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My intials are D.J. Does that count? 
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i dont think they find it fun to flirt and pretend youre interested in a person for no reason, but who knows...
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I think some do fin it fun because it is an ego trip. They have no interest in a guy but they temp them to chase because it makes them feel good about themselves. I know chicks that flirt but then treat a guy like shit just to see how far she can push. I find it kinda sick.
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being passionate about something is attractive.. regardless of the medium it is expressed through.. it shows ambition and dedication.. those are admirable qualities in a person I think...
There's nothing especially attractive about a dj, really. I'd much prefer to be with some one who was educated or intelligent, who has potential to make an impression on society as a whole, rather than on one small subculture. If that person just happened to be a dj, then it would be coincidental. I wouldn't look for some one who was specifically a dj. In fact, that's not even on the list of qualities I'd look for in a person, because what is considered status in one "scene" is insignificant to another.
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I'm dating a DJ... I don't really think it's anything special considering when I met him I had know clue about this sort of music. However he seems to think I should be so proud to be a Dj's girlfriend.
He quit for a couple of years to be with me, have our fun and he recently got back into it. As a matter of fact he just spent tons of money on new decks, and is building up is record collection from scratch. I love what he does, and there are times where we will spend hours in front of his computer listening to all the new stuff and checking out what he wants to get. I have and will be going to all his shows because I want to be there to support him. I think it's great he has something he loves to do. Not many have something. The only parties I cant go to with him are the ones where you need to be an "adult"... I am 18. It's all about trust and I know I can trust my guy. I Have some issues with being jealous.... I have problems with girls fighting with me over him, trying to get down his pants and those are the times where total bitch comes in and I kick their ass. We could be in a grocery store or at the movies and girls will start taking to him and when I come up and say hi to him or hand him his drink this girl will be like "back off bitch" or whatever. For me this comes from what my parents have taught me... They have always said that I can't trust men, That no matter whenever I go out with he will cheat and lie. They have tired for years to make me insecure, have a low self esteem and no confidence. Honestly thats about the only place they sucseeded as parents. LOL Im sorry, this has just turned into a rampling about what assholes my parents are. I'm done talking now... nobody wants to hear my sad and screwed up tale. :090::090::090::090::090:
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^are you chinese? cuz i've noticed most chinese parents are like that...
mine included
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but theres still a fine line between being social and being flirtacious
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this is stupid. at first i was like "no meghan just leave the thread alone and go to bed" but i cant.
and its been said lots, but what makes a dj sexier then the next guy\girl? am i irresistable to all people who like art? does every guy in the gallery want to see my panties? no. as for the jealousy thing, its only natural to be jealous, and if you dont get a jealous feelin from other people hittin on your girl\guy, (by this i mean it makes you uncomfertable but its not like youre gonna walk up and deck the person) then i dont think you care that much. flirting is a way of communication, and when you need to sell yourself in your occupation, you gotta flirt. being a dj doesnt make you a wonderful boyfriend, you make you a wonderful boyfriend. (or a pitiful one, which ever you may be.. or even girlfriend for that matter) being a significant other of nay person with a passion there has to be understanding that at some points, alot of points, their passion comes first. if you cant understand that, then you cant understand your partner. phew.
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most djs are pretty ugly, i guess they might need some sort of gimmick to make up for it.
haha yeah right, the only girls who want someone because of their status in this particular scene are trashy losers who arent worth the effort.
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Feb 25, 04
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I do much prefer dating a (nice) DJ or someone who works with children because those are my two biggest passions in life. I love them for what they love.
ITs great being in a relationship with a DJ. We go record shopping, jam, snatch off web sites, share info on dj'ing and trax, tag team and all that fun DJ stuff. Basically what Christine said about sharing the passion with one another, which creates a great bond and relationship. I think the issues of random flirts are apart of the trust in the relationship and not the issue of being a DJ. And why aren't those silly gf/bf's of DJ's going out and supporting their DJ bf/gf instead of worrying about them at home? Last edited by Ree Fresh; Feb 25, 04 at 04:10 PM.
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lol obviously "ahem....im also a dj" lol
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He is lucky to have such a supportive person in his life...
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Feb 26, 04
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And yes being with a DJ is like being with anyone else who is passionate about something so you can insert "Tennis Player" or "Rock Climber" or anything else in place of "DJ" lol No difference.
I think those girls who dont want their boyfriends to go out and are jealous either have a reason or that's in their character to be that way - it wouldn't matter what professional their significant other was in they would still be the same way.
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Feb 26, 04
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it's all about CAK lol...
now I know you guys are all talking about dating DJs mainly, but try being the dj and finding someone to like you for you, and not cause you're a DJ! I know that sometimes that the first way you meet someone is by knowing they are a dj and then you find out who you are after that, but it's still a hard one to judge! As for Female djs, which most of them are very attractive, it must be very hard for them to get away from people. lol! Cinto PS: karig listens to "love machine" while dancing in the mirror like this :moon: Dave, yes it does count, and the manos comment! :kam:  Last edited by Cinto; Feb 26, 04 at 12:43 AM.
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Feb 26, 04
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When I used to DJ at Kits pub I got macked on all the fucking time; it's a shame I had a girlfriend for my entire tenure there. Seriously, drunk 18/19 year old girls are such idiots. I've never actually had a girlfriend that's really cared that I'm a DJ, which is nice I guess because I have all kinds of people I can talk to about DJ'ing, music and music production -- I don't need my girlfriend to be one of them.
The only time I've been hit on as a DJ in recent years was at Twisted 03 last year. I played the opening set in Room 3, and maybe 35 people saw my set, and I spent the rest of the night at the mainstage. Leaving the mainstage at around 5am this one young girl was like "you playes SUCH a great set tonight, blah blah blah". I found it hilarious as she had no idea who the hell I was or that I didn't actually play at the mainstage. Oh well, silly impressionable young girls.
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