I think im in love with someone else

[BabyBlaze]

my dogs name is mugsy...i think when i wrote this i was a lot confused...i just read all ur comments now...thnx so much for u advice...i agree with all of u...haha i dont think i ever would have done anything with the other guy...if i was still with my bf...i decided to stay with him but i cant handle him anymore... i borke up with him and he came to me crying saying he was sorry (i broke up with him for other reasons...the way he was treating me) and he said he would change but i cried and so no...i wont go back out with u....but by the end of the weekend we were going out again...he promised to control his temper and shit....but now only a week or two later no change...he fucking yells at me for practically no reason and calls me names and shit...and if it happens one more time its over totally,,,it just sux cuz its xmas...but i cant shed another tear over his sorry ass cuz its not worth it...i used to be so out going and happy always...no my confidence is low and im always upset...and when i am happy talking to him...usuallly will make me sad again cuz he will say something to me to make me up set....i dont know any more...:(

[c.tard]

^ if he treats you like shit, then get out of the relationship. even if you love him, what good is it if he's ruining you? calling you names, yelling at you, putting you down.. that's not what a boyfriend does. you deserve to be treated better than that, and unless you decide to do something about it, it'll never change.

goodluck in whatever you do..

[Kraig]

The reality of things is... if you are "with" someone out of habit, which it sounds to me that you are, and you are thinking of someone else or are more so wanting to "validate feelings" with another person, the writing is on the wall.

We all change over time... the people we date and have relationships with ultimately have us realize what we want and are looking for and thus help us mature that much more... It appears your current boyfriend has done just that... you have grown, and matured and thus lost that "spark. Expect it to happen a few more times as well... you are 17 and still figuring all that sheat out!

Cheers.

[mugsy]

you'll be just fine without him. every lady deserves to be some boys princess.

[Lil Jenna]

You dont know what you got till it's gone...

You may want this guy now but it anything happend how would you feel when you saw your bf again? Just think about it.

[lildonkey]

babyblaze, this is what i think.....

i bet your boy just fell in love with you, and now maybe after a while your getting bored and u wanna party again etc etc.... and he gets jelous....... and doesnt really want you to do things.... i know it sounds like he has a bad temper.. but maybe he just loves you and doesnt know how to deal with those feelings yet, i know i have a hard time now when my girl goes out and partys with her friends... either way... if you go and see the other guy... even if you dont fuck him.... yous a hoe.

[Senior]

Sounds like the current bf is a loser. So do all women a favor and get a pair of these, then put them to use.

[Senior]

P.S. any wife beaters out there can feel free to step in front of a bus.

[-stinkay-]

^werd~ gf, even if you had fond memories n shit...GIVE IT UP....at your age..at any age under 20, you shouldnt have to work for a relationship...especially salvage it from the junkyard...youre not going anywhere stuck to this kid... just rationalise...are you sad, depressed, upset, crying more than youre happy? if you even have to think bout it, its time to move on

and this time dont be like all otha stupid hoes and jump from one relationship to anotha, and with the same type of guy too~ take some time out for yerself~

[party_babe]

Ive been there b4... Talk to a guy about how he needs to change and how your unhappy theyll swear that it wont happen again but in a couple days its like u never even spoke to them about it :finger:

[Veni*C]

Originally posted by Lil Jenna
You dont know what you got till it's gone...

so true. :(

[crackdragon]

First of all the guy sounds like a loser, and from the sounds of it you'll be alot better off without him. May hurt at first but after you give it some time you will realise you have done the right thing.
Also just make sure you live life for yourself and dont wait around for people to change around you. I have done this on a couple of occasions only to later realise how much time I wasted. The funny thing is too, is that I was more upset about losing out on all the things I could have done and could have been doing, then I was about losing the person I was with. So basically what I am saying is that life is way too short and way to precious to wait around for someone else. Live life for yourself and if someone can come along and live life with you without you or them having to make major changes then odds are that person is the right one for you. Soo yeah enough of my rambling, gl with it all.