sex right away = relationship?

[kash]

The quicker the better i think just as long as both persons want it .

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Death is certain, life isnt

[ebbomega]

Originally posted by jim


you're just angry because I never called the next day.

Wait a minute, with me you were there when I got home the next evening cooking me dinner....

I feel so special now.

[party_babe]

Its different for everyone but i personally like for a guy to fully respect me and know me really well before i share that part of myself with him. Some ppl look at sleeping with ppl rite away as trashy while others respect it and like it. I know in my experience that not many guys like girls who fuck around rite away if they are looking for more then just sex. I dont think getting it on rite away works for me but then again i dont look for sex in ppl i dont know becuase i dont like looking back on situations and saying "that really wasnt worth it" i dunno mabey im just young haha

[Sarah...]

if you are the type of person who can have sex with a just met guy and feel okay about it the next day...whatever.... personaly i cant have sex with somone who doesnt have somekind of connection with me .... I gotta be appriciated.... If my minds not happy my body cant really be... even if its all jus about fucking, nothing else really, i cant do it cuz i feel bad ......
sex is good though..... jus not with anyone....
knowwhatimsayinnnn

[BabyStylez]

i think its agood thing if its hard to wait for sex-but you hold out for atleast two weeks,i think atleast second date better off if you know them as a person n friend also,i think if its the right person it doesnt matter,sometimes you just have that feeling you know,but personally i like to get to know them as a pal furst n when i say pal i mean your attracted to each other n want each other but you hold out on the hot stuff for w/e reason n just flirt,i love flirting :PartEkid: THEN YOU WANTEM EVEN MMORE n your furst kiss is intence n the sexuall tension is thick as butta :moon: :kam: :kimmie:

yeah
thats how its gotta be dun

SEE YOU ALL AT KISS
ciao

[Antenna_Boy]

i dun like to flirt too long, but flirting is good. Personally if there is a connection from the get-go, and dating goes for a good month, but still no action, that can be frustrating. One month and no sex means bye bye. :keebler:

[Bitchin]

oi...

just cause ya fuck some one doesnt mean yer gonna go get married and have like 80 babies!

it just means you fucked! sure more can come out of it.. like a relationship.. or a fuck buddie! but thats why you have this thing called COMMUNICATION!! it would help if people.. you know used it once in awhile before they hurt some one or get hurt themselves...

[Rhianna]

I really don't think I could have sex w/ a person I just met. I know I wouldn't feel good about it or enjoy it. I need to know the person before I can go there. I couldn't give that part of me to just anyone. I think it's a whole trust issue and that nasty feeling I would get the next day of eww.... who did I just sleep w/?

Plus, when I wait it makes me want them that much more.

[matéo]

theres alot of easy girls on fnk by the looks of it.

[hardstylin]

If a girl wants sex on the first date im all for it!! but i like foolin around a bit before sex, problly cause i like getting BJ's more then sex most of the time.

[Jingles]

everyone has crept away fromt he actual question
not if sex on the first date is OK

but if you have sex off the bat - do you think a relationship is possible?

[Rhianna]

Originally posted by Jingles
everyone has crept away fromt he actual question
not if sex on the first date is OK

but if you have sex off the bat - do you think a relationship is possible?

W/ me I doubt it. If I were to ever sleep w/ some right off the bat I doubt I would want anything else from them. If I slept w/ them right away it probably means that's all I'm after. Because if I wanted a relationship I'd just hold out.

[Jingles]

^ I'd wait for you :kimmie:

[Lush]

Interesting thread...

I guess i'm sort of traditional in a sense that I try and avoid sex on a first date. I'm not against one night stands, but I don't know how possible it would be to try and pursue a relationship after meeting someone right away and experiencing physical intimacy to that extent.
I always sort of look forward to letting that physical intimacy and emotional connection establish gradually, because then I find it sets a solid foundation for the relationship.
I'm not one to support mind games but I think competition and working towards attaining something is part of our nature, and having sex right away takes away from that.

All of this being said, I still think it is possible to have a relationshiop develop if the two people involved have come to a mutual understanding and have talked things over. If you're both mature enough to disregard what society classifies as right and wrong, then it shouldn't be a problem.

[hardstylin]

Originally posted by Jingles
everyone has crept away fromt he actual question
not if sex on the first date is OK

but if you have sex off the bat - do you think a relationship is possible?

yes

[Rhianna]

Originally posted by Jingles
^ I'd wait for you :kimmie:

Why thank you Miss Jingles, but for you I would make an exception.