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Jan 20, 03
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'friend' issues..
I hate them...
I'm having them right now in general.. and just dont know wut to think.. fuck.. I'm soooo close to dropping sooo many people like flies right now.. and just forget soo much.. I'm so pissed off.. I dont exactly wanna get into this totaly cause theres sooo much shit but fuck.. theres so much to say right now and I dont know how to get it out... I've like typed it 5 diffrent ways.. but just no way.. it sounds like I'm making myself clear.. and I dont know how.. fuck.. I duno wut to sya.. I'm just pissed cause.. the people I consider friends.. like true friends.. I dont think think the same way which hurts.. let alone.. if I do consider some one a good friend..I would do a lot for them and have.. but I get/got nothing.. not even a thanx you which I would appreciate soo much.... I'm in the 'hating people mood'... right now.. but christ.. all these friend issues that are just in my mind.. are like killing me.. I dunno if I'm making any sense at all.. and I dont think I am.. but yeha. anyone have general friend issues? [I'd so wanna keep this with just friends.. but its just that.. I'm questioning friends at the moment.. and want a kinda.. I guess group thing happening] UGH 
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Jan 20, 03
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Don't put high expectations on people to come through for you. People look out for themselves and it will leave you feeling bitter. If you're a good person with the best of intentions, you can build people up in your mind to be these great generous people that you think are there for you and feel for you and will do for you what you have done for them. This just sets you up for feeling let down. If you approach your friendships on a more casual basis you may have less pain to go thropugh in the future. I think we all have to learn to make people EARN our friendship instead of giving it away and taking the risk it won't be given back. To invest love, honesty, compassion and everything else only for the relationship to become defunct hurts like a muther fucker.
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Jan 20, 03
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i get what you mean..i'm not having major friend issues..but lately i feel as if i have no friends...i know they're there..but it just doesn't seem that way..u gotta be careful with who u trust and consider as a true friend...it's so easy to be taken for granted by people..if they are your good friend or not..and when u want to tell them how u feel..be blunt..it's so much easier to be blunt then to hint it and have them be confused with what you say~
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Jan 20, 03
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k... one thing is I dont give away my friendship... are you fucking kiddin me? thats like saying to a complete strager.. that you trust them to hold on to a million dollars for a day and you wnat it back by the end of the day.. and same goes with trust.. let alone.. I have tlike th huges trust issues and dont trust anyone..
but its just friends.. they suck.. well friend dont but people do.. and ugh.. FUCK I dont know anymore.. I dislike everyone.
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Jan 20, 03
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I say go smack some heads around!! If you don't like the situation you're in with your good friends, work it out, or cut out. There are more people out there in the world who would probably be your friend, (well knowing you, a few people) but they're our there. Go find your good friends, go on, go go!!
Umm... good luck! :kam:
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omg... thats about the only funneh thing I've read all night.. thanx jay ;) but no.. I'm not complaining baout my friends.. fuck. I dont even have that many imo.. but like I said.. my thread just wasnt clear enough.. your takingit the WRONG way.. FUC
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