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Nov 19, 04
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Faking it.
Not all women are so lucky as to reach the heights of orgasm every time they have a sexual encounter. For some women it’s a little more difficult than others. So the question remains, should we fake it?
The answer is a resounding no! As women of the new millennium, we have a right to demand more from our sexual lives than just old-style missionary positions and no orgasms. If you think your current beau might be long-term-relationship material, then you should definitely let him know what gets you to the top of the Big O. Whether it’s fun oral sex or vigorous intercourse that gets you there, you should tell him exactly what works for you. The only person who gets hurt by faking it is you (he’ll still have his regardless). If he thinks his “special move” is the one that does it for you every time, then he’s going to use it more and more. Meanwhile, all you get are some great acting skills and no real pleasure from your sex life. There are ways to approach your partner on this issue. You could begin by letting him know about the moves he has that work. For instance, if the nibbles on the earlobe gets your engine revving, but your car goes into park as soon as he puts his whole tongue in your ear; then, tell him to knock off the full tongue action and keep the nibbles coming. Or, if you know that being on top will help you hit your “g-spot”, then take control during sex and change into that position. As a very wise and sexy guy once said, “I don’t want a woman who fakes orgasms, I want one who insists on them!” All in all, women have one great advantage over men in the bedroom and that is the ability to have multiple orgasms. This is something you will never achieve if you can’t even get him to give you one and there’s no need to explain the amazing ecstasy you can have if you get there. Written By: Tracy Hart 
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Nov 20, 04
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haha girls who fake it are retarded, if you didnt cum tell the dude, and unless hes a totall clown he should put in the extra effort and get her off.
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Nov 20, 04
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fuk faking it, it really is only hurting yourself by doing it...
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Nov 20, 04
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Bahahahaha faking....please. Why on earth should I let him think he's doing a good job when he's not? I have never ever faked it and I never will.
Does anyone actually fake it? I've never met a girl that has. It's way more fun to give them the "That was lame,you better be ready to go again in 5 or I'll cut you" look.
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Nov 20, 04
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^ I've known some girls to do it.
It really makes no sense. You get no pleasure out of it, he starts thinking what he's doing is good, so he'll do it more and more. Besides, you shouldn't be humping someone if you can't even talk to them about what you like sexually. And if the guy gets offended by the girl showing/telling him what she wants, then he's just an asshat.
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Nov 20, 04
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I did once in highschool.
I was really, really, really drunk, and it was really sloppy. I just kind of wanted to get things over and done with because it was an awkward situation, and a bad night, and I just wanted to go home and go to bed. haha but never again!
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Nov 21, 04
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By faking it you just make the guy think hes all that and a bag of potato chips, which is just ruining it for you and and future girls hes going to be with.
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Nov 22, 04
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any guy who fucks a girl and worries about him self during sex doesn't desirve to have sex sure trying to commit the act of sex we are thinking souly of our selves and that's fine. But she was nice enough to let you stick a peice of yourself inside her the least you can do is let her enjoy it the most she can
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Nov 22, 04
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Any guy that is in it for himself.. should have his dick cut off.
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Nov 23, 04
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The only time I've ever faked it was in the first month or two that I was having sex with my first boyfriend/lover. I had no idea what felt good or what to do to make it feel good.
Since I've figured out what works, it's all been smoooooooooooooth sailing! :D
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Dec 10, 04
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you know what i think is really bad, if a guy would fake it
that means, girl.. i'd rather do a tree
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Dec 10, 04
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if yo having sex and not just a casual thing between 2 mutual people * like 1 night stand * then u should be able to communicate other wise SOMETHING is seriously wrong........
speak yo mind women believe me i need all the tricks i can, never can learn tooooooooo much!!!!
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Dec 10, 04
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i admit, ive faked it plenty of times. for the first 3 years of my sexual life, i oculdnt get off, so i assumed i was broken, and i got into a habit of faking it after a while, just to get the deed over with. now that ive encountered people who have the ability to get me off, and ive learned that a lot of it is jsut in my own head, i dont do it nearly as often. but there are times when i just know its not gonna happen, and the guy wont give up, and i'm finished, and i'll still fake it just so he'll get off me. its getting fewer and farther between, but it is a difficult habit to break....
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Dec 10, 04
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chicks who fake it make me feel good aboot myself :)
thanx girls.
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