being shy, knees wobbling, how do I?

[Rayeine]

To all those shy guys out there, how would you want to be approached?....i mean, im not going to just wait around, but I am quite shy myself.


a little help my fellow fnk'ers?



thanks. :kimmie:

[decypher]

i can be shy around new people , if its a girl, usually if she is one of those talkative, warm smile, funny types it usually opens me up quicker...

[mojo]

alchohol helps with matters such as these.
if none is available, try writing a note or someshit. yes, quite childish, but shit, it works.

or just say" yo, i like your ass in those pants" or something along those lines.

luck

[kodama-jay]

if you're going for a shy guy..
you have to be more aggressie yourself..
the reason he's so shy... is because he's afraid of being rejected...
if you make it more obvious that you would like to see something happen.. then he'll start to think of what he can do...

try to read the type of person he is.. and then from there play that angle to your advantage

[Bevvy Swift]

true, true. some guys (like me) just don't get it. it'll take me soo fuckn long to figure out if girl likes me or not. although it not like i nevre get mixed signals or anything. just be straight up. you don't actually have to sat anything, but make it obvious via your body lannguage, (look him in the eyes, VERY important, and smile) and he'll prolly catch on.

[ebbomega]

I say hurl. If you blow chunks and he comes back, he's yours. If you spew and he bolts, it was never meant to be.

[galaxie]

flirt like crazy!
place yourself within his view and make subtle eye contact for a little while, accidentally bump into him while dancing (in a club-like environment, esp if he's dancing with a chick not as hot as you!), etc

or you could just walk right up and ask him what his name is, tell him yours, tell him you think he's fine, bat the eyelashes and walk off

if he's interested, I guarantee he'll approach you ASAP
guys love the confident flirt =)

good luck!

[Bevvy Swift]

i like that one. makes it easy.

[Discord]

i'm really shy myself.
and i'm attracted to really shy guys.... thus we both end up being really to shy to talk to eachother.

but when one works up the courage... its such a cute fun relationship.



i'd say warm smile, friendly touch on the arm or something, most shy people really loved to be hugged... :kimmie:

[Rayeine]

*grin* well we talk a little now. It is a little strange, but I agree with the whole eye contact/smile thing.
I may look like a dork
:)but atleast tibits of progress are in the running.

thanks for all your help.

[Discord]

I did that with my ex for like 2 weeks before HE talked to me.. :( but he got his friend to come up with him.

yeah

was fun and cute and geeky



once i had a crush on this short gothic hobbit. and he like, wobled around my school i *loved* him... he was soo werid, i just couldn't help crushing.

but he had this really mean really big butch girlfriend. and i was like this little short "goth" chick.... and when ever he saw me, we'd blush and he'd smile all cutely... and i'd smile back.

and we'd get all giddy and stuff... and he'd always try to cuddle his girlfriend, but she'd push him away. and i'm like *SNUGGLE MEEEE!!* :kimmie:

then i dated someone (whos his best friend now) and he's kinda give this :soak: look when he saw us.

but then his girlfriend found out i was crushing, and she was all "im gonna kick her little ass, lets go kill that bitch and set her on fire"

so i avoided him... she was all talk anyways. now he's a home boy raper wanna be

XECO WHAT?

:hehe:

[tribal_guy]

yes b straight up. or do the confident flirt thing. i also do get mixed signals and it drives me nuts.

[djastroglide]

internet flirtin' is a good way too...easier to compose yer thoughts. i hate that speechless feelin or nonsensical jabbering that happens sometimes in real life :toasted:

although that only goes so far....have to face reality sometime :soak:

[Rayeine]

hehehe DIscord, you always humor me.

Shucks, i need to meet you soon!
Then we can go hunting for those nerdy boys.
*pause* OoO Star Wars episode 3, May 25.2005...maybe a little long to wait, but ill be counting the days.


shhhh

and may the force be with you. :kam:
(Qui Gon Jin, will always had the best hair)


seeyya!
Charlie

[Special_J]

This guy can't possibly be as good as Steve can he??? Dont' ruin my plans by falling for this other guy!!! :hehe:

[kodama-jay]

i'll tell you a great story... and it shows that you have to have guts to get what you want.

i was a supervisor at the pne one year.. and i noticed we hired this really interesting girl.. for some reason i was captivated.. she was basically hired to stand and look pretty her first year =) during the whole time i was a supervisor i never went to talk to her.. only admired from a distance.. i wasn't very confident back then..

a year passes and we're back at the pne... and i bump into this girl again.. and we being a series of chats (i know you're reading.. remember the cart??)

continuing on... we begin to grow very close and to me.. it seems like a can't go a day without seeing her..

after plans of opening a business...
watching a basement concert for one..
and the purchase of a giant sanrio doll with 2 tech12's and a mixer...

things went well...

i ended up finding out that when i noticed her.. she noticed me... back when she was first hired.. but no one would have known about how eachother felt.. unless someone said it first...

best of luck..

**to that person.. still have the doll??? i have the glasses =)