This relationship thing.. is it just one big GAME? - Page 2

Ms.Chop · #26 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

the brain is the most complictaed thing to understand.. seriously...

its the center of the universe... but no one really takes the time out to actually understand human nature and how everything works.. and why u do the things u do...

FlyViEtChiC · #27 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

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Originally Posted by Rhianna

^I agree.

That's why communication is so much fun and better than guessing what the other person is thinking.

Communication.. BIG word.. something that i'm FINALLY using.. haha.. and oh boy it sure does help...

FlyViEtChiC · #28 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

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Originally Posted by Supersonic

shes either testing me or is unsure about me thats for sure

in the beginning i definetly got the vibe she was interested in me.

but she never calls me. hmph. and it seems like shes always on her phone. so i REALLY really dont know what the deal is.

she waits for me after class but theres this uncomfortable shit in the beginning where she doesnt come say hi while i'm talking to my boys in the corner...

one minute i think shes not into it, the next minute i get the vibe she is into it....

darn fresh off boat girls.... they are so different.....

Yah.. well one rule for u.. NEVER talk about another girl.. NEVER EVER.. unless she is someone very close to you like best girlfriend or soemthing.. but either then that don't mention antoher girls name.. and i know exactly waht u mean about one mintue shes into you adn the next shes not.. its so freaken annoying. but u gotta understand that. it takes a while for someone to complately lose feelings for antoher person.. and jelously is the easiest way to get to someone.. but it hurts them the most..

decypher · #29 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

relationships shouldn't be takin seriously until something profoundly special happens between you two, that locks your body and souls together. You can't question something like that, it just happens... whatever happens, happens. who really cares...worrying about this crap just makes life worse...

Supersonic · #30 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

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Originally Posted by FlyViEtChiC

Yah.. well one rule for u.. NEVER talk about another girl.. NEVER EVER.. unless she is someone very close to you like best girlfriend or soemthing.. but either then that don't mention antoher girls name.. and i know exactly waht u mean about one mintue shes into you adn the next shes not.. its so freaken annoying. but u gotta understand that. it takes a while for someone to complately lose feelings for antoher person.. and jelously is the easiest way to get to someone.. but it hurts them the most..

good advice

we'll see how it goes =) thanks for the input

Supersonic · #31 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

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Originally Posted by decypher

relationships shouldn't be takin seriously until something profoundly special happens between you two, that locks your body and souls together. You can't question something like that, it just happens... whatever happens, happens. who really cares...worrying about this crap just makes life worse...

hehe totally

i'm not taking it that seriously pretty much for that reason. Main thing is that i also hope i havent fucked with her head at all with the jelousy thing... i just happen to meet alotta girls mainly due to the work i have to do but everytime i see a chance with another chick, i can't help but think of her nowadays.... i really like her i see alot of potential in this. hehe i don't wanna be the bad guy in this game hehe

~*tct*~ · #32 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

Oh Huney it's a game right from the start. My suggestion for You, would be to go for the older guys, there more experienced, they more respectful and just all together,WAY better boyfriends, but if you wanna stick to the games keep going for little boyz and thats what ur gunna get. See what I'm sayin sweets.

Good Luck with whatever ur situation is, just be true to youself and everything will always work out in the end. :172:

Sykonee · #33 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

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Originally Posted by tct69

Oh Huney it's a game right from the start. My suggestion for You, would be to go for the older guys, there more experienced, they more respectful and just all together,WAY better boyfriends, but if you wanna stick to the games keep going for little boyz and thats what ur gunna get. See what I'm sayin sweets.

*cough... blush* :power-p: :165: :181:

~*tct*~ · #34 (**permalink**) Oct 17, 04

I've apparently given out to much karma in the past 24 hrs, so ur SOL, but when I can, U'll be the first to get some ur way.^^^^^^^^

Rytalin · #35 (**permalink**) Oct 19, 04

Reality is a game.

zeal_oner · #36 (**permalink**) Oct 19, 04

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Originally Posted by FlyViEtChiC

WHy WHy Why..
its basically.. girls love assholes and guys love bitches.. so assholes and bitches have long term relationships.. (except for those odd balls where they are really in "love" if you can even call it that) but neways..

Does a relationship haft to be rocky in the beginning?

is everyone just playing this big game.. even if they know it or not?

this is my theory:
In the beginning its a BIG power struggle.. with trying to make the other person jelous and making them wonder to get them more interested.. and both people stress out. but try to act cool. and trying to fit eachother into your schedule without giving stuff up. (remember girls don't drop everything for a guy.. it shows u have strength) and when you get the power and schedule balanced.. you can actually start to get to know the person.. and let your feelings grow.. but i think during this stage its not a matter of you NEED this person.. its jsut means.. I WANT this person because their messing with your head.. and like we all know.. "you always want what you can't have"

life's werid.

and for you people who say "i dont like games" or "i dont wanna play any games".. trust me.. EVERYONE does.. i'm one of these people.. but its a self-concious thing.. u jsut can't help it.. because you don't want to look desperate right? ahaha. i got some tricks in my bag..*

^^^VERY VERY WELL SAID...

heatherness · #37 (**permalink**) Oct 19, 04

i didn't really read the post BUT..

screw relationships., lets just have one big orgy.

~Sc@ndelu$~ · #38 (**permalink**) Oct 19, 04

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Originally Posted by heatherness

i didn't really read the post BUT..

screw relationships., lets just have one big orgy.

wow now that wasnt slutty sounding at all

PwInCeSs · #39 (**permalink**) Oct 19, 04

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i didn't really read the post BUT..

screw relationships., lets just have one big orgy.

ew orgys come on now get sum sense

heatherness · #40 (**permalink**) Oct 19, 04

hahaha..

whatever

PwInCeSs · #41 (**permalink**) Oct 19, 04

watever indeed

mojo · #42 (**permalink**) Oct 20, 04

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Originally Posted by Rhianna

Fuck, I rather be single then be in a big power struggle game.

exactly. im not about to waste my time on some child who wants to try to mess with my head.

but i agree with sykonee as well. it is all in our head, and i know i think way too much when im starting out with someone.

dapimpstress · #43 (**permalink**) Oct 20, 04

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Originally Posted by Rytalin

Reality is a game.

reality is an invention of the human mind... it is simply one plane in which we exist.

TipSy · #44 (**permalink**) Oct 20, 04

relationships are jus drama..unless u really care about the person

ebbomega · #45 (**permalink**) Oct 20, 04

^^ Relationships are drama regardless of whether or not you care about the person.

But they're far more than just drama.

See, relationships are games, in which rules can be explicit or non-explicit.

The former is usually a better idea than the latter, simply because it avoids confusion.

Therefore, communication is key to relationships.

Grok?

ebbomega · #46 (**permalink**) Oct 20, 04

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Originally Posted by Ashes

reality is an invention of the human mind... it is simply one plane in which we exist.

"Reality is a crutch for those who can't handle drugs."
- Old Drug Culture lore.