hot guys u cant talk to

[Courtney]

theres this really shy cute guy who come into my work everyday..ive worked there for 6 months and every time he comes in i get all crazy..hes really nice and i want to actually be able to talk to him but he intimidates me so we never actually have full on convois cuz i get all embarassed..wtf should i do to talk to him?

[robyn]

Drink on the job?

[wum]

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[C_squared]

some advise:

don't be afraid to say anything you think is stupid, 'cause chances are he already said something dumb first.

[Liqwid]

ummm.....just go talk to him and asking him out for coffee....or something

just don't even think about it.....just do it

~dalyn

[Joanne]

I remember a few years back, I met some guy at party and he said I was the cutest and best dancer he had ever seen. he was SO FUCKING hot, but I guess I was too nervous to really keep any conversation after that.

I saw him probably a few weeks later at playland and he recognized me and waved. I could've played cool, but instead I decided to be a big dork and shook his hand, with my arm extending as far as as it could extend away from my body.

I suck at initiating conversations and dating altogether. thank goodness I'm already in a relationship. haha.

--Joanne :P

[decypher]

^^ lol such a jo thing to do, 2foot radius!!!

[miss.myra]

bumble around awkwardly and embarass yourself! works for me everytime! :S

[Lady Dame]

When you get the guts: Go up to him and say, " Hey, i have to say this or i'm going to regret it like i do everytime i see you, i totally think your (attractive/nice/goodlooking/awesome) and i wanted to know if you were up for maybe some coffee or sushi sometime."

[stringbeans]

yeah whatever you do, DON'T listen to any advice jo gives haha

[Joanne]

Originally Posted by stringbeans

yeah whatever you do, DON'T listen to any advice jo gives haha

IT'S FUNNY CUZ IT'S TRUE!

--Joanne :P

[mojo]

i have had decent luck with "nice bum, where ya from?".

[Kelster]

get some self esteem OK

[ty_guy]

nothing says "i like you" like a goodm firm ............. handshake:230: umm ya (guy perspective) be straight forward with him cause i know guys don't like to try and figure out those "hints" some of you girls give. if he is shy then you gotta be the opposite to start something. i'm shy but if you break that barrier where we actually have a full conversation then my shyness goes away, may be the same thing for him. give it a try and don't regret.

[yoko*]

I hate those moments..

Was at roxy a week ago and saw THE cutest guy (at least in my opinion) in a pink button-up with dark brown curly-ish hair... drooled from a distance and quite pathetically, that was about it. Yet.. some people are just fun to stare and fantasize about.

:P

[Courtney]

Originally Posted by Kelster

get some self esteem OK

u know me ok!

[wum]

^ fuck, that dancing wedge of cheddar is killing me

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by wum

^ fuck, that dancing wedge of cheddar is killing me

are you trying to pick her up?

[wum]

Originally Posted by crookedking

are you trying to pick her up?

not really

[~Sc@ndelu$~]

Its the same way with me and this guy i work with. I get so nervous i hate it but i dont really know what to say to him. When u figure it out let me know what u did lol.

[ebbomega]

I'm giving you 90-to-1 odds he's just as paranoid about talking to you.

Just say hi. Talk about music. Find out what he's into. It works, surprisingly.

[Seany G]

Just say hi.

Honestly though he is probably really friendly. Even if people have boyfirend's and g/fs they are still really friendly when they are hit on.

Whats the worst that could happen? :D