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May 10, 02
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trying to get over your ex...
when he is everywhere you are
and his name is always brought up or you see his face at the club that you thought he never went to *sigh* it's been 4 months since we broke up and i spent 2 of those months emotionless and numb and now i'm dealing with everything at once does anyone have any tips for a broken heart that just wants to get over it once and for all and move on? *hugs* nathaniel kristofer 
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May 13, 02
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well if you're a prick, find a new boi and have alot of fun infront of your ex until he blows his top... but i think it's an important part in a break up to let the other person know that you're doing fine without them... don't let off any weakness, it just feeds their ego...
but if you're not the type rub it in someone's face, just find some new hangouts or lock yourself in your room for the summer, that's always healthy...
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May 13, 02
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i saw one of my ex's at superstore shopping with her new man or whatever... so i took a dive into aisle 7 trying to avoid her... i don't like to force encounters and i avoid conflict as much as i can... unless the other person is such a hoe, i'll chase after her with eggs...
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May 13, 02
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Bob, were you at Radiance making out with a white chick when you saw me there? hahah. Weren't you supposed to run me and Max over with a moped?
Nathaniel: If he's deep into the raver community/scene, maybe take a break from it, if you surround yourself around something that he's deeply involved in, then you're obviously going to hear about him or see him...
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May 14, 02
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Hmmm...been there done that.......
I think only time can heal the pain right now.... Keeping yourself busy doing other things...start a new hobby..hang out with your friends...night times are the worse..cause there's so much time to just think and think and think...and get sadder and sadder...so during the nights read a book or start a diary (if you dont have one already)...in the diary just write whatever comes to mind...it helps you vent your feelings (sometimes friends can get sick of hearing you being so depressed)... errr..if all fails...EAT CHOCOLATE AND SHOP ^_^... You'll be fine !!!
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May 14, 02
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Well I know what that feels like. I remember when everything would remind me of someone. Drove me crazy, especially being at the same clubs/events...argh! It took quite a while, especially since I really cared about that person. But I soon realized, that it was obvious he didn't care since he could treat me like that. It's hard getting over someone you care about. You know what, I don't think you get over anyone, you move on yes, but special people will always have a special place in your heart. It took a while, but I have moved on and am happy. But my best suggestion, is get out and do new things, go to new places, where you won't run into your ex. Until you can seriously say you could handle seeing him with someone else, and be happy....stay away!! I saw an ex on Valentines Day, while I was with my new boyfriend, and you know what it hurt & it still would a little. But it all takes time. Fall back on your friends, that's what they are there for. No boy is ever more important than your friends!!! And indulge in a little chocolate here and there too! Good luck!
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May 14, 02
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i've been finding a ton of satisfaction in meditation and reading and poetry. the last week has actually been much more enlightening. and yeah journals help out so much because i have been able to watch my emotions and make sure that i don't just go around in circles.
i am realizing now that he is not the guy for me anymore. we are too different now. i'm not even sure if friendship is a possibility anymore, although he is pushing it. staying away from parties and clubs is helping though. i'm not planning on going out again until next month :p too much work to do :) *huggles*
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May 14, 02
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May 22, 02
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I went to court for doing such a thing
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May 22, 02
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i guess i dont have feelings
cus if i had 2 get over an ex i cood do it rite after i was dumped. cus like face it, its over... dont crie about it just move on. theres no point wasting your time if its over. just find sum1 new. and ull soon find sum1 even better
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