Ladies....does he appreciate u?

[Joanne]

my bf makes all other bf's seem like dogs!


*swoon*

[Veni*C]

i love how all the guys who dont have gfs are all hating up in this thread.. kinda funny...

anyways.. i didnt write this shit up.. i got it in an email..so dont quote me and tell me im wrong.. write a letter to the editor if it bothers u that much...lol....

and if you have bfs like this your deffinatly lucky!! :)

[decypher]

How depressing....

[dabbler]

seriously, that's all the kind of stuff you should do for friends, i think it should go a step farther for a GF.

tho people do underestimate this one....

"He drops a disagreement even though you know he hasn’t changed his mind."

(this works both ways)

[decypher]

Dropping disagreements is really important in any social situation.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

I drop disagreements to shut the bitch up, hahaha

[Ms.Chop]

my bf called me to tell me i was beautiful like 2 hours ago (before he hadta goto sleep for work)..
it was really sweet..
and even though he may not do those EXACT things..
he still does alot of sweet things.. and even though alot of the times he doesn't say i love u as much as i do.. i kno deep down inside he loves me alot more then i like to think so..
so it's all good :)

[galaxie]

Why is it that guys have such a problem saying "I'm sorry". They'll imply that they're sorry, do things to suck up, etc. when all we REALLY want is to hear the words!

[g!ggles]

I knew mine was the best from the moment that I saw him! I <3 him ooddlees!

Awesome thread Veni :)

[Moon]

damn my current gf who i wanna break up with may think i'm all the above on that list... but inside most of the time i just do em to make her stop complaining.

[Bevvy Swift]

Originally Posted by matéo

So basically its alright that he can't communicate his feelings to you as long as he makes you a cup of lipton soup?

agreed. girls say they want a real relasionship with real communication, when really all they want is flowers and chocolates.

[justa~gurl]

we always make our meals together =o)

and i remember one time i woke up and went to the kitchen to make some toast and he came shuffling in, yawning, eye's half shut and he came up to me and said in a little tiny tired voice.. "i watched you while you were sleeping... you looked like an angel"

..i'll remember it forever (mushy mushy)




But, i agree with the guys who are 'hating' on this thread..

good relationships go past the norm... those things listed are the norm (or should be ( why would you settle for someone like, well as Akeel demonstrated for us.. or someone with a more passive approach, but none the less, bascially treating you the same way)

[stringbeans]

Originally Posted by k-pryde

damn my current gf who i wanna break up with may think i'm all the above on that list... but inside most of the time i just do em to make her stop complaining.

HAAAA

[Carrie]

wait, if I do all the for my friends, does that mean that I'm an awesome bf too?

cause this list does sound like things people should do for their friends, not specifically the boyfriend for the girlfriend

[Akeel]

Originally Posted by justa~gurl

good relationships go past the norm... those things listed are the norm (or should be ( why would you settle for someone like, well as Akeel demonstrated for us.. or someone with a more passive approach, but none the less, bascially treating you the same way)

i'm a big asshole :)

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~

When you tell him your dreams, he asks you questions.


He laughs at your jokes and your stories about your friends – which from anyone else might not be so amusing to him!


When you just wake up and you’re not even feeling so great, he tells you you're beautiful.


He says thank you when you haven’t done anything special (other than be yourself) – and he means it. While it may seem simple, for the most part, guys choose words like thanks for when they mean them…

Wait a minute... 4/10 still require him to communicate???

Originally Posted by ~Veni_C~

He drops a disagreement even though you know he hasn’t changed his mind.

He lets you pick the movies… even when he’s dying to see that new shoot ‘em up action flick that’s on three screens.

And hes actualy doing nothing in these two except keeping his mouth shut???


So really 6/10 of these are bullshit. 7/10 for me becuase my boy and I dont drink coffee.


As for the remaining 3/10... dump the chick if she cant reconize those things as appriciation.


Further more I give this thread bullshit becuase with some ex's of mine did more talking than finding ways to SHOW appreciation :n:

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by k-pryde

damn my current gf who i wanna break up with may think i'm all the above on that list... but inside most of the time i just do em to make her stop complaining.

AS LONG AS HE IS EVERYTHING ON THIS LIST EVERYTHING IS GREAT.

[Ree Fresh]

Originally Posted by galaxie

Why is it that guys have such a problem saying "I'm sorry". They'll imply that they're sorry, do things to suck up, etc. when all we REALLY want is to hear the words!

Guys (and alot of ppl in general) have no problem saying sorry. Its saying "im sorry" meaning it and actualy not doing whatever again. I think they suck up becuase they know there probly just gonna do it agian :p

[miSsy_chriSsy]

hes makin me dinner as i type :P lol