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May 04, 04
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yah im in this situation too, like sure she gives me signals but it just seems like its just friendship goin on. but u never kno and thats the kicker. like wut if shes more interested than she seems, like fuk, they hav to invent sum kind of device to let u kno wuts up. fuk. girls........ i jus need to find sum work and get myself busy and stop stressin about shit like that. cuz u kno u will find em wen u least expect it. start doin sum shit and youll prolly stumble across em. its fucked like that.
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May 05, 04
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i wish genders in general could just be straight up, no games.......it would go like this
adam: hi im adam and i want you random girl: go fuck a duck lol atleast i'd know
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May 05, 04
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hmm.. all i have to say is that dont show too many signs all at once, because it becomes completely pressuring for the girl and it will just make her uncomfortable. if you just talk to her via msn and the odd phone convo, definately take her out on a casual hang out.. and show her how great of a guy you are..so its not just all talk and letters on the screen. a lil like prove yourself to her that you're the guy she needs. sorry not the greatest in this department, but i sure know the crush on a friend feeling.
and adam...go fuck a duck.
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well.........atleast i know lol
yeah the whole pressuring thing is the main reason stopping me from doing anything "drastic" or just straight up telling her. if i knew how she felt, or atleast thought i did id just tell her, but..........i dont and until something significant happens guess im just gonna have to play the waiting game
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May 05, 04
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but the crush on a friend feeling is cutest feeling ever though.... just dont do anything stupid spontaneous that may cause embarrassment or awkwardness. im pro at it and it always messes things up big time. REGRETS!! ive learned that if even if the guy/girl says they like you as well.. it doesn't count.. they have to prove it and SHOW IT. confusing eh..yea im still confuzzled.
adam..vicki told me the other day.. i have to find the guy who shows 100% effort, then he's worth it. so im just gonna sit back and wait for it to happen..or if it even happens. i thnk you should do the same, ppl suck when they mind fuck. roar. Last edited by bebu*funfun; May 05, 04 at 01:14 AM.
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oh vickinder jeet!
but im gonna have to disagree with her advice, a guy that shows too much effort in the beginnin fits into 1 of these 3 categories 1 - he just wants in ur pants (technically anyone could be put in this category) 2 - hes in it for the long term, but expect him to be all over you 24/7, possibly very over protective 3 - hes a commitment psycho, and will be ur bitch from day one.....yeah good if all u want is a toy.....but no good in the long term, unless ur into that type
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