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Oct 26, 04
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Messing up your only chance
I recently got a chance to talk with a woman whom I've had feelings for a while, but haven't seen around that much. I managed to obtain her MSN so we could keep in contact.
Anyways, a couple of days later I add her and we chat for a bit. Unfortunately, a slip of the tongue and she's, well, a little pissed at me. So pissed that she deleted me from her list. She'll be switching schools soon, so I won't get many chances to see her in person. I feel like I just wasted a golden opportunity to get something started. I feel like crap right now. 
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Oct 26, 04
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Anyways, yes, this is quite possibly one of the lowest points of my life. For months I kept telling myself over and over what I would say to her if I ever saw her again, only to have all that mean nothing within the span of 10 minutes.
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Oct 26, 04
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things do get better w/ time..
if u want her... then go after her.. u make as many chances as u want.. she may be pissed at u at the moment.. but she cant be pissed at u forever... shit happens, things are said... u cant change the past.. but u can def change the future if u want something w/ her.. dont jus get pushed over and say u missed ur only chance... go for it... make another chance... and make it known u want her.. it will make her feel special that some one cares enough to go through all that for them... that is, if u feel she's worth UR time.
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Oct 26, 04
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werd. yo you got her msn so you got her email so....drop the lines dood. i'd write a letter.... Heartfelt ink on paper's best but if you gotta then just email it. if you're for real what she reads will flow n she'll know n if it still don't go, fuk er yo. you're too good for her;)
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Oct 26, 04
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Oct 27, 04
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i hope that you are right on this one miss myra
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Oct 27, 04
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^^ ye thats true..
but if u really think she's the one u want.. then make it clear.. TRUST ME! if u dont think doing all this work to try and get her is worth it.. then she's really not the one for u... if u would do anything... and i mean ANYTHING, then that must tell u something... do what u feel is needed to get her attention.
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Oct 30, 04
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Yeah, well... I spilt beer on the one person I thought I had something going with. Back to square one.
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Oct 30, 04
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Ms. Chop, you sound like you got some experience and i totally feel the same. i've had some pretty good "chances" to do something but i couldn't get myself up to go and say some meaningful stuff to her so Magi GO FOR IT, you just gotta try again, i had chances and i left them slip which was a mistake, so dude give'r it all!
i'm rootin' for ya
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Dec 09, 04
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i did too!! :P haha
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Dec 09, 04
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"Please master, I need guidance. Direct me to the truth oh wise one."
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Dec 09, 04
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haha come find me at all the raves! I'll provide wisdom and guidance for cupcakes, tangerines or popsicles!
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Dec 09, 04
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If you feel really bad, just saying you are sorry means more than anything I think. I think that's a really hard thing for a lot of people to say!
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Dec 10, 04
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If you really dig this girl, you will build a bridge of chance to get to her. At least let her know how you feel before she goes - you don't want to be swimming in regret and the horrid "what-ifs" for the rest of your life.
I think you might be just so overwhelmed with this infactuation for this girl that you are almost too scared to approach her again. Try apologizing to her and then spending some more time talking to her and finding out what she's like... You seem to have such high expectations for things to work out... just relax and take it easy. Things will unfold in their own ways... Good luck.
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