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Feb 25, 04
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dating djs and djs who date...
An old club manager told me this years ago…
“Just remember you have a huge responsibility being the dj… everybody’s here to be your friend… all girls want to fuck you and all the guys want to be you...” That kind of mentality will get you in trouble I garentee it.. but it's not far from the truth in many respects. You're job is to entertain, flirt, and be a personality while providing the music for the evening. There’s quite a few djs on this board and no doubt a number of others who have, and are currently dating one of those adorable but difficult dj types. So what is it that makes djs "different" (and particularly hard to be with)? And for the better halves what makes it difficult? What do you love / hate about your partner, the dj? I’ve had some relationships which were perfectly fine, no problem, no concern, my girl trusted me, loved the dj side of my life and supported me in every way a partner should. Other times there have been huge jealously problems; one example was just with how much time I spend alone with my records instead of paying attention to her. Or my personal favourite ….“All of the girls in that club just want to fuck you so I don’t want you to go….” ….“I’ll see you in the morning honey” he said as he walked out the door, records in hand.. So please share some experiences and thoughts... Last edited by soma; Feb 25, 04 at 06:39 AM. 
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I love everything about my "DJ" boyfriend. There are no problems between us because of it at all. Its fine with me if he spends tons of time on the decks, because I myself have a busy schedule and lots to do so he can spin spin spin all he wants while I do my own thing ~ we live together also so have lots of time to be together. Not to mention I love music so it's nice having him play it for me all the time! :silly:
As far as the whole "jealously" issues that can come up - there aren't any here - anyone can want to fuck him all they want, doesn't bother me, he'll always be coming home with me :) Complete trust. The only thing that I can say is difficult is probably the money factor. Records are so expensive! So at times it feels as though we have different goals in mind, working towards something different - but when it comes down to it, I know we are looking in the same direction.
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Feb 25, 04
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i dono bout this, just cuz ur a dj dont make u better then that qwiet boy at the back of the room dont flatter yourselves no offence soma i think ur a cool guy an all i dont think i have ever wanned to fuck a dj on this bord(just cuz hes a dj) but i bet manos has the best fingers. but i guess there are girls who love the spotlight for me it was hard enough being "qute bobbys girlfriend"
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I have been Dj'ing for over 12 years and have found the number 1 problem I have had with Girlfriends is that they have a hard time understanding that even part of the job involves flirting with other ladies. If the girls like you and keep comming out to your nights then guys will follow and the club/event promoter is going to want to have you back time and time again. I have explained that it is just flirting and nothing more but I can understand how tough it can be. This is why the majority of my ex's I didn't like them comming out to my nights because I new it's not going to be a fun time for them as I can not give them the attention I would like to throughout the night and having them constantly keeping an eye on me is not a fun night for them. Please keep in mind that anyone who hasn't dated a Dj thinks that most of us are just dogs but in all honesty the majoity of us, away from the scene, are really not the same person we are percieved to be when Dj'ing. Most of us are like actors in a movie where we become a entertainer in front of an audience but are quite the opposite when not entertaining.
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Ahhh, Dave. SCARIA 51 WHUT? 
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None of my gf's have cared, girls dont like my style :(
i should have been a house dj :(
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I think if you date a dj... or any person of that sort, you shouldn't stand in way of what they love to do.
Nore be jealous of girls wanting to be with your man. "All of the girls in that club just want to fuck you so I don’t want you to go".....  for that remark........ just think to your self this sexy boy will be back for me.soma if your girlfriend is really hot Every guy would want to fuck her... So it works both ways. :c-tard: :BB: for the girls if your guy really digs you.... he'll be back of corse hes going to look at females. cuz damn, we have so much sex appeal. :kam:
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Feb 25, 04
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no djs are better then normal boys
especially rave djs hahaha no offence unless u spin wikkid dancehall with passion then ur just rad , dont mean i want to fuck you. i think we all wanned dj's and a certan mc when we were noobies. but not now
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I am most passionate about my music and the arty farty stuff that I do. It is what drives me. Are girls or boys attracted to that passion when they see a musician/ dj/ performer? “ and the groupie was born…” Look at move stars and star hockey players… Are we in love with our hero or the in love with the idea of it? that’s my big question.. Quote:
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bedroom dj's are so hawt lol...especialy when they play house....ahem Iv herd of /seen so many dj's trying so hard to get with girls at clubs/raves , so in my view its not like just cause there a dj right when they walk into a room every girl wants to fuck them. Its all about personality anyways...
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it's just a job
my gf is friends with several dj's.. i'm not worried i think what makes it hard is most dj's have dayjobs, so it's like they're working 2 jobs.. and that's hard on a couple no matter what the second job is
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