Starting To Rethink my Relationship.

[Discord]

when it starts its exciting.. you cant even breath without each other. like borg you share every inch of your being.

its like every movement your body makes depends on the other, like an extention like a new sense.

then its fades into comfort, where you breath in sync without thinking, where you finish words for each other share secrets no one gets.

then it fades again, dims a little, where you go a week without speeking, a week without touching, and desporate phone calls.

Then it gets a little more old, a little more less urgent. a little less important.
a little less sacrid.
you start to notice flaws, holes imperfections that once seemed cute start to distroy a flawless image.

then you fight about dressing up like a klingon and yelling at each other during sex.

then you brake up... and go 6 months alone.

then you get back together.. and agree to marrage.

years pass. Marrage is still on the list of things to do before the world blows up.

but it seems senseless somehow. I miss the urgency... the need, the addiction.

I guess thats the price to pay for longevity.

[cinist]

woah, don't walk, run..

life is meant to be joyous, never settle

[Discord]

Originally Posted by cinist

woah, don't walk, run..

life is meant to be joyous, never settle

its still joyous and full of butterflys and excitement.

its just

not as... addicting not as hang on and never let go

[PwInCeSs]

Deffinatly dont settle.
If i felt anywhere near that i would not be getting married.
I am a true believer that if its meant to be it will still seem fresh and exciting, i mean yes as you get old it does change but i know couples who are still all about eachother at the age of 50.
I live with my Fiance but every day brings something different and everyday i find more and more reasons that i want to be with him.
Yes we are in what you reffered to as "fading in to comfort" But we deffinatly did not fade, we our comfortable and used to eachother but theres still so much fun in the relationship and just seeing eachother.
I mean you seem to be questioning it, and thats never a good thing, you only live once you mysawell live happy.
NOt to say he doesnt make you happy but it doesnt seem like its all you thought it was cracked up to be.
Deffinatly think really hard in to this subject and think far in to the future!
Good luck :)

ps. do you really yell at eachother during sex? And is it like in an arguing way or some sort of "thing"

[Discord]

Originally Posted by PwInCeSs

Deffinatly dont settle.
If i felt anywhere near that i would not be getting married.
I am a true believer that if its meant to be it will still seem fresh and exciting, i mean yes as you get old it does change but i know couples who are still all about eachother at the age of 50.
I live with my Fiance but every day brings something different and everyday i find more and more reasons that i want to be with him.
Yes we are in what you reffered to as "fading in to comfort" But we deffinatly did not fade, we our comfortable and used to eachother but theres still so much fun in the relationship and just seeing eachother.
I mean you seem to be questioning it, and thats never a good thing, you only live once you mysawell live happy.
NOt to say he doesnt make you happy but it doesnt seem like its all you thought it was cracked up to be.
Deffinatly think really hard in to this subject and think far in to the future!
Good luck :)

ps. do you really yell at eachother during sex? And is it like in an arguing way or some sort of "thing"

its a trekky thing...(klingon sex is loud.. and rough.)

hes still my everything.. its just.... starting to calm down its more comfort vrs .. edgy new.

tho there is a new level of things to learn... spirit. Soul. this sort of thing.

[PwInCeSs]

Originally Posted by Discord

its a trekky thing...(klingon sex is loud.. and rough.)

hes still my everything.. its just.... starting to calm down its more comfort vrs .. edgy new.

tho there is a new level of things to learn... spirit. Soul. this sort of thing.

ahhh i see as long as its not arguing during sex cause thats just strange.

Well i mean maybe talk to him about this, or try new things together (not necisarily in the bedroom) Find new things you guys can do to bring back that fun and that spark.

Have you set a date yet?

[Gusto]

how do you say, "yeah you like that baby?" in klingon?

[Gusto]

i know it's not really in klingon character to care, but i'm sensitive like that.

[mapleleaf4ever]

HIja' nej bel net ghu?

[Gusto]

i better confirm that. i mean, how embarassing would it be if you were tricking me and the girl knew klingon and i was yelling something inappropriate (like calling her a vulcan or something)? that's like my worst nightmare.

[PwInCeSs]

this is a serious matter me and Ryan need to know!

[mapleleaf4ever]

I went to the Klingon Dictionary online and interpolated what you said with the lexis that they had available. It's close to "Do you derive pleasure from that?"

[PwInCeSs]

ta' SoH rur vetlh [baby]

Thats what the English to Galactic translator told me!

http://members.aol.com/jpklingon/uta/javauta.html

[Gusto]

Originally Posted by mapleleaf4ever

Do you derive pleasure from that?

kinda takes the fun out of it hey? haha.

[PwInCeSs]

^ yea that doesnt sound as hot

[Bevvy Swift]

hey baby, are you deriving pleasure or what?

[Bevvy Swift]

haha ill derive you crrazy!

[impure]

Originally Posted by mapleleaf4ever

I went to the Klingon Dictionary online and interpolated what you said with the lexis that they had available. It's close to "Do you derive pleasure from that?"

for shame eric.
for shame.

[veN]

i think all relationships have high and low points. You've just gotta figure out what you want, and if what you have is what you want. If not, don't bother with it a second longer! If you're considering marrying this guy, you'd better be really into him! And be willing to put up with ALL of him.

[dabbler]

Originally Posted by Cheez

haha ill derive you crrazy!

i can't believe you went there ahahaha

[veN]

^ I thought that was pretty funny. I actually LOL'd.

[sinnerman]

Originally Posted by impure

for shame eric.
for shame.

:233: ARGH!
I stole that line first!
How dare you then proceed to steal it from me!
For sh—
Dammit! Now, look: I've got nothin'!
You'll rue the day you crossed me Tonto!
[Points and snarls like evil monkey]

[miSsy_chriSsy]

If you're not happy, then why waste your time?! Don't settle!! There's the perfect person out there waiting for you, you just need to let yourself find them... and never hold yourself back!!!

Trust me!! I found my prince charming.

[PwInCeSs]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

If you're not happy, then why waste your time?! Don't settle!! There's the perfect person out there waiting for you, you just need to let yourself find them... and never hold yourself back!!!

Trust me!! I found my prince charming.

I concour!
Dont settle for anything

ps omg christy 90 days!

[prozac]

You know guys...this made me think.

I saw a couple today...both at least 70, both with canes, grey hair, the whole bit...I was standing behind them on the escalator. Then the man slapped his wife's ass. I smiled so huge. then, before we got off, he pinched it too. It was the most inspiring thing I've ever seen. I won't ever settle for less thatn that kind of love.