SO, there's this girl.

[NinjaBoy]

Originally Posted by ppcock

but sometimes, i get better acquainted and then she finds someone else.. i want to try and avoid that.
How do I let her know im interested without going too far?

Basically, like people have said here, hang out with a group.


Then make the group smaller. Get in some good face time with her, find some common interest (ie concert). Purpose the two of you do something together relating to this. If she says yes, ask her out to dinner before. Be very clear with the dinner invitation as a date. IE- Would you like to go out for dinner before?

An excellent way to gauge if she's into you is if you are in one of these small group activities and she seeks out you for a conversation.

[inside]

YouTube - monkey peeing in his own mouth

I win!

[NinjaBoy]

Wow from:

Stop being a pussy and ask her out. How old are you man? This sounds like stupid grade 8 shit.

to

Originally Posted by inside

I still think it's funny.
Relevance is; Marty needs some confidence apparently.

I was thinking he should think that "this is my new haircut".

Marty just have fun bro, and don't worry about stuff too much.

in less then an hour...

Realized your first few comments were fucking retarded?

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by ppcock

but sometimes, i get better acquainted and then she finds someone else.. i want to try and avoid that.
How do I let her know im interested without going too far?

flirt - Google Search

A little nuance can go a long way.

[inside]

Originally Posted by NinjaBoy

Wow from:



to



in less then an hour...

Realized your first few comments were fucking retarded?

No still stand by them %100. It was a kick in the ass.

Couldn't find an older video?

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by inside

Couldn't find an older video?

Not a video but just as relevant

[inside]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Not a video but just as relevant

respect!!!!! Wow that was a long time ago.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Everyone else has said all the wisdom that should help you.

So I'll just wish you good luck.

Stick it in her bum when you get to that stage!

[Krusha]

with a strong sense of imagination/will place yourself in the mindset that things are already how you want them ... it would help which in this case if you'd have no hangups saying whatever to said girl because it's like your talking to someone you're completely comfortable with

if this doesn't work, ask her somewhere in a john revolver kosher way and have a little drink to dull the edge off

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by NinjaBoy

Seriously man, give up. You've made what, four posts in this thread. And so far nobody has acknowledged you except to say you are an idiot.

Give it up. Yes, looking at your avatar we can tell you are a smoother player who gets all the girls. It doesn't matter.

You've become the loud guy at the club who makes the same dumb dick joke at the beginning of the night and looks for high fives every time he repeats it.

yo homeboy, thats not fair, ive played the dumb dickhead at the club role before and i dont think i was as hurtin as inside...i mean shit, i was wearing a pegasus belt...that shit was balling

inside is on a whole nother level, he's the marty dude at the club, he be putting ghb in them girls drinks.

[inside]

Originally Posted by SEAN!

yo homeboy, thats not fair, ive played the dumb dickhead at the club role before and i dont think i was as hurtin as inside...i mean shit, i was wearing a pegasus belt...that shit was balling

inside is on a whole nother level, he's the marty dude at the club, he be putting ghb in them girls drinks.

sorry mate. not happening.

Best thing is to just smile, if she smiles back your in a bit, then talk to her. That's when the fun begins. This appilies to where ever you are in the world in any situation, not just at clubs.

If all else fails use some rohypnol, ghb pffttt, fucking noobs.

[stabmyhead]

Originally Posted by ppcock

That works on a different floor, i met her a few days ago and I cannot stop thinking about her.
How do I go about doing this? We have the same circle of friends and i'm pretty deathly afraid of rejection.
but, i'm not one of those awkward guys. I'm pretty sick and tired of the whole 1 night stand and up until this week I was pretty afraid of commitement. But, with her, i would totally be into having a long term relationship.

Are you guys in the same department but different floors? Work relationships can be complicated and stressful, so you gotta be sure you want to take it there. The best thing is that she works on a different floor so if there is rejection, you won't have to see her all the time, it just may be a bit awkward with friends. Problem is news in the office travels fast. So really, BE CERTAIN you want to take it there... because work can be boring and office drama, although gets quickly replaced with new drama - can make work a living hell. You may have to dig up new work drama to get people to stop talking about yours :P

I say take it slow, because a lot of people can be hesitant to take on an office romance. Watch how she interacts with others and see if she's interested or just a casual office flirt. Tell her you need a break and you want to grab some coffee - most people, unless super busy, want any excuse to escape work! Find out what she's interested in - common hobbies are one of the easiest way to build a relationship from. Or maybe challenge her to a game (like turn based tic tac toe) while you guys are bored at work. It'll give you an excuse to go up and check to see how she's doing and it's playful.

Work is great for building the foundations of relationships because you get an opportunity to get to know them, how they deal with stress, build trust, etc.

JUST MAKE SURE YOU WANT TO TAKE IT THERE FIRST. There is a lot riding on work relationships if you want to take it further.

[Revolver]

Originally Posted by cubed

WHERE THE HELL IS JUAN WITH A FACE PALM JPG??????

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i see wat you did there!

basically ive gotten to the point where all my posts will be 'perma palmed'

[hardstylin]

pull out your cock and ask her what she thinks of it.

[SEAN!]

Originally Posted by hardstylin

pull out your cock and ask her what she thinks of it.

good advice, that has actually worked for me before

[Grapes]

I just got here, has anyone said pics or stfu yet?

[ppcock]

sorry guys.. here she is

[ebbomega]

Looks like she gives awesome head.

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Oh yeah. And here's a big one that so many uncomfortable guys succumb to:

FLIRT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD.

It can be pretty detrimental to your purposes if you go to ask out a chick and you're not even blipping on her sexual-interest radar. Seen too many guys crash and burn because they ask out a chick at point blank range and she had absolutely no clue or indication that he was into her, probably hadn't even considered the prospect. When faced with a prompting like that she doesn't really have any choice except to say no.

that is great advice if you're not confident enough to go right in and ask them to hang out.

though i feel like with marty if he seems himself in a long term relationship with her, then she probably flirts back.

:P

[tiedye]

I'm surprised it has some semblance of being human.


Marty's tastes are improving.

[ppcock]

strawberry shortcake no problem!

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by tiedye

Marty's tastes are improving.

Hey, at least this one has teeth....

[Grapes]

AHHHHHHHH IT BURNS o

[ebbomega]

Originally Posted by Grapes

AHHHHHHHH IT BURNS o

ZE GOGGLES! ZEY DO NUSSING!

[tiedye]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Hey, at least this one has teeth....

Hopefully this one won't gnaw on shoes like the last one though... I mean, one tooth does a lot more damage than rotting nerve endings.