Being let down by people you care about

[Serotonin]

You know that energy is neither created or destroyed and that when you are supportive to people it can in turn drain you.One thing i know is that recently i've been let down by people i care about mainly my mom and my ex.I've really been trying to bounce back but i just feel like i don't have much left atm.There's a saying to keep your highs not so high and your lows not so low and then you'll be fine guess i should take heed to that.

[Dayzie Dukes]

You let me down many times Pete, that's why I left I am sorry to say. I loved you and would have done anything for you, but you didn't care about anything when we were together. You are a great guy and I am sure you will find someone whom you really honestly love deep down in your heart and will do anything for them. I hope everything works out for you in the future. Fate works in mysterious ways. What once was, will never be again...

[LiveOnJim]

None of my business but what ever happened to people caring anymore regardless of being a past

[FireWire]

Some people just don't have will and desire to carry on what used to be "cool" in the past...

It can be ANYTHING that influenced them to make that change.

[narc]

Originally Posted by Serotonin

You know that energy is neither created or destroyed and that when you are supportive to people it can in turn drain you.One thing i know is that recently i've been let down by people i care about mainly my mom and my ex.I've really been trying to bounce back but i just feel like i don't have much left atm.There's a saying to keep your highs not so high and your lows not so low and then you'll be fine guess i should take heed to that.

time for a spontaneous roadtrip / hike / getaway

p.s. leave the cell phone at home

[LiveOnJim]

Thats the thing people are sooo fast to give up rather than work hard for something, its always the easy way out, its not like im saying people should force themselves to be together, there isn't enough love in this world :(

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

I had alot of issues about 'being let down' as a child that I carried with me into adulthood. I let these issues trouble my relationships with a few close people in my life. I really didnt understand how bad *I* let it affect me until my best friend's mom recommended I see a counsellor. I was mortified. I did not need a counsellor. But I caved...and I went. Twice.

It was seriously one of the best things I ever did. It made me realize that I was the reason these issues still exsisted. When you expect so much from someone even though they usually let you down..it becomes your fault. You are setting yourself up for heartache. You cant expect more from a person then what they can give.

I agree with narc, you should take a little trip or get away for the day and think about yourself. You are the only one who can improve your quality of life. Only you can truly make yourself happy.

Good luck =)

[Serotonin]

Originally Posted by Dayzie Dukes

You let me down many times Pete, that's why I left I am sorry to say. I loved you and would have done anything for you, but you didn't care about anything when we were together. You are a great guy and I am sure you will find someone whom you really honestly love deep down in your heart and will do anything for them. I hope everything works out for you in the future. Fate works in mysterious ways. What once was, will never be again...

thank you but the heartfelt reply was unneccessary .I wasn't looking for an explanation God bless. I don't believe in fate.