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Nov 17, 04
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in order to get respect u must earn respect,
and 'honey'.. by the looks of how ur sounding, u sound like a stupid dumb broad. no wonder u get 'no respect'.. ur a dumb broad. and if im wrong, hey, .. but by the looks of it, u sound stupid and dumb. and no wonder u get no respect. but, hey.. ur on a raver board where u dunno pretty much anyone, and you bitch bout guys and sound stupid and dumb, wut do u expect me to think?! 
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I would just like to take this time to state that my bf (who happens to be a guy) treats me with respect, courtesy and is more than eagar to do sweet things for me.... then again, I'm a lucky lady.
So let's not generalize that guys don't know what respect is because you are surrounded by disrespectful incompetant jerk offs, thanks. On a final note: If you respect yourself, others will learn to respect you.
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Hey man... she seems to have gotten an Apple II online and able to browse websites... that deserves a bit of respect.
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the same thing that should be expected of a girlfriend. honesty, respect, someone to have thru the bad times...to hold your hand and make sure you're ok, someone to have thru the great times...to jump up and down and smile with, complete support ... they must stand behind you and stick up for you...etc
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aww so sweet
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Im not a dumb broad thank you very much, my feelings are just mixed about this thats all. I respect my boyfriend so much and i do feel respect most of the time. I guess you guys are right thats all thats important, it would just be nice to feel loved a little more thats all.. something from the heart
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Nov 18, 04
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In response to the title: No they will never learn. Niether will women because we keep going back to them.
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Nov 18, 04
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If you don't get respect then move on. From reading what you posted it really seems like your one of those chicks that expects everything from her boyfriend. If he loves you and treats you good, that should be enough for you. If you want more then, you're too demanding. Also to get respect from him, you got to respect him and not be so demanding.
All you broads want so much, just chill out on that shit, instead of demanding respect, treat your boy right, cook him something, pay for dinner once in a while, don't call every hour and bug him (that is so annoying), let him chill with his friends and not be with you 24/7, and most of all support him in whatever he decides to do. Respect is a game that both the boyfriend and girlfriend got to play.
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and once again wut i said before... u came onto a raver board where practically nobody knows u, u dont make any justifications as to u being respectful towards ur man.. u jus go on about how he doesnt respect u, blah, blah blah... well wut do u expect ppl to think? we dunno u, we dunno ur life that u hold.. if u want ppl to understand u and not call u a stupid dumb broad.. then dont act like one.. i.e show back up support as to why ur man should give u respect.. catch my drift?
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I mean, have you ever tried to confront a significant other over something that's pissing you off? It's a lot harder than just bitching it out anonymously on the internet.... Just remain aloof and let the problems brood, right? It's not the smarter way to go, but it definately is the easier... If Livejournal has taught us anything, it's that the internet has become every single silly little teenager's personal angst-venting ground. FNK has never really been much different, now has it? Last edited by ebbomega; Nov 18, 04 at 06:37 AM.
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Nov 18, 04
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i think that answer is fairly obscure, it's different for everyone,
but i definitely agree with the Respect thing, that's a must. and whoever said that most guys don't know what respect is, is dead right. unfortunately. i think a boyfriend should be there for you for whatever you need really. if you think you need something from him and you ask for it, he should give it to you. be that help, or emotional support, or just company. that's his place. to be there for you.
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Nov 18, 04
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Well thanks for everything i guess.. i've learned not to come on here for advice i havent told much of my story because its complicated but to the conclusion i dumped my boyfriend last night.. i gave him everything.. and yes i did pay for his dinner, buy him expensive things support him.. even when i didnt like it.. and dealt with his other girlfriends on the side.. im done with it all
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sounds like you really didn't need any advice after all. looks like you laready knew what to do, and from the little amount of info there, it looks like you did what you should've done. keep smiling, it's hard, but it'll work out in the end. everything always does.
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