should i go back home?

TipSy · #1 (**permalink**) Jul 30, 04

well its been about 3 weeks i think that i'v beem kicked out of my house... i havent been on here alot since the ppl i live dont have internet..hmm wow.. anyways .and its been interesting...but now my mom wants me to come back home..and i douno wat to do..i know it might be for the best...but wat if this happens again...its the 2nd time i'v been kicked out..she even changed the locks..and she cut off my cell even though she didnt even pay for it...~...

well any suggestions? should i go back home? is it the right thing to do? wats ur opinion on this situation..

anything would be nice..

mugsy · #2 (**permalink**) Jul 30, 04

i dont think any one on here can give you an answer.
you should most likely ask yourself questions like why you got kicked out, if you go home can you prevent it from happening again, why does she want you home, do you want to go home back to the same situation you got kicked out of.... ect. since i know nothing about it, i cant elaborate further.
and really no one else can, who knows you and your family better than yourself?

Tea · #3 (**permalink**) Jul 30, 04

I know its hard like ET ...but you gotta go home.

you have no foundation, you need to rest on your parents while you can, misunderstand each other when you can...one day you'll open your eyes and wonder if you were in the wrong.

Happend to me, its not worth forgetting your family over..whatever they disagree with, its just not worth it, your family loves you, you may have grown more difficult for them to love but they still do...and that is the most important kind of love, that is where is begins..so work on it and try.

*KeLLnEsS* · #4 (**permalink**) Jul 30, 04

Show your mom some respect and follow her rules and be glad she's letting you come back.

TipSy · #5 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

Quote:

Originally Posted by *KeLLnEsS*

Show your mom some respect and follow her rules and be glad she's letting you come back.

Considering you have no idea wat the whole situation is...u really cant say that...but thank you for the comment

Partizan · #6 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

u shud def. work things out

situations like this with your parents can only get way worse or way better .. depending on the actions you take ..

like mugsy said u yourself have to figure out what the problem is and fix it

IntakE · #7 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tea

I know its hard like ET ...but you gotta go home.

you have no foundation, you need to rest on your parents while you can, misunderstand each other when you can...one day you'll open your eyes and wonder if you were in the wrong.

Happend to me, its not worth forgetting your family over..whatever they disagree with, its just not worth it, your family loves you, you may have grown more difficult for them to love but they still do...and that is the most important kind of love, that is where is begins..so work on it and try.

she does have a foundation...the thing that none of you know is that she is living in a house with a family...she's living at my house...I know it isn't the same as her family but she does have ppl who are caring for her and supporting her.

Clayton. · #8 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

You shouldn't ask for serious advice over this site and make the decision yourself.

flipmat · #9 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

i think its fine that you asked for help.. it can be a difficult decision, but in the end... ur parents will always try to look out for you.. just think of why you got kicked out, and ask urself if you can not do that until you are able to move out on ur own.. just move back home, put up with it, get a couple jobs to support yerself.. and ur set!

IntakE · #10 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

^^ obviously shes going to make the desicion herself, shes jsut asking for advice.

Clayton. · #11 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

Asking the wrong people.

IntakE · #12 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

well maybe she jsut wanted random advise from ppl that dont know her or the situation....to see what they thought.

Clayton. · #13 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

Maybe she should flip a coin.

IntakE · #14 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

I dont think its quite that esay of a choice that you could jsut flip a coin...I mean I do that when I cant deside which outfit to but....its for stupid things...this is a lot bigger then that she has to actually sit and think to herself what she wants to do like I know both sides of this and it's gotta be hard on her I'd never want to be in the situation that shes in right now.

flipmat · #15 (**permalink**) Jul 31, 04

sometimes flippin a coin is the only way to decide.. either way she is going on an adventure.... hhahaha. life never throws u more than u can handle.. she'll do fyne

TipSy · #16 (**permalink**) Aug 01, 04

Well thanx guys for the ppl who posted their advice i appreciate it..

but in the end it is my choice wat i choose to do..i jus wanted ppls opinion on the situation.. im jus glad that i got sum positive feed back :) all of ur comments helped