Help! I Can't Flirt!

acidic_liquid · #1 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

Hmmm this is hypothetical by the way :p

Say there's a really hot guy or girl in your class. But you're not in the same tutorial so you don't really have any reason to talk. How do you start a conversation?

And saying HI isn't good enough :(

*runs around nervously*

lithe · #2 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

ask to borrow a pen.

or inquire about an upcoming essay/midterm/project.

make some comment about how you love/hate the prof... instigate conversation.

smile smile smile.

Chewy · #3 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

inquire about there clothes .. mention that someone you know has the same thing... ask them where they got it... and then try carrying it on from there

dapimpstress · #4 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

find one thing about that person than u identify with.. something you are into, that u can tell they are into.. and start up a convo about it...

i.e. graff on their hat? * hey, do you write too? *

mapleleaf4ever · #5 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

*takes notes*

Chewy · #6 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

ask them how they are doing in the class... ... questions that are still on topic of why you are both in there

you dont wanna ask them wierd shit... they might get scared off

dont do any thing i tell you.. im just as bad with breaking the ice as you might be.. or even worse....

Chewy · #7 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by Ashes

find one thing about that person than u identify with.. something you are into, that u can tell they are into.. and start up a convo about it...

i.e. graff on their hat? * hey, do you write too? *

what if i said that her eyes ^^^ were intoxicating... ????

acidic_liquid · #8 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

I DO like the way he dresses lol.

Jebus I'm such a pussy :(

MEOW (with a capital M E O W)

dapimpstress · #9 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by acidic_liquid

I DO like the way he dresses lol.

Jebus I'm such a pussy :(

MEOW (with a capital M E O W)

can u see any brands? u could walk by n be liek, oh man, that's my fave... blah blah blah...

dapimpstress · #10 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by Chewy

what if i said that her eyes ^^^ were intoxicating... ????

whose eyes? im sure she'd be flattered. ps- i liek ur avatar SO MUCH better now. propz.

acidic_liquid · #11 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by Chewy

what if i said that her eyes ^^^ were intoxicating... ????

That's a no :p

acidic_liquid · #12 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

The thing with me is, I give great advice on this sort of thing. I'd be saying some of the things you guys mentioned. But when it comes to helping myself... I'm just beyond hope.

Plus I'm sick, so I don't feel too confident. Not at all.

Chewy · #13 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by Ashes

whose eyes? im sure she'd be flattered. ps- i liek ur avatar SO MUCH better now. propz.

i did it just for you..
i cant tell you whos eyes.. but i think you can probly figure that out

mapleleaf4ever · #14 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

Awww.... I'm flattered.... *bats eyelashes*

dapimpstress · #15 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by acidic_liquid

The thing with me is, I give great advice on this sort of thing. I'd be saying some of the things you guys mentioned. But when it comes to helping myself... I'm just beyond hope.

Plus I'm sick, so I don't feel too confident. Not at all.

here's ma trick.. because i have never felt nervous to talk to someone, or scared, or shy at all... but i think thats jus a character thign....

n e way... the trick is.... DONT THINK, JUS DO IT. its alot easier this way.

dapimpstress · #16 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by mapleleaf4ever

Awww.... I'm flattered.... *bats eyelashes*

*giggle* ROFL *giggle*

Chewy · #17 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by acidic_liquid

The thing with me is, I give great advice on this sort of thing. I'd be saying some of the things you guys mentioned. But when it comes to helping myself... I'm just beyond hope.

Plus I'm sick, so I don't feel too confident. Not at all.

i totaly know where your coming from... and i am also sick...

hey.. ask mojo... he is always good at helping out.

i find that .. if you have a sister or a female that you grew up with and are comfortable with.. then you will do alot better at interacting with new ones... but some people that dont have that relationship may have a harder time

Chewy · #18 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by mapleleaf4ever

Awww.... I'm flattered.... *bats eyelashes*

oh eric... your such a dream

Chewy · #19 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by Ashes

here's ma trick.. because i have never felt nervous to talk to someone, or scared, or shy at all... but i think thats jus a character thign....

n e way... the trick is.... DONT THINK, JUS DO IT. its alot easier this way.

yea.. just DO IT

dapimpstress · #20 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by Chewy

yea.. just DO IT

hahahaha like nike right?

Chewy · #21 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by Ashes

hahahaha like nike right?

yes
;)

hardstylin · #22 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

just bust the nod man, if the give it back or laugh or do anything but flip the bird make a witty comment and move in.

Jeaninah · #23 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

bat your eyelashes in his/her general direction and giggle. ohhh teehhee hee!! Also biting/licking your lips is a super way to attract someones attention.

hah lol

(edit, I mean ohhh tee heee hee)

dapimpstress · #24 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

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Originally Posted by hardstylin

just bust the nod man, if the give it back or laugh or do anything but flip the bird make a witty comment and move in.

ooooOOOOoooo stealth mode!

Chewy · #25 (**permalink**) Feb 22, 05

or you could walk into the class naked and sit on her/ his desk and then wrap your feet behind your head