Bieng Sold Out by "Friends" For Drugs....

miSsy_chriSsy · #1 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Yah, Kinda need to vent about this one....

So my best friend calls me a few weeks ago to tell me a bunch of my really good friends from Prince George are coming down to Vancouver for the Coldplay concert. I'm extatic - I haven't seen some of these people in over two years - and I was told 2 of them were coming to stay with me.

I waited and waited, couldn't wait, couldn't wait. Then the day came - Last wednesday they were supposed to be in town (The night before the concert) - I waited, waited, waited for their phone call. No biggie, maybe they didn't make it in time to phone me... who knows.

Next day. Still no call.

I called from work on Thursday and left a message on my best friend's phone "Hey! I'm at work! Call me here! Or call me at home, incase you don't have my number! (insert numbers here)"

Still no call.

So thursday rolls along - I'm supposed to go to the concert with these people. I finally get a call at 5pm after work "Hey Christy, we're here! Um, we need to find a spot to meet up before the concert!". I call them back, and we made a time outside GM place to meet.

I'm thinking "Oh they must have come today instead!"... It only makes sense, because of course they would call me! They didn't have a place to stay!

Well, I met up with them, we get into the concert, and I asked one of my friends "Oh, so you guys didn't get here until today?"... My friend says "Uhh, umm, no, we got here yesterday at around 4pm." I ask "Well why didn't you guys call me yesterday??" (insert sad face here)

Turns out - all of them went to my ex-boyfriend's house to snort coke up their nose until 6am thursday morning. They didn't bother calling me, well, because i'm pregnant, and well, it's just wierd having someone around not doing drugs with them....
So, instead of dignifying me with a phone call and letting me know they were in town, and saying they were going to do drugs... They just ignored me until the next day.

How nice is that, eh?

Being sold out for coke is LAME.

Eff you, friends.... I guess you never really were my friends in the first place.

dj_soo · #2 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

could be worse... I've been sold out for meth before :-\

baby-phat · #3 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

^ Same here.
But either way that's a pretty damn lame reason to sell someone out. If they've just gotta be stickin that white shit up their noses they could've at least come to see you first and then go off and snort, or like you said have the decency to call you and let you know what's up.
That's lame hun. *hugz*

veN · #4 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Man that is such a letdown. It's really too bad you had to go thru that. But you sound pretty mature about it, so I'm sure you'll sort out how you want to deal with it. Good luck!

project.one · #5 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

It happens. True friends wont do that to you though!.
Most people who do drugs wont call to tell you their doing them if they dont want you around. They will do just that, just ignore you. Its stupid. But that what drugs do to us! I know Im guilty of doing that back when! Part of why I had to change my drug intake!

Sorry it had to happen. Its never fun when it does! *hugs* to you even though I dont know you. Just to try and cheer you up!

miSsy_chriSsy · #6 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

^ very true.

I am guilty of the same in the past. I guess I didn't realize how much I hurt other people by excluding them like that.

Ugh. It just sucks when it happens to you! I used to do drugs with them alot when I was a flailing raver in Prince George - I guess I've outgrown them - and they're still stuck in the same cycle.

Kinda sad, actually.

Thanks for the support, guys <3 *hugs*

dapimpstress · #7 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

coke sucks.

#8 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

I thought your ex had changed his life around including his roommates....:S

miSsy_chriSsy · #9 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

He lives alone now.... Go figure. He had big red scabs on his nose when i saw him at the Coldplay concert :(

It made me really sad. Especially if his so-called friends are encouraging his drug use - when obviously it's clear he has a problem - you know?

#10 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Is he working? Or going to school.....or what? Pretty crazy when I look back on what he was. I can truley say, hypocrite much.....

Remember Chrissy you have better friends in worse places!

nabs · #11 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Almost the same thing for me. Some bitches dont appreciate it after you do them a favor, you think their your friends, then they go behind your back and do shit without telling you, and they know that I would like to be included sometimes. luckily I made friends everywhere, I learned to cut my friends and only keep the ones that are worth keeping. The friends i have right now are all best friends.

project.one · #12 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

I used to get sold out alot too
Ive been ditched at a rave by my ride home so they could go do more drugs with someon they knew in town. Made the trip home a little harder!

mindgurl · #13 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

oh dear. that is lame. u need new friends. :(

project.one · #14 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

^^^ Not sure if you ment miSsy_chriSsy of me from my last post on here. But if you ment me, yeah, Im trying to make new ones out here. But its hard meeting people !

cutienikki · #15 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Sorry to hear that hun, I have had that happen to me too,

when i use to do drugs i had a lot of "friends" then once i told them i stopped raving and doing drugs and what not they all left...it did hurt but then i learned that they arnt my friends and all that jazz....but i totally know how u feel to be sold out and what not for drugs...

but again if they do ever need help ill always be here for them....but its the principal that counts...

*hugz*

mojo · #16 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Congrats on the bun in the oven : )

and your so called friends sound like shit.

BongMan · #17 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Drugs suck friends on drugs are worse..

frogprincess · #18 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Quote:

Originally Posted by mojo

Congrats on the bun in the oven : )

and your so called friends sound like shit.

yum! i love buns.

AAA · #19 (**permalink**) Jan 31, 06

Hey Chrissy saw the thread thought i would check it out didnt think it would be this deep but hey life is life. I see why you are frustrated but then again they came down to party and it was sorta nice of them not to tempt you in any negative way.
Just a positive way to look at the situtaion, eather way I know it sux it had to happen but like you said you didnt see them for 2 years and last thing you need is for the to stress or sadness while you are pregnant. Stay positve and your baby will only thank you :)

Later