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Mar 09, 04
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my poor sister
so,my sister and her boy friend of 4 yrs were supposed to be moving in 2gether in april. My sister gaver her notice at her current place at the beginning of this month. Friday night my sis was out with her bf and was like lets go back to ur place and ill crash,hes like fuck u go home. She didnt talk to him all weekend.
Anyways this morning my mom was worried about him and called his work...which is his dads business, and spoke with his father. His dad was completely oblivious to the fact of why my mom would be calling for his son because as far as he knew my sister and his son had been broken up for months.... So my mom and my sisters bfs dad got to talking,and apparently my sisters bf has been living with another girl for 10 months. He fed my sis some bullshit lies in sept saying he moved to a new place where he had a grow op going and thats why she couldnt come there,turns out he never moved at all but had been sahcked up with some girl. So my mom went by my sisters boy friends "old house" and sure as shit his truck is parked out front and my sisters lace curtains are hanging up on the front window...my mom knocks on the door and some blonde girl answers...apparently his gf. So my mom explained everything to the one girl and apparently she was comepletly oblivious to the situation I CALL BULLSHIT. So my sis gets off work today my mom delivers the bad news...my sis comes over and well we went to her now ex bfs house,trashed his garage,threw paint all over every door on the exterior of his house. I grabbed some spray paint spray painted all ovber the front exterior wall good lier cheater etc etc etc etc,sporayed paint on the front windows and the front door as well,smashed all of the empty beer bottles...then we left and headed into burnaby to see my sisters ex boy friends best friends mother who was furious over the whole situation. So the mom did some investigating and found out about the whore my sisters ex was with,she is a stripper. We also found out which club she works out...and went down there. We get to the club and i ask the door girls if "slut" was there,they said she had left. So i went outside and started calling this whores cell...i walk around the corner heading back to our car...and i see a girl fitting the discription of the whor ein question...so i hang up my cell phone and dial the sluts number again...and the girl who has an uncanny resemblance to the slut...HER PHONE STARTS RINGING. so sure as shit it was her...and i yelled at her u might wanna answer your phone slut i wanna have some words with u...i ran over to her...she jumped into some 50 yr old mans truck...i was by the p[assanger side window and the 50 yr old man unrolled the window so then the MOM of my sisters ex bfs best friend send a shot in at the sluts head and made contact...then they sped away. so i continued to blow up this sluts cell phone...she wouldnt answer,then the old man answered i told him to tell her to quit her job and to not go back to her home ever cuz there would be nothing there within 24 hrs. I feel so bad for my sis, i mean 4 fucking years?! and this? he does this? then he has the audacity to tell mutual friends that he loves my sister and wants to marry her and he didnt mean for any of this shit to happen and that he was trying to get rid of the girl and bla bla bla?! like c`mon asshole give me a fucking break?! Whats even worse is that my sister has a daughter,and my sisters ex boy friend has been around since my niece was a year and a half,so thats my nieces father figure because her real dad is a dead beat mofo. I know no matter how much damage i cause it`ll never do any justice to the pain my sister has gone through,and the pain my niece is going to face. this is so fuckt up,i feel so bad. My sis is crashing here tonight because she cant be alone. fuck i wish there was something i could do to make everything right:( 
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Mar 09, 04
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^hahahhaha
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Mar 09, 04
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sean, fuck not the right time to make that comment
that's pretty shit, i say that guy deserves a good fucking beating for doing that. he'l probably never learn though, if he's willing to pull something like that on someone he supposedly "loves" people are hurts core.. it's hard to believe people actually DO things like that. yuck
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Throwing salt on wounds doesn't help heal them. Why take it out on the other girlfriend? She wasn't 2 timing your sister. And is throwing paint on someones house really going to get you anywhere? Having all this hatred inside you will only lead to you being angry and upset and hurt. You should forgive them for what they did and work it out, bad things happen for a reason, so you can learn from them and not make the same mistakes.
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Mar 09, 04
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wow, i don't necessarily think what you guys did was right, but in the heat of the moment i could see why you would do that. i'd be fucking pissed if if that happened to me. that guy is a fucking pussy if he could not break up with your sister before starting off a new relationship. how long did he think he could get away with it? he is pretty dumb to think he could actually get away with it.
so i really hope your sister gets thru this ok. it sounds like she could do a lot better than this loser.
