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May 27, 04
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the one that got away
this girl has had me fucked up for years.
i hate it when everything seems to be going so well and things just seem to fall apart. no matter how much we both want to have a meaningful relationship things just never work out. any time she's near me or whenever i hold her in my arms, or even when im just talking to her on the phone nothing else seems to matter. but between our schedules we get to see each other once a week. its bad because we drift apart, but then get back to talking and its like theres something that always brings us back together. she must have some power over me because i've broken up with really good girls because i'd have a chance to be back with her. i just cant seem to ever let her go... i dont even know why im posting this on fnk, i just needed to vent and its like theres never anyone around to listen. 
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May 27, 04
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maybe things don't work out for a reason?
if you're meant to be with someone, it'll happen. or you'll both make it happen. there doesn't seem to be much effort coming from either side here. there's always a way to work around busy schedules. tell her how you feel and that you want to give this whole serious relationship business a shot. if she hums'n'haws, then she's fucking with you and like hot karl said, kick her to the curb.
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May 28, 04
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I have been in a similiar situation, where I totally love someone, but let them slip away... Don't make my mistake - I never actually told this person how I really feel. Whatever the outcome may be, take the chance. You might regret it if things don't work out, but you WILL regret it if you never try. I know I sure as hell do.
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May 28, 04
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i feel for you, girls are nothin but trouble :)
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May 28, 04
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^how about that would totally SUCK?
I can't imagine only seeing my man once per week - even if we were both crazy busy I would make a point to cut things out of my life so I could spend more time with him. IMO, if you love a person, and want to have a long-lasting, meaningful relationship, you will make time to see them as often as possible...if I could only see someone once per week I wouldn't think it was fair to either of us and I probably wouldn't be with them in the first place.
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May 28, 04
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i disagree a little bit.
of course it sucks if you cant see your siginificant other alot, it sucks beyond beliefe, but sometimes things in life prevent you from being able to see them alot, and i think its the long lasting loving relationships that can withstand time apart. i do agree with making time, some days you cant be with out them and you pull all your resources and make time, even if its 15 minutes. that goes for any relationship, friends, bf\gf, family. if neither of you can see changing\making time, then neither of you wants it that bad - however - seeing each other once a week is plenty of time, especailly if you are both in a pivital place of life, sometimes you can only change your schedual for you and not others. i know plenty of friends in relationships, some are short and some are long, that can only see their gf\bf about once a week due to school\work\life. maybe you need\want more?
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