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Jan 17, 07
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2nd chances
Whats everyones take on second chances? my ex cheated on me but lately we've been talking alot and shes hinted she wants to get back together and shes sorry for doing it etc, and i donno im sorta thinking maybe? Is it worth it?
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Never say never. This is one of those parts of relationships that's a total gray area.
Remember that there's three sides to every story. Yours, theirs, and the truth. Are you ready to forgive? Are they at least somewhat remorseful about what happened? In reality, nobody can tell you what's right or wrong in this situation. I'll tell you this much though, if you take her back you won't have the same trust you had before. That much is guaranteed. Trust is one of those things that is earned, not given.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. I would only be thinking about getting back together with them if we had broken up on different terms. But when these kinds of things happen you have to say to yourself, "We broke up for a reason" and just remember exactly all the reasons why. Don't let her blind you again
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kick that hoe in the junk and find a women who will respect you
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you gotta ask yourself.. "why does she want to get back together", you'll soon realize that she likes to fuck (or suck dick..) SHE LIKE TO CHEAT. but she misses her comfort zone, she feels secure with you. But, careful. she could cheat on you again. Therefore, your previous horrible feeling that you've had time to forget will deffinitely come back. My suggestion: dont do it.
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Jan 17, 07
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She had you and she fucked up. She needs to realize that.
In the end its your call. But personaly, I wouldnt want to get back with her. Id always be wondering if she would ever do it again. Its just not worth that.
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Jan 17, 07
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hahahahahaha
my personal fav "ya'll dont know me" what's not to know? you slept with 50 guys and you dont know who's the father. I might be stereotyping here.. but you're a huge slut. (and not you personally, but that was to the guests of the show)
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Jan 17, 07
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oh maury, how trashy you make TV
I like the ones where they send the kids to boot camp because their parents can't handle them... I'd cry too if a drill sergeant was shouting at me like that "You're a fucking piece of scum, you go apologize to your momma, she deserves respect, I don't take fucking shit from no one"
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Jan 17, 07
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he can scream all he want (whoops, i forgot to finish what i was saying here), there's nothing officer crazy pants can do, he cant hit you. otherwise he'll get fined or jailed... i want to see a kid fight back and not take any of his shit.
then do really crappy at bootcamp and at the interview tell officer crazy pants to go fuck himself. then stop being mean to your parents and be mean to everyone else.
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Jan 17, 07
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Yea i know once a cheater always a cheater, but i sorta believe in the three strikes your out kinda thing, she told me right away that she is remorseful for it, like everytime i talk to her she says shes sorry, and i just ask her not to bring it up. I knwo that trust would already be up in the air again and shes telling me she'll do whatever it takes to gain it back sorta thing, but theres always that fear that you know she will do it again. She's a really wicked girl just jaded by her past and the thing that i guess draws me to her is that i think i can be the one to prove her wrong sorta thing, to like you know Let her finally believe that someone can be genuine and everything and actually mean it.
So im at like a cross road, take diggers advice and kick the hoe in the junk or to you know be the nice guy i am and give her a second chance. Oh jerry springer WHERE art thou?
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Jan 17, 07
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b-rizzo you shouldn't have to settle for dirty sluts.
you seem like a genuinely good guy, get yourself a nice christian girl or something. You've got the force on your side.
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Jan 17, 07
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Its not that im going to do it i just wanna know peoples takes on the situation like where do second chances stand with people.
and Evil if i could find myself a nice girl right now id prolly be the happiest guy in the world, but those right now seem to be few and far apart lol
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is cheating acceptable to you? if yes, then redefine your relationship into a polyamorous one. if no, then KICK HER TO THE CURB. you are likely suffering from oneitis. it is a treatable condition.
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