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Jan 24, 07
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That's fine... nothing is wrong with you.
I don't know this yet because I have never felt it but I was told that at some point in our lives, a subconscious switch gets flipped in our brains which activates the urge to find a life partner and reproduce, in order to ensure our survival. |
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Jan 24, 07
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For human beings, marriage is such an unnatural state - a misconception from the very beginning, and a terribly outdated and flawed institution.
The best of luck to anyone silly enough to embark down that route! :) To quote your custom user title... Quote:
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Uuhhh... o.O |
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Have two Kids.
One to mow the Lawn and do errands and one to do the Housework so when you're older you can do whatever you please without the hassle. |
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It's completely natural. For the longest time I told myself I wasn't going to have kids, then one day it just felt right. Now, my son's almost 3 and I couldn't be more happier to have him and my husband. I think everyone feels it at some point in their life.
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Jan 24, 07
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Nothing's wrong with you.
Like Nev said, it's ok to change your mind. I personally never wanted kids or to get married either... but the "older I get" (puke x 200000) and the more I work with the boy/girl-teens at the jail, the more I want children.... with the right person, ofcourse. |
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Everyone from as early as 17 or 18 years old has urges to be their own and start a family. Its just part of growing up. But our polulation is rising so largely and we have so many crack head and needy babys without a family at all that need your help. So if you want to do something nice, maybe adopt?
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nothings wrong with you...
I agree with cool-water. I've had these strange impulses to start a family since I was around 18, it's natural. Not that I would actually start a family so young, but the instinct is definately there. |
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Jan 24, 07
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I don't think it's unnatural at all... marriage can be a beautiful thing through the good and bad, children are a blessing even if they are alot of work... I know I want to settle down one day and do it all up, the hosue, the husband and the kids... my daughter will do ballet... if she wants to (she'd be following in her mom's foot steps)
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But whatever you do dont throw yourself at some gal or dude for marriage because in todays world its like a classic tale. real love doesnt include signitures. just the ppl that want half ur shit go for sigzz
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Jan 25, 07
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Hormones? Don't fret, a lot of people (women in particular) go through this shift at some point in their lives.
I don't know what set it off, but one day I just couldn't stop noticing older men with kids, and how much I wanted both. |
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Jan 25, 07
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its called growing up and realizing that going to clubs,getting hammard and living recklessley isnt fun forever...
ive always wanted to startup a family....but when im a little older like around 28-30 or so. ill take my kids backpacking all around the world at a young age....like 6-11 or so. its always a highlight on one of my trips to run into young backpacker families. |
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Jan 26, 07
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^^ either color works
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Jan 26, 07
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Jan 26, 07
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kids are great.They`ll change you in ways you never thought possible.They open your eyes to how they view the world,and you`ll forever see things from a different perspective.You`ll realize that once youve had children,how selfish and reprehnsible you were before.And NO,thats not an attack on you but a truthful statement for every parent.
Kids are a great way to soften your heart and humble your soul,I think thats what you need because youre a vile cunt:) |
