Finally having CLOSURE on a garbage relationship!!

[P.A.R.T.Y]

We often forget that we are in control of our lives.
When you decide what's right for you, then you know that it's not friends, girlfriends, drugs, jobs, or music running the show, it's you.

It sound like your girlfriend was comfortable with you, but she has issues that she needs to deal with by herself. The true nature of a caring relationship is trust, honesty, respect, and love. You shouldn't settle for anything less.

Good luck in the future.

[Revolver]

wow wayner this is a real heart felt thread man.

i know what your going through.....i did this shit last year.

it hurts like a motherfucker man. it really really dose. but you know what.

THE BEST THING I HAVE EVER DONE!

for me and for her.

shit will always sting a little though. but it becomes bitter sweet.

[zarlon]

brutal but yet at least you know what you will and wont settle for in the future.

good luck

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Right now...I'm still battling the constant reminder of her... She gave me the Sony 700's headphones I got....and everytime I put them on....I think of her, in the beggining, She gave me headphones to be a DJ, and I gave her a Camera to be a photographer... *sigh*... =(

[PokemonMasta]

Originally Posted by Toxxin Ephekt

Right now...I'm still battling the constant reminder of her... She gave me the Sony 700's headphones I got....and everytime I put them on....I think of her, in the beggining, She gave me headphones to be a DJ, and I gave her a Camera to be a photographer... *sigh*... =(

stop bein a lil bitch! getting drunk asnd trashing ur apartment works wonders at realeasin bottled up emotions

[Toxxin Ephekt]

^^ Haha, Until you wake up....and have to clean it up!!..

[scue]

Oh yeaaah, bad times bein drunk and wreckin my own physical surroundings/posessions.. sure it works, but it's rather embarrassing when you wake up.. regrets haha

With every relationship that you think you got nothing out of, just remember how much you learned..

[C_squared]

Originally Posted by Toxxin Ephekt

Right now...I'm still battling the constant reminder of her... She gave me the Sony 700's headphones I got....and everytime I put them on....I think of her, in the beggining, She gave me headphones to be a DJ, and I gave her a Camera to be a photographer... *sigh*... =(

Dude, I feel sorry for you and all... and frankly I'm quite happy you've moved on Waynard, but don't let your material shit be a symbol of whatever you had with her mang... its material shit...snap out of it.

We need to smoke some blunts soon too dude, its been while since we hung out.

[decypher]

^ Yeh lets get wayne out to do some burning of material posessions and a cleansing of the system(with alcohol).

[C_squared]

Originally Posted by decypher

^ Yeh lets get wayne out to do some burning of material posessions and a cleansing of the system(with alcohol).

no doubt... never seen Wayne drunk... I think that this whole ordeal would drive the guy to drink.

Just a few drinks Wanyne.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Jesus...I just got bitched out by my buddy Ignite for about 36 mins on the phone, cuz I saw my EX today...And he's harsh not down with me talking to her... and Kam you'd prolly bitch at me too once you read this....fuck...

I did go to Ozone last Friday!!, haha, I managed to have a good time, good to meet a few new chickens....haha!... But yes...The EX still isnt fully out the picture yet....and I have yet to realize to drop this shit...Fuck!!! Whatev....

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Fuck....its so easy to give advice, then actually taking it.... ,

[decypher]

No Wayne it's not "whatever" it's stop talking to her if you know what is good for you. Do you want to get fucked over again? She's only talking to you for her own selfish reasons. Dude come on.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

*sigh*.....I dont know man....She doesn't have me whipped or anything....I get really confused if its love or emotional attachment....fuck!!!!!!!!!!, I need a smoke.

[C_squared]

get rid of her.

[Toxxin Ephekt]

I know, I know, I know, I know!!!!!.....

So much for the Closure, remaining closed....

[.muffy.]

get yourself some new shoes while you're out on your little buying spree
it's hard to change who you are when you're still walking around in the same shoes

[Toxxin Ephekt]

^^, Wow...I was thinking that yesterday.....weird.... =)

[Gusto]

thats actually some pretty good advice. maybe get a new haircut too, makes you a new man.

[baby-phat]

Originally Posted by Toxxin Ephekt

*sigh*.....I dont know man....She doesn't have me whipped or anything....I get really confused if its love or emotional attachment....fuck!!!!!!!!!!, I need a smoke.

It's emotional attachment. Trust me, I went through that with my last ex. If you're questioning whether it's love or not then it isn't.
The best thing for you to do is seriously distance yourself from her, otherwise you'll just end up getting hurt again. Some of us learn this the hard way, but hopefully you won't have to. :)

[miss.myra]

Originally Posted by Toxxin Ephekt

*sigh*.....I dont know man....She doesn't have me whipped or anything....I get really confused if its love or emotional attachment....fuck!!!!!!!!!!, I need a smoke.

You are afraid of being alone and that addiction can be just as harmful to your wealth of self as drugs.

[TrixX]

Originally Posted by baby-phat

It's emotional attachment. Trust me, I went through that with my last ex. If you're questioning whether it's love or not then it isn't.
The best thing for you to do is seriously distance yourself from her, otherwise you'll just end up getting hurt again. Some of us learn this the hard way, but hopefully you won't have to. :)

its true :( i learned the hard way

[Toxxin Ephekt]

Oh man... I know....I cant talk to her....

[Dj BABYSMALZ]

oh weener! If you wanna talk to her go ahead and if you dont then dont...its none of shaddis buisness but he just dosnt want u to get hurt

[Toxxin Ephekt]

^^ Oh shit!, Hey Kamila! , I know....Shaddi is more pissed off about the whole deal than I am, She's going to rehab tommorow morning, she came to a realization and she chose to go to rehab herself, so I guess thats a step forward....Hopefully she'll stay positive and move on in life, Nice to see ya on FnK!, I heard you've taken up Dj'ing a lil while back now...I'd like to have a jam session with ya one day!, hopefully I wont have to give you too many pointers, haha! You know how Me and Ignite rinse...., Take care Kamila!