Priorities...

[Babyfyne]

:AZN: What means priorities??? I mean how is one to decide what shouldbe first on your list and what should be last....I mean in respect to emotional stuff...things that cause stress are suppose to be dealt with first???No?...Yes???...Family, work, Other halfs, Friends....Isn't it more important to make a balance??
FUCK priorities!! Do you guys think some things should precede another?? AND WHY?????????? :043:

[Moon]

yes things should be prioritzed obviously. some will affect your life more than others. family is like by far number 1, then friends then whatever

family is first because its same blood and when yur in trouble theyre the main ones tehre to help u. friends cuz theyre friends but its not as guaranteed as family that they would help u...

[yoko*]

priorities differ from person to person... it depends on what is more important to YOU, so there is no "rule" of which should come after the other..

I personally think it's important to think of the LONG TERM EFFECTS and LONG TERM goals before the short term ones. When I make a decision I try to think about how this one decision is going to affect my long term goals....

that's how I prioritize..

;)

[bob]

priorities depend on the situation

which is why everyone's priorities differ.

mine change to suit my needs (as selfish as that may seem)... i remember in high school they made us list our priorities from most important to least important ... i think i put GIRLFRIEND at the top, ahahhh... now it's like ... work, friend, family, fun.

i think a person needs to be prioritized to land them in the direction they're aiming for. sometimes it's hard for people to choose which is more important and that can blow everything out of wack .... iono...

[KeeBLeR]

1) self preservation
2) meh anything after 1 is useless

[~lazee_grrl~]

priorities...i hate them cuz i can never really figure out how my list goes...but i know my number one is friends/family/pets/people i luv..they're all tied for first..i mean..without those people...life isn;t much of a life..

but with everything else..its always screwed up..i always think i know wuts most important to me..but then i find out later on that i screwed up some priorities...i think its just one of those things in life that are forever changing..it always depends on sumthing...

[yoko*]

hmm. i think i might agree with tony baloney..
self is important

without self, there is nothing else... if you think about it.

[KeeBLeR]

exactly! If your yourself are not "okay" then how could you justify putting anything or anyone higher or lower on your "priority list"

[yoko*]

yeah not only that, but i was also thinking that if you yourself weren't alive than no one is a priority cuz you wouldn't be alive to make any one else a priority..

uhh.. but maybe that was thinking to far. ;0

[dj4mula]

Family is blood and should always be first. Some friends can be considered as family. However, everything else is worthless without family/close friends.

[kiMMie]

Priorities differ in every person's lifestyle and experience. They are set in accordance to what is pertinent in your life at that exact moment.

For some people, priorities sometimes change constantly, but for others they stay dormant.

It all depends on the type of life you lead

[Babyfyne]

I dunno i agree that priorities change all the time and stuff like that..depending on situations...cause i mean "shit happens" and you gotta deal with it....but how do you go about deciding what comes first?? that's like rating ur friends...1)bob 2)sally....know what im saying?? doesnt it seem unfair??

[bob]

what's most important to you!?!
that's all u should need to figure out.

if say, your friend got upset that you put something else infront of them, tell them to shutup and respect the fact that some things are more important.

nothing's fair. but you should at least be true to yourself.


then again, i guess you could be a communist and treat everyone the same?

or just have no friends, it makes life a hell of a lot easier.

[Babyfyne]

nooo not just friend issue...more like b/f g/f issue...like if they believe THEY should come first type of thing..you know?

[bob]

if your bf/gf can't respect that you sometimes having more important things to do than fight and have sex, then they don't respect you enough to be your bf/gf.

[bebu*funfun]

rite now it's

1) vball
2) social life
3) partying (raving)
4) school
5) family

but it SHOULD be:

1) family
2) school
3) vball
4) social life
5) partying (raving)

my priorities are soo messed up... =(

[ty:rone]

1)work work work
2) make money
3) thnk of smart ways to make money (legally)
4) fix bebu's party
5)get my license to make money

[bebu*funfun]

=( i'm only 4th on his list....i must go and cry now

[Babyfyne]

I know what my priorities are now^_^...here goes..
1)snowboarding
2)snowboarding
3)snowboarding
4)get off the computer and go snowboarding...

You guys were right...priorities ARE important^_^..