsip and it very much allowed me to grow up and mature and know what to look for next. It motivated me to do a lot of stuff that I had never done before IE: hit the gym, start eating real healthy and totally change my lifestyle! Give it time man... although it seems like hell now, what you got rid of were material possessions which you can always get back. You can re-start your life fresh... open a new chapter so to speak... call it a kick in the ass! Peace.
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Jul 09, 03
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^ awww poor babies! yeah well gurls...were not the only ones here to break the hearts!
I was sick really bad and my b/f of 6 months wanted to go to a party that his friends were having. I didnt wanna keep him so he said he would come by after the party and cheak on me...aww how sweet!! *NOT* I was in bed..recoving from nephmonia at that time. I get a call about 12 30 that night. It was one of my guys buddies that was pretty good friends with me too. He said that there was something that I should outta see.. that my lovly b/f was getting with sum other girl!! I fucking took the skytrain and a bus out in newwest to get there!! I went there and booted down the door! SURE AS SHIT! there was my b/f..having SEX! with yeah..my good friend..well kinda we worked togeather. he was giving me bullshit that it wasnt what it looked like..yeah you dick just fell in to her eh?? well I right hooked him to hard across the face and kneed him in the nuts! while all his guy friends watched and called him a lil bitch and he got his ass kicked by a gurl. the bitch..I almost ripped out her hair. His buddy took me home..I was soo sick I went back to the hosptial that night..but with asmile on my face because I got my ex's guy friends number that tipped me off. and I kicked the shit outta my EX!
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Jul 09, 03
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^ fuck! doing that to him was the high light of my night. atleast he could feel my pain..well sorta
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Jul 09, 03
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i broke up with a guy over the phone.
but i didn't really care because we were barely going out for 2 months and it was more of a casual sex thing then a relationship and i was getting really sick of him! i didn't want to do it face to face cuz i just wanted to ditch him on the asap
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Jul 09, 03
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you did it in my car and i had to bite my lip from laughing!! hahaha remember?!?1
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Jul 10, 03
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Once I got into one of those exotic pationate travel relationships with this bloke in an out back town. We both thought it was best I see the rest of Australia b4 my visa ran out. The first month worked fine and I was in Sydney now heading back up 1600 km to see him agin.
2 weeks go by, half way up, no calls or able to get ahold of him?!? WTF I was only days away form getting back? I soon realized this relationship wasnt gonna work, but should see him anyways b4 I headed back to Canada. Well I get up there to find out the bugger cheeted on me and didnt know how to let me know. I felt so stupid for going all 3200 km out of my way by bus to see him. Instead of spending the remainder 2 months surfing the coast. He overed to pay for my traveling fee. I refused and stayed there. I ended up having a blast in that tiny boring town with 2 awosme canadian chicks and made out with his 2 BEST friends... f*cking wanker :finger: Last edited by Ree Fresh; Jul 10, 03 at 11:28 PM.
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Jul 11, 03
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I don't think i've ever been in a serious enough relationship for it to have a really traumatic outcome. My relationships tend to be short-lived and I've been screwed over by the guys i've dated on countless occasions..
I just don't take things to heart anymore, I think it's all made me a stronger person and changed the way I perceive things. The worst situation I've ever been in (not a breakup or even vaguely close) was when I found out this guy I hooked up with was engaged. He haden't even mentioned his fiancee to me, he just kept telling me how he haden't had such a good time in years :soak: I didn't sleep with him because I don't believe in one night stands but I was disguisted when I found that out.
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Jul 11, 03
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Call the police cause he chased me with a baseball bat or because he's a pedifile?? Well, I didn't call the police. I was scared for my life and didn't want to cause anymore problems with him. Although that wasn't the end of the chaos! Atleast now, a long time has passed and I can get a good laugh out of the whole thing :) If nothing else I learned a lot from going through such hell
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Jul 11, 03
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I used to date this guy a couple years ago for a year and a half on and off.
Normally whenever he got back into town it was on. He gets back one summer and i'm all excited cos I'm gunna get me some 'tang and we had plans to hang out the next day. I get a phone call from him asking if he could bump our plans till the day after cos he had plans with his _girlfriend_ and her friends. My heart literally ripped in half. Later we meet up and he starts going off about how much he missed me and that he didn't want the other girl, and how he wanted us to be together again. Things were totally looking up and I got my hopes up. The last thing I remember of him was him kissing me lovingly and telling me this was all going to sort itself out and that he would call me that night once he got back home. I never heard from him again and he stopped returning my phone calls. That screwed with my head for a long time and I think it's played a major part in me and some of the issues I have in dealing with relationships. First real love, first real heartbreak
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