OOOO baby I like it raw!!!

hardstylin · #1 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

I was at my friends house last night and this girl was over and we gots to talkin about sex and what not and blow jobs, and this girl starts talkin about how she will only blow a guy if hes wearing a condom, WHAT!!!! Thats crazy talk!!Not having to wear a condom during a BJ is the whole reason im alive :) im not sure what i would tell a girl if she told me to rap up for a bj. Has anyone run into a girl like this before if so how did you handle it :)

Kandyapple · #2 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

well it's the same as having sex with a condom for protection. no you can't get pregnant but whats the point in having sex with a condom if you can catch something from giving a bj without a condom. It may seem silly but she is probably just looking out for her well being.

strawberr_E · #3 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

yeah she probly is more concerned then most. i could never do that it would just be odd.

MistressSpankME · #4 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

Smart girl. Now NEVER may be going a little far, but then again its HER choice and its a smart one. Once I'm in a commited, trustworthy relationship I find there is no need for a condom for sex or for giving oral.

stringbeans · #5 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

yeah most people dont realize that std's can be passed through oral sex as well as vaginal sex.. is vaginal a word?

zarlon · #6 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

^ yes it is stringbeans, yesss it is.

and heh, that's not that bad. i guess its better than not going down, right?

Kandyapple · #7 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

^for sure. If you dont want to have a girl be carefull go get tested and make them give you a sheet. then you can take it everywhere you go to get a blowjob! although people should be getting tested regularly anyway.

Mc*Phee · #8 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

I dont balme her. it may sound extreme to most, but who wants to get mouth warts??? or other stds. She is probaly a very cautious person, and will be clean her whole life. Perhaps shes not committed enough/ knows the sexual history behind the people shes blowing. She may like to have fun with no regrets.
Now, isnt it better to wrap it up, then not get one at all?? :)

sass69 · #9 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

She is making a really smart descision, I think it woul feel very odd tho giving head when the guys wearing a condom.

Kandyapple · #10 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

yah mmm latex lol.

Sariel · #11 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

Flavoured condoms... that way you can't really taste the latex (unless you get a shitty brand)

They have like 100 different flavours for them these days... so ya get a good range, and can pick some faves.

Allya · #12 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

This rule works for guys too (lazy guys). If men don't feel like doing any of 'the work :p>' when hooking up, they can always just refuse to go down on a girl because they're "being careful". Some girls carry condoms around but very few carry around female condoms. heh heh

charly · #13 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

^ female condoms aren't exactly meant for oral sex as far as i know. dental dams work better. which you can actually make out of a condom [don't rip, cut].

~Sc@ndelu$~ · #14 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

umm i think it would be very awkward asking a guy to wrap it up first,,, i mean if u feel the need to ask him, then maybe u shouldnt get with him! but if u go around just blowing any guy.. maybe u should wrap it up haha yuck

Dice_ · #15 (**permalink**) Mar 12, 04

big ups to that girl

Ragga_Wh0re · #16 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

^no doubt

as for mistressspankme saying that she gives bjs without a dome when shes in a "trustworthy commited bla bla fucking bla" YOU NEVER KNOW...no matter how genuine someone seems to be...you never really know. Shit ive been cheated on b4,and thats some fucked up shit...but what my sis has just gone through makes me totally question who i should trust....because someone you feel that you could trust....couldnt be trusted at all.

i hate sounding all jaded and shit but never trust anyone until your married...its safer that way....but you know what even then not so much. I guess your safe at first when you and your s/o get blood work and what not done 2gether...but after that ,not so much.

agh.

inkster · #17 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

http://www.newscientist.com/news/news.jsp?id=ns99994712

cheebus420 · #18 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

the equivalent for women is not a female condom.
It's this latex sheet, they give them to you for free at any "Wellness Centre" .
If you thought giving a guy head with a condom on was wierd, wait 'till you see what these sheet looks like, then approach a woman, say you'll down on her, only if she wears a green latex patch.

Woman · #19 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

i dont know what tastes worse, the taste of cum or spermacide

Candy-Kid · #20 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

Id wrap it if it ment getting some. Why not? :kam:

charly · #21 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

Quote:

Originally posted by Woman
i dont know what tastes worse, the taste of cum or spermacide

you wouldn't use a condom with spermicide for a blowjob. go with unlubed or flavoured. [what else is flavoured good for anyways?]

MistressSpankME · #22 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

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Originally posted by ~*goddessa*~
^no doubt

as for mistressspankme saying that she gives bjs without a dome when shes in a "trustworthy commited bla bla fucking bla" YOU NEVER KNOW...no matter how genuine someone seems to be...you never really know. Shit ive been cheated on b4,and thats some fucked up shit...but what my sis has just gone through makes me totally question who i should trust....because someone you feel that you could trust....couldnt be trusted at all.

i hate sounding all jaded and shit but never trust anyone until your married...its safer that way....but you know what even then not so much. I guess your safe at first when you and your s/o get blood work and what not done 2gether...but after that ,not so much.

agh.

Married people still cheat. So in reality, you will NEVER know. But I have a man that I trust and has earnt that trust and I know will not betray it. We also both get tested regularely just because you can never be too safe.

As for your sister, she isn't the best example. The father of her child is an ass (from what you've stated) and her last b/f was LIVING with another woman for months, she needs to learn how to pick better men. They are out there and by the sounds of it she can't tell the difference very well. I dont mean to sound judgemental or anything, and I know how her experiences could make you worried about who to trust, and jaded about men in general.

cheebus420 · #23 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

I've wondered that myself. That huge condom store downtown has thousands of flavours... but whats the point unless the girls gonna go down on you.

last I checked the pussy was not a tongue

Lunch Box · #24 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

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Originally posted by hardstylin
I was at my friends house last night and this girl was over and we gots to talkin about sex and what not and blow jobs, and this girl starts talkin about how she will only blow a guy if hes wearing a condom, WHAT!!!! Thats crazy talk!!Not having to wear a condom during a BJ is the whole reason im alive :) im not sure what i would tell a girl if she told me to rap up for a bj. Has anyone run into a girl like this before if so how did you handle it :)

a girl i was seeing for a while pulled somthing in a similar style... the way i handled it was to simply respect her decision... not mucho you can do about it... eventually we got a little more serious and she just stopped handing me condoms for the Hummers...

Goat · #25 (**permalink**) Mar 13, 04

IF THERE'S NO BLOOD ITS NOT GOING RIGHT~!!!!!