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May 03, 04
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High School Girlz?
On friday i went to a party at ubc and met a really fun/hot/cool girl that really caught my interest. I approached her and we started talking and school came up, she mentioned she went to Langara College and i said i went to ubc. Being a really hectic night and what not i never had the opportunity to get her number. But i remembered she was friends with my buddies younger sister who's in high school. so i call my buddy and ask for his little sister who is in Grade 12 and ask about this girl. Turns out the young lady lied to me, she's still in high school and is 18. Anyways i called her up and did the whole chit chat thing, we made plans for this friday coming up but i have no idea what we are going to end up doing SHE ISN"T 19!! and the best part is she has school monday to friday while i've just finished classes and are enjoying the summer. QUESTION TO U FOLKS: someone who is 20 do u think it will work with someone 18 and is just finishing high school?
ps. i know it can be done..but i'm just curious what ppl think, most of my friends don't think it will work simply because the girl doesn't have a fake id lol. 
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May 03, 04
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It's tough..
When I was in highschool, I remember being like 17-18 and dating guys in their 20s, which seemed normal enough at the time, except for the fact that it drove my family insane. Age is just a number, right? But there are other things to take into account. Like, when someone is still in highschool, they're experiencing so many different things in their life than you would be with university and being on your own, etc. If you're both mentally in the same place, then it's not usually an issue- the thing is it always can be if the person is still in highschool and you're well beyond that. It's difficult to find a common ground. Once you're at a time in your life when you're an 'adult' (away from home, experienced a bit of the real world, etc.) I think that age difference only is as big of a deal in a relationship as it can be made out to be. I was in a relationship for almost three years with someone seven years older than me, but it never was a big issue because we were both in the same 'place'. 18 to 20 is only two years, but you may be too distant mentally for it to work
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May 03, 04
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true, but i kinda feel like a dirty old creep. haha i laugh when i think about picking her up from school...
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all that really matters is .... what shes like.... if shes mature and is her own person whos cares if she 18... age isnt that important .... sum ppl act younger than they sum ppl act older.... its mostly about how u think and what uve experienced....
all my buddies are older than me and i dont feel any different and i dont think they do..... but fake id helps so see how she is........it might be worth it
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May 03, 04
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any suggestions on what we should do on friday, i was thinking of taking her out for dinner...but that might be too formal. we can't go drinkin or clubbing..
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May 03, 04
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haha go drinking by the beach or at the park sooo HIGH SCHOOL lol, good times.
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May 03, 04
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when i was in gr 12 i dated a girl who was out of hs.
when i was a year out of hs i dated a chick who was in gr 12. in the first case, i ended the relationship because the girl couldn't handle me going to parties and enjoying my gr12 life. constant checking up and thinking i was going to cheat on her. in the second case, the girl was going through so many crazy changes and life choices, while i was basicly sitting on my ass doing nothing. we just drifted apart. 18 is a very hectic crazy time, a huge dose of resonsibility with a huge dose of freedom. this girl will have to balance her relationship with you with a whole bunch of other stresses, and a whole bunch of new experiences. generally, i say the instability of her life wont let you get into a deep relationship. before you know it the girl may be making plans to 'find herself' by going to europe or sucking off a guy who reminds her of her dad. from the start you're pretty much doomed to failure and a night of sobbing softly into your mattress. but since im being nice today i will offer you some insight from the vault of playa wisdom known as my brain: she will be experiencing a world of new things. there is a very good chance that if play your cards right, you could fuck her in the ass at least a few times, and maybe even get her to tickle your balloon knot with her mouth. she's going to be open to almost anything once to piss the family she resents. JACKPOT. ease that eventual breakup wearing out the rewind button on your vcr, reliving that time you and your friends filled her like a gas tank. win-win situation for everyone. you're so welcome in advance. i should be charging for this shit. ps goodbye karma :( Last edited by rawb; May 03, 04 at 08:03 AM.
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well for friday.....go see a movie and blaze alot and jus get to know each other and chill......if not..... u can usually find places to drink with out getting asked for id like sum underground parties..... and then saturday go to history of breaks and party all night together.....
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^ history of breaks is on friday..
anyways, i don't see the age different as that big of a deal. i'm 18, and my bf is 20. we started dating when i was 16, so our situation might be a bit different. like myra said, if you're in the same place, it has a greater chance of working out.
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hehe...I remember asking my partner about 3 months after we started seeing each other: "by the way, how old are you?" She told me she was 18...I thought she was older because she was in university...I was 24 at the time...but by then it was too late to change my mind...hee hee...
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18 and 20 isnt that huge of an age gap, it can be abig maturity gap, but then we'd all have to know you and her to be able to pass judgment on it.
my experince : started dating a guy who was 20 when i was 18, and we're still together a year 4 months later.
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May 03, 04
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yah that age difference can prolly be a real bitch (between legal age and not), specially if she doesn't have a fake.... last night my ex called me up, she's 18 (im 17) and she needed me to pick her up from barfly cause her new B/F (20) took her and she got kicked out! I reluctantly did so, only because i was 12 seconds away at Score. Needless to say when the new guy learned that his girlfriend just got picked up by her ex boyfriend he left the bar and met up with her, but still... what a pain in the ass.
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a 2 year age difference isn't bad, but from 20 to 18, there could be some differences in how u guys each spend ur time.. but u wont know this till u get to know her, maybe you guys will get along really well and enjoy spending time with each other.. give it a shot at least.. just dont get really attached is my advice, cuz girls/guys who are just graduating from highschool have alot of decisions to make in the next year about traveling, work, school, life, etc.
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hey buddy u got nothing to lose!
would it be different if she were ur age anyway?? no way...regardless of age, if u both connect with each other, then woohoo! if u both just lust for each other, then woohoo! u can always dump her afterwards... or just block her calls, then laugh about it with ur friends the day after! besides, ur only 20... u got plenty of time to just have fun and try new shit...
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Maybe you didn't read my post...She was in university...I don't know any 15 yr olds in university...Besides once they're out of highschool age is irrelevant. It was just never brought up. She didn't know how old I was either until then...It is hardly creepy it just wasn't an issue.
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