When your best friend ditches you for an asshole

[rav3r gurl]

So my best friend since the 6th grade has alienated me like never before. i mean, i know that as a girl, we all disappear into boyfriendland once in a while, but this is getting extreme. it's my 20th birthday on sunday, and she's not even going to be there for my party. i just called her and confirmed it. i live with her, and she hasnt slept here since insomnia, when he yelled at her for going raving. i might get to see her once a week, if theyre fighting, because thats the only time shes not with him. so i love it when they fight. he came over a week ago, intending to beat up my boyfriend (neoh) because he doesnt like him, and doesnt think we should be going out. this guy is the most unbelievable dick i have ever met.

and i've met some bad ones....

[ebbomega]

Hah.

So how long before he sleeps with you?

[trance4life]

if you love them you will let them go
-people change, relationships change and not always for the best

[rav3r gurl]

if he was good to her, i wouldnt mind so much. but he makes her feel so useless and little without him. he is a spoiled little rich boy, who doesnt think anybody else out there matters except himself.

[Goat]

at least she didn't ditch you for your mom.
nothing's worse then that :(

[Custard]

maybe hes just good in bed

[Hot Karl]

^he's rich.

i'd say cut the bitch. then after that cut the guy. just start cuttin.

[Sykonee]

I've no practical advice to offer in terms of helping a friendship but people often become quite blind when in love, hence why she may not notice the things you do. Why she'd be in love, I haven't a clue (because I don't know her, of course). It just... happens.

[neoh]

^^ she's not in love. She just needs acceptance. This guy is the worst person I have ever met. As rav3r said, he came over a week ago intending to woop me, when I got up in his face he ran off back to his mothers car. He's a nobody, a nothing and he will die alone.

We miss you sare-bear. :(