Knowing that ur finally over that sum1

[SteveO13]

Fuck does it Feel good eh ?
Id say that its the hardest thing to realize but when u do u feel great.

[{dC!}]

Isn't this the second thread that you've made like this bro ... ?

[{dC!}]

Congrat's for feeling good :)

[SteveO13]

LOl no I said it in a thread but meh I thought sum more about it and ya enuff

[miss.myra]

Making a post like this makes me think you're probably not over them


but keep convincing yourself otherwise, it's allll part of the healing process!

[SteveO13]

hahha no myra belive me it is the truth Its taken forever to realize but I have

[Gusto]

Just don't tell me that they post on here... heh.

[{dC!}]

Trust me he BETTER BE over the 'person' or i'll be dissiapointed!

[rav3r gurl]

its an awesome feeling, i know exactly what youre talking about, man. congrats.

[ebbomega]

The main thing for me getting over my ex was trying to figure out how to cope socially with other people now that she was no longer a frame of reference for me to look at myself by... if that makes any sense...

It wasn't that I missed her, really.... I miss a lot of people I haven't seen in a long time, it's not something to get too broken up over... But it was more that after being pretty socially devoted to one person for 2 and a half years, I had completely forgotten how I was supposed to interact as my own person... I spent a decent portion of this summer re-figuring out who I am...

That was really all the recovery I needed from the relationship. Since then, my life has improved drastically.

[~Sc@ndelu$~]

the best way to get over someone... is to get under someone else ;)

[trance4life]

grats?

[Bitchin]

Originally Posted by ~Sc@ndelu$~

the best way to get over someone... is to get under someone else ;)

Fuck, I wish that was true..........

[miss.myra]

To add:

I think as long as you can remember, as long as you have a memory, then 'getting over someone' completely is fairly impossible.

This all boils down to getting over someone VS dealing with it and moving in with your life. I know that there's some exes where I can still look back at the memories, or still remember lessons I've learned from mistakes I've made, but I've moved on enough with life to not be angry anymore or linger with ish in the past.


ps- if they post on here, then I stand firm with my first post ;)

[BongMan]

Myra once again you speak very wise words

[Electroflux]

Just wait. You'll think you're doing just great, and then a word, a song, and you'll realize you were wrong. oh crap this is rhyming, I'm writing an emo song and I'm not even trying. (Oh FFS I'll stop now before ANY MORE WORDS RHYME)



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No, not trying to be mean, it's just what I've found. There'll always be something there for that person, as previously said, for as long as you can remember them. However as time goes on you'll see it all in a more positive way, perhaps even finding plusses to it being over.

Steve0 thats awful im really hurt i thought we had something special *tear* hehehe jk

yay go you!=)