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Mar 09, 04
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what a fucking asshole! :finger:
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Mar 10, 04
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You know if this was my sibling - i would feel like raising some shit too =-- but this is your sisters battle - not your Moms and not yours -- show your support, but don't forget courts don't look to favorabley on revenge tactics
I feel bad for your sister but at the same time good thing she found out - 4 years lost, but no more -- and I am sure she's taken some valuable life experience from it all The other girlfriend is likely not happy about this either - imagine finding out for her -- her family could just as easily be doing what you guys are to HE IS TO BLAME don't be punishing the wrong party Best wishes in this poor gal :(
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Mar 10, 04
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^^ ya its all the guys fult, take his balls from him!!
L O S E R peace
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Mar 10, 04
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i just dont understand how if for 10 months hes been with this bitch and shes been totally oblivious about my sister the whole time? somehow this just doesnt make sense to me.
theres no way in HELL this slut could have not known,no way.I betcha this slut thought that he was gonna marry her or some shit. i dunno this is just so fucked up sosososososos fucked up.
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Mar 10, 04
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You call bullshit on the girl? Why? If he lied to one girl, why not the other? I can't think of very many girls that would stick with a guy who would, for 6 months, be dating someone else that they have no legal commitment to. It's not like he's married and needs a divorce. They're not even living together!
I'd say don't take it out on the girl. Let her know her boyfriend is lying cheating scum and let her sort out her own problems. If she stays with him, and when he cheats on her, she can deal with that problem herself. Yeah, it sucks and the guy sounds like a total asshole, but for crying out loud, don't take it out on the girl just because she was duped by his bullshit too.
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Mar 10, 04
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Wierd situation. I feel bad for your sister and your niece. So your sis didnt have any clue about this chick either???
This guy is a totaly jerk. But i wouldnt have trashed his place, cause it could come back to haunt you... he could press charges or somthing.
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Mar 10, 04
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being immature is no way to fix the situation.
it simply means your family sunk to the level of the asshole. i understand anger and all that stuff, but why act on it? why vandalise someone's home? you;re not 12. shitty for your sister tho.
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Its very likely that she didn't know about your sister. Your sister was with him for 4 years and didn't have a clue something was going on. He's obviously a very very good liar. Either way that is fucked up. Your poor sister :( How can people do those kinds of things to people they are supposed to care about? I don't understand! I wouldn't want to cause that kind of pain to someone I didn't know - much less someone I was with for 4 years and loved. She will be okay . . . it will just take time. I've been in a similar situation and boy does it hurt when it happens, but after you realize how luck was on your side for making you realize what a prick you were with - and not allowing you to move in with them / marry them etc
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Mar 10, 04
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i know a girl who was living with her boyfriend for about a year, having a wonderful Life.
anyways long story short; the guy was a smuggler, had a different name, was married, and was wanted for something or other. all in all he was just a different person than who she thought he was. lol now whenever she meets somebody new she asks to see their ID.
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Mar 10, 04
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Actual transcript from a radio show in Minnesota or something:
"So, let me tell you how this works. You don't have to do any work or anything, we just send a dozen roses to your person of choice. All we need is a name." "Oh, sure. My wife, Lisa." "Excuse me?" "...." "Greg, Kim's on the other line....." "Uhhhhhhhhh.... Hi Kimmie." "Oh, hi Greg. Your wife, Lisa? What's going on?" "Uh.... I was kidding!" "You're such a jerk!" *click* JER-RY! JER-RY!
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Mar 10, 04
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i dont care about the cops,ive got way more shit on him than he has on me lemme tell yah! and plus its only mischeif under...we didnt do THAT much damage,itd never stick. Crown would throw out the charges before it ever made its way to court. :kam:
as for the chick not knowing about my sis,kinda hard when her bf has tonnes of pics of my sister,he being with my sister like everyday,my sister calling him and him calling my sis 5-10 times a day...i mean really! :finger:
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PS: If this guy can hide from your sister this girl he's been apparently living with since September, how the hell do you think he can't conceal your sister from her? I don't know why he'd tell her the truth and not your sister. It's seriously not like he's married or living with her or anything.
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Mar 10, 04
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^yeah but still 4 yrs buddy...anbd the chick did know because i was talking to my sis 2day annnnnnnnnnnnd apparently when her and fuck face were out for dinner a month ago some bitch called his cell and my sis answered and my sis is like who the fuck is this...the girl replied his gf jen...my sis is like oh really considering im his fucking f for the past 4 yrs bitch...then the chick hung up so my sis confrented asshole when he got back to the table and he was like oh it was jareds gf jen playing a trick on u...cuz apparently jared and jen were on thier way over to where they were at and yeah, so my sis beleived that bs lie but in the end it turned out to be true...i guess fuck face could have went and lied to the other slut too i guess.
i dunno. IM RIGHT UR WRONG MEN R WHORES THE END.
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