girls: do you touch guys you have only friendly interest in?

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by F*r*a*

Granted , but for whatever the intention is , whether its to get the guy to screw them , or to break up the relationship , or to cause a problem in the relationship ... whatever the case is , there isn't any positive outcome of it. It doesn't mean the intention is to get a lay , but the intention isn't meant to be nice either , know what I mean?

You don't "accidentally" come on to someone you know has a sig. other , so the reasoning for why someone would do it is purely negative , which still makes it wrong either way.

But it takes 2.
I know if my man had a girl that was like that with him, I'd be fine with it. Because he comes home to me. Granted if he was playing it back I'd be a lil'concerned. And vice versa.
Guy are just as guilty of playing the "extra nice" role with taken girls too. But if my man couldn't trust me, then he's not worth my time.
Hell, if a girl that work with my man, say fixed his collar or something, I'd be happy, at least she's looking out for him, and he don't look funneh!

[Segued]

Originally Posted by F*r*a*

Huh?

Where did fucking come into play? Im not even talking about that...
you lost me.

for the love of god, can you please refrain from putting scaring mental images in our heads. Thank you.

[ebbomega]

My girlfriend gets hit on at work a decent amount. I don't really give a damn because at the end of the day, it's my bed she's getting into.

[Gunter S]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

My girlfriend gets hit on at work a decent amount. I don't really give a damn because at the end of the day, it's my bed she's getting into.

the issue would be if your gf was doing the flirting

[Segued]

Originally Posted by F*r*a*

Did you have a recent lobotomy or are you a virgin?

Jesus Christ lady where do you come up with this written detritus, you're about as usless as your own facial hair.

[Ms.Tarantula]

to answer just the thread tittle question, sinse I didn't read anything else in this thread:

no.

[Ms.Tarantula]

Originally Posted by Segued

Jesus Christ lady where do you come up with this written detritus, you're about as usless as your own facial hair.

quoted for truth.

[Ashley*Dawn]

Originally Posted by F*r*a*

Once again ladies and gentlemen....

There is being friendly...
There is flirting....
and then there is being a homewrecking whore.

You're only ever going to act one outta those three.
If you're being friendly , you're not flirting.
If you're flirting , you're trying to suggest being MORE than friendly (in which case , if you are NOT single , you shouldn't be doing...)
If you are being a homewrecking whore , you are flirting with someone who has a girlfriend/boyfriend. And I dont fucking care how close you are with that person , have some fucking respect for that person and their relationship. Anyone who does that intentionally is a whore..and there isn't any good that can come out of a situation like that.

Ashley , maybe to you its okay , but that doesn't necessarily mean everyone else thinks so. If you wanna have a rep as being a constant flirt with everyone , then thats eventually going to bite you in the ass...because someone , somewhere down the line isn't going to appreciate it , and thats gonna land you in a not-so-nice spot. Expect to get called out on it.

I knew this was coming... I'm not a slut or a homewrecking whore despite what judgments you may have passed.
I've been the was I am my whole life; I'm outgoing and very friendly. Now I have a good group of friend who have boyfriends and I'm the same way to the boyfriends as I am to my friend very friendly and flirty. None of my friends seem to care because guess what that's just how I am. The only people that are offended by it are insecure people and if a guy doesn't like it he'd say something and if one of my girlfriends didn't like it she'd say something. They haven't because they have a secure relationship. I feel the same way when I have a boyfriend if some chick hit's on him no big deal he's coming home to me.

[Serotonin]

How do you blame someone for being a "homewrecker" when all they did was expose someones unloyalties?
After all doesn't it take 2 to tango?

[Gunter S]

Originally Posted by Serotonin

How do you blame someone for being a "homewrecker" when all they did was expose someones unloyalties?
After all doesn't it take 2 to tango?

i feel the same about crack dealers. all they did is expose other people's weaknesses. we should give them the keys to the city.

[Gunter S]

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

to answer just the thread tittle question, sinse I didn't read anything else in this thread:

no.

so touching would imply what?

[Segued]

Originally Posted by Gunter S

so touching would imply what?

dude, she wants you.

[stabmyhead]

"Don't hate the player, hate the game."

"Homewreaker" is sucha hater term. The home wasn't strong to begin with if it was so easily wreaked! You should consider whatever it was that the "homewreaker" did as a favor if it exposed how poorly put together your relationship was. I used to hate it when girls would throw game down on my man, but now I take it as flattery. I mean if I like him enough, then surely other girls will see what I see. I'd be more worried if no one ever hit on them because that'd probably mean he was not attractive enough to attract attention.

[Ms.Tarantula]

Originally Posted by Gunter S

so touching would imply what?

I stated my personal response to the question.

I can't speak for the girl you know.

But consider this:

If she's got a man.. and shes hitting on you (just the fact that she's making you question her motives is enough) then what makes you think that if, say, she left her man for you.. that she wasn't going to be out there, making other guys think about her sexually once she was your woman? Is that really the kind of girl you want to be with? Right off the bat shes displaying unloyal traits in her personality as a girlfriend. This is obviously the kind of girl she is and IMO, that's not respectible.

