unicorns

[omega_image]

lol not literally, im reffering to the girls that seem unatainable. and no i dont mean the slammin under dressed pieces of meat at a club, i mean the sweet cute girl next door type.

god damn, the signals they give are frustrating as hell because you never know if they're just being nice or if in fact they are showing interest. and if they sell out you never know if they're blowing you off or if they're excuses are true.

the hardest part is letting them know how you feel, they are great friends, some of the best, and you dont want to risk that in any way. man i wish i could read peoples thoughts.

anyone in a situation like this that would like to share some helpful info?

dont reply back if you're gonna say "hey just tell her, be true to urself or else you'll never know" because i've already thought of that....

[ebbomega]

More often than not, they're highly overrated.

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by omega_image

lol not literally, im reffering to the girls that seem unatainable. and no i dont mean the slammin under dressed pieces of meat at a club, i mean the sweet cute girl next door type.

god damn, the signals they give are frustrating as hell because you never know if they're just being nice or if in fact they are showing interest. and if they sell out you never know if they're blowing you off or if they're excuses are true.

the hardest part is letting them know how you feel, they are great friends, some of the best, and you dont want to risk that in any way. man i wish i could read peoples thoughts.

anyone in a situation like this that would like to share some helpful info?

dont reply back if you're gonna say "hey just tell her, be true to urself or else you'll never know" because i've already thought of that....

heres some advice girls are fucked,anybody that says they no how to read them or that they understand them is lying i have seen chicks say and do the dumbest shit, there so crazy about everything, the best you can do is just be blunt and go for it.

[omega_image]

^lol, guess u didnt read the last bit of my post

[MrDFrost]

i totally know what you mean bro....its had me confused for a while....Letters always seem like a good way to go. nothing too crazy, just something to let them know you are thinkin about them....see where that goes.

[hardstylin]

next time your hangin out just pull ur cock out and ask her what she thinks of it, trust me this method works!!!!!

peace

[omega_image]

havent tried that yet, ill give it a shot and let you know how it goes

id rather just tell her face to face then give her a letter, but thanks

[bob]

i wish i lived next door to you adam.

[omega_image]

dont worry man, uve always got a special place

[MrDFrost]

Originally Posted by omega_image

havent tried that yet, ill give it a shot and let you know how it goes

id rather just tell her face to face then give her a letter, but thanks

dont get me wrong i prefer face to face myself...sometimes reading a letter can be a little more impactive.

[rawb]

id work into the conversation how you just bought some new nice clothes, but feel silly cuz you have nowhere to wear them. then ask her if she'd like to go somewhere fancy to at least get some use out of them.

another idea is to get her to help you with something you are 'useless' at (her helping you shop for a mothers day gift is stellar, makes you look really sweet). she will probably say yes, and when you're done tell her you're so happy that you want to buy her dinner/take her to a movie/hug her with no clothes on (lol jk).

keep it casual, at the end of the night just tell her how much fun you had. it will make you asking her for a next outing that much easier.

in either case a polite 'no' from her will be a signal she isn't kosher with the more than friends thing, but it isnt as uncomfortable as if you ask her out point blank. you can probably still hang out and not feel too weird.

[miss.myra]

So it's not that this girl is completely unattainable or too good for you, you're just scared shitless of ruining the close bond the two of you have formed?

I can relate because that's happened to me a lot, and luckily, when I have made the move and had the friendship blossom into something more it's always ended on alright terms and I've stayed good friends with the people to this day.

On the other hand, as someone with a lot of guy friends, I can also relate to the fact that it is really hard to just keep things platonic. Often, I've suspected that some of my friends want to take it further, and I've really picked up signs that they want to fuck me. A girl, that isn't completely crazy, wouldn't give any signals to indicate they were noticing or even the least bit interested if they felt like it was something they were thinking about too.

If you're really sure you want to let this person know, it's usually never such a calculated move where you have to figure out everything you want to say or do, it just happens. Despite all the paranoia that can be experienced by a barrage of mixed signals, you'll have a pretty good idea if you want to dive in or not. Infact, she probably knows you're interested too, she could even be waiting for you to make your move!

[omega_image]

lol im liking the mothers day shopping thing

its not so much that she isnt attainable, more the fact that im thinking that im at the bottom of the list

[ebbomega]

Selling yourself short accomplishes nothing.

If you don't think you have a chance, you've already lost.

[miss.myra]

You know, if you feel completely inadequate now, if you get into a relationship with that person, you're always gonna feel a little bit that way. Thats not good, or healthy.

So smarten up, and throw that 'bottom of the list' attitude out the window. Girls love a confident guy! Also, what makes you feel like you're not good enough? I don't know you, but you seem like a smart, fairly attractive and nice guy with a lot of things going for him. Aren't you a DJ too? Girls love that! :P (j/k on the last part)

[LaMzWeLL]

dai lo.....why u keeping secrets from me mang......u can tell me you love me....it's all good =P.

you never know unless you try. come on mang.....i thought you had bigger balls then that....lol.. i'm kidding....you know i love u m@ng!

[omega_image]

bah, we'll see how things progress over the next few weeks

thanks for the advice tho

[Kraig]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

Selling yourself short accomplishes nothing.

If you don't think you have a chance, you've already lost.

This is TOTALLY true Omega_Pimp. Don't assume you are at the bottom of the list. If you think that way know, then when speaking to this girl or hanging with her you will exude that level of confidence. You know what you have to offer and if she can't see that or like you for what that is, then fuck dat sheat. Or maybe you already have? LMFAO... j/k Good luck bro.

[LaMzWeLL]

Originally Posted by Kraig

if she can't see that or like you for what that is, then fuck dat sheat. Or maybe you already have?

hahahhahaha

[omega_image]

lol no, well see how things go i dont want to show any pressure tho, take things slow

lamz, this contradicts everything i tell you about u, so if u need clarification talk to me on msn

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by bob

i wish i lived next door to you adam.

Me too!

[omega_image]

lol u almost did! well u lived close enough.........

[ty:rone]

i guess this wasn't about the candy called unicorn.

[tahiti__treat]

i thought this was gonna be about that movie 'The last unicorn' lol i luv that movie!!

[ebbomega]

It is an excellent movie, but you totally miss.