broken heart

[B-Funk]

ever feel like you'd be better of single but when it happens you relize you need the person more than anything?

[miSsy_chriSsy]

*hugs*

You get your walkman, slap on your shoes and go for a long long walk. Take your time, breathe, focus, regroup your thoughts. Think about what you want. What decision is going to make you happy right now. If you do break up, it's tough man, but you know what, the feelings pass sooner than you know, Then it's time to focus on a plan, something for the near future. It's important to have something ahead of you that keeps you focused on you. Maybe there is something you've wanted to do for yourself for a long time, like travel or move, these are also very important things that may help remind you that being alone is not the end of the world, it is so so sooo important to have time to be alone. Learning to love yourself and fulfill yourself by your own actions, activities and goals, is waaayyy more fulfilling than depending on someone else to fulfill that feeling for you.

Good Luck with everything, and I hope everything works out.

[miss.myra]

Yeah I did

but then I realized part of why I thought it would be better off as single is because I really felt like I needed to start doing more for me. At first, it was totally hard because when you've had a shitty day they're the first person you want to run to. When I had chaos in my life I'd actually have to deal with it on my own for the first time in ages. As hard as it was at first, I don't regret making the decision in the end. I think it's made me a stronger person, and I think I really needed that.

But that's just my perspective. And I'm in no way implying what you are going through is easy :/

[cubed]

It's the most empty feeling anyone can experience. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

[brokencrayon]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

You get your walkman, slap on your shoes and go for a long long walk.

you do this too? karma for you! :D

[mojo]

best of luck fella

love can be a kick to the junk

[B-Funk]

thank you all, ya it is really tough right now. we'll see what happens.

[Ree Fresh]

Are kindding? its mega fuckin tough... you should come out drinking with me :D But there right... your young, you live you larn, it does make you much stronger and more time to focus on yourself :) Things like this always hurt like hell... but in a year or so youll look back and laugh :P i hope?

[Revolver]

phew...i know that pain all to well. makes a person insane. BUT as im learning, it dose get better and it dose make you stronger.

PLUS, most of us are still very young. there is soooooooo much time left to live and explore other people.

[mapleleaf4ever]

Reading all this stuff about Love doesn't make it sound like too much fun. Good Luck though Dude. :)

[B-Funk]

she found a new guy to hook up with anyways so i have to move on and stop whasting my time.

punk better protect your neck yo

[.muffy.]

:(

Having your heart broken by someone you really care about is the most crushing feeling in the world.
I tend to just try and keep myself as busy as possible for the next little while after. Sign up for some classes, go to the gym, or do what Christy said and go for some super long walks, pretty much anything to stop you from dwelling on it and driving yourself crazy.

Best of luck to you man

[mystique]

whenever your feeling this way...try and remember all the reasons WHY you broke up. Quite often when were missing somone, all we remember are the good things and we tend to forget the bad things.

[.muffy.]

^ very true

[Ragga_Wh0re]

the best way to get over someone...IS TO GET UNDER SOMEONE!!!

i shit you not.

but on a more serious note:just keep busy. And do give yourself some time to reflect on what has happenned.
Dont see this break up as a negative thing, see it as a positive thing.

When you learn to turn "negative" situations into "positive" ones,its a lot more easier to wrap your head&heart around,and a hole lot easier to let go. :)

good luck.

[miSsy_chriSsy]

can i get under you, babay?? *growl*
But then you'd break my heart :(

[B-Funk]

hey thank you all... and thanks for the karma too haha.

if you guys see me at a party come up and say hi, sometimes i always look pissed off and un-approchable but really im a nice guy. thats just the face i make.

thanks for your support

[cutienikki]

i did have this feeling and it sux. In my relationship things were juss going downhill but i thought it was me but then i relized that it wasnt and that it was both of us. So then i broke up with him because i lost interest in him but i still love him (if that makes sence) and now i feel lonley but i chose this path. So i wish u all the luck and make sure that when u do make a decision that u are 110% sure that u wanna do it. *huggles*

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by quEstion_low

hey thank you all... and thanks for the karma too haha.

if you guys see me at a party come up and say hi, sometimes i always look pissed off and un-approchable but really im a nice guy. thats just the face i make.

thanks for your support

You need a drink, POUND IT!!!

[neoh]

bitches aint shit but hoes and tricks.

I remember calling you soma at every party for the longest time.

[TipSy]

Originally Posted by quEstion_low

ever feel like you'd be better of single but when it happens you relize you need the person more than anything?

yup..got that feeling right now..and it sucks!