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Nov 06, 04
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doing the right thing sucks
so i was just starting to feel comfortable....
and despite my reservations about being involved with someone again, things were definitely happening in a good way. then someone else got involved.... i got scared.... and i gave up on it. it made me realize that the time isn't right, just yet, for us. but now i feel like an asshole, and the really hard part is... i spend most of my day thinking about her, and i miss her a lot. yet i know that i did the right thing, cause it wouldn't have worked out very well right now... (at least i HOPE that i did the right thing.) and i hope that waiting will actually make things better. it seemed like it would be better to wait, cause of the situation. i'm not ready for anything so intense, and i don't think she is either. but that's not helping how i feel. i'm very sad. doing the right thing sucks! :( sorry, just need to complain. (as a troll, obviously) 
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Nov 06, 04
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shuuuuuuuuuudup penguien123 !
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Nov 07, 04
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ummm, no. that's not who i am
Last edited by InsertRealName; Nov 07, 04 at 12:34 PM.
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Nov 29, 04
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so as it turns out, while doing the right thing sucks....
you know what sucks more? not doing what you want. so, i've given up and given in, and i've decided that the 'right thing' is what my heart is saying, not my mind. i just hope it all works out in my favour. somehow i know it will, it always does, and even the fear that it won't reminds me of what it is to be alive. i feel better now anyways, so this must be a step in the right direction. isn't it strange that the heart and mind can be of such differing opinions? or am i the only one?
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Nov 29, 04
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Nov 29, 04
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i did the right thing.....broke myboyfriends heart after 2 years of a relationship...
he's having a hard time understanding my reasons.... but one thing i know for sure is...THIS IS SO HARD i know if he kissed me right now, i'd melt...... sometimes you gotta do the right thing....een tho it feels wrong
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Dec 05, 04
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Yes, We've all went through hard imotional moments...
If you have any chances correcting anything do it! if you feel she mis understood or maybe she didn't do the right thing speak with her or if she doesn't want to, show her something that you know will open a light somewhere, it will make your heart stronger facing those situations, and who knows maybe there will have something good at the end of it..:200: Last edited by maztraz; Dec 05, 04 at 02:45 PM.
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Dec 05, 04
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somtimes having the courage to do the right thing causes you great amounts of hurt.
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Dec 05, 04
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I think the problem is we always have a tendancy to look at here and now and how our actions affect us. I think it's perfectly natural for people to do it, but even if it doesn't feel great, it's good to take a step back and look at the big picture and how that will fit in.
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Dec 05, 04
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well, thanks for the replies everyone. this last week has been exceptionally hard, and the situation i'm in, got SO much more complicated than i thought it could.
but....as it turns out, we both really like each other, and despite the difficulty in this situation, i think we are going to have try to make it work. (cause neither of us is going to be happy by calling it off) hahaha we just like each other too much so.. final conclusion for me? (at least from this situation).... doing 'the right thing' isn't a good idea if it goes against what you want. maybe it's better to go for what you want, and lose, than to make the mistake of going against yourself. plus then it's just a missed opportunity, i think i'm lucky that i had a chance to go back on what i had said to her. i almost 'missed the boat'. so for now, things are looking up :056:
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Dec 07, 04
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I Know Exactly How You Feel.
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