[Serotonin]

Originally Posted by stabmyhead

"Don't hate the player, hate the game."

"Homewreaker" is sucha hater term. The home wasn't strong to begin with if it was so easily wreaked! You should consider whatever it was that the "homewreaker" did as a favor if it exposed how poorly put together your relationship was. I used to hate it when girls would throw game down on my man, but now I take it as flattery. I mean if I like him enough, then surely other girls will see what I see. I'd be more worried if no one ever hit on them because that'd probably mean he was not attractive enough to attract attention.

i can see some of that age old wisdom shining though on this post
way to set the example Les!

[stabmyhead]

Originally Posted by F*r*a*

There are homewreckers out there.
End of story.

Originally Posted by F*r*a*

I don't think homewrecker is a hating term.
There ARE bitches out there that get kicks off trying to whisk men outta relationships for one various reason or another.

Call it hating and insecurity. I call it reality of how chicks can really be sometimes.

SO MUCH FOR END OF STORY. THE SAGA CONTINUES AS GIRLS CONTINUE TO HOMEWREAK F*R*A*. Seriously, it sounds like you've been "homewreaked" a lot, perhaps you should build stronger foundations because I have never had a problem with my homes. Even if I did, why get mad at the girl, shouldn't you be more pissed off at your not-so-innocent-boy who "fell" for it? Come on seriously, if a guy is really in love with a girl, he wouldn't let another girl come between them. But if he didn't really care and some hot girl was like, "I WANT YOU IN MY PANTS BIG BOY" - you think they'd say no? People have raging hormones and most lack discipline and will power.

[.Promoter]

Woah this thread has been dragged out since i last looked at it.

[Gunter S]

Originally Posted by stabmyhead

SO MUCH FOR END OF STORY. THE SAGA CONTINUES AS GIRLS CONTINUE TO HOMEWREAK F*R*A*. Seriously, it sounds like you've been "homewreaked" a lot, perhaps you should build stronger foundations because I have never had a problem with my homes. Even if I did, why get mad at the girl, shouldn't you be more pissed off at your not-so-innocent-boy who "fell" for it? Come on seriously, if a guy is really in love with a girl, he wouldn't let another girl come between them. But if he didn't really care and some hot girl was like, "I WANT YOU IN MY PANTS BIG BOY" - you think they'd say no? People have raging hormones and most lack discipline and will power.

sayeth the other woman

[stabmyhead]

I just think it's all a blessing in disguise, being homewreaked. Why get all bitter over something like the uncovering of an unfaithful partner?

Bitches, players, hos, doormats, etc. they all exist for a reason. Players teach girls to be more humble, hos let guys appreciate the good girls, doormats make their partners realize that it's not always good to have a yes man ass kisser, etc. IT'S CALLED SURVIVAL DATING!

Life is really too short to get all wrapped up on the shitty things that happen to you.

[stabmyhead]

Originally Posted by Gunter S

sayeth the other woman

Don't be bitter because your coworker touches you at work and leaves you with blue balls all day.

[stabmyhead]

Hahahaha, take a chill pill, seriously! It sounded like you just blew out your hip writing that last post. Keep freaking out, it's quite entertaining how worked up you're getting over this.

F*R*A, I'm sure you're a nice girl, you just need to not take FnK so seriously. I never said you were wrong nor did I make slams towards you or your character. Don't pull a hernia, because it's just FnK.

[lildonkey]

stabmyhead: I WANT YOU IN MY PANTS BIG BOY

[Gunter S]

i think fra is the only righteous person in this thread and i'm gonna follow her example and not shack up with this girl, even if she does break up with her boyfriend.

as for people defending homewreckers, that's probably your steez to begin with

Originally Posted by FireWire

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The rule is:

Physical contact = chance

as opposed to

No physical contact = no chance
No chance = no chance

End of story.

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I call BS.

Some girls do go after the kill bf or no bf.

However Im one of the reserved kind. If I like a guy or want a guy the last thing I do is flirt with him. I will do what ever I can to be around him and wait for him to come to me. The most I will do is smile and look at him with stars in my eyes, hint to very few ppl to set us up, and pray every night that he will make a move.

Why??? Because I fear that if he thinks that I like him (which I do) If he doesn't like me back than it will make things more awkward and I wont even have the chance to be friends with him. Therefore instead I find every chance to be around him just waiting and trying to slowly bond closer. Even then im careful and make sure that he realy does like me before I start to flirt back.

I only flirt with girls, gay guys, and guy friends ive known for a while and feel comfortable around with.

[Gunter S]

Originally Posted by F*r*a*

.... I don't know if you're being sarcastic , or you are serious , but hey....thats what I stick by.

Thanks :noworry:

im being serious. props for standing up for what's right. mostly on the issue that homewreckers are wrong and by extensions, so is shacking up with them.