Guys who Hit Girls

[NinjaBoy]

* luvs2slut logs on to F&K with a post that says "my boyfriend hit me" and wonders how anyone could compare that to walking down the street with a battered bitch sign

Why was that in the third person?

And How could you not see it. Your bitching on an ONLINE PUBLIC MESSAGE BOARD!

About your boyfriend hitting you

and apparently you know several people online here

What don't you get about the referance? are you crazy?

[*spacecase*]

meh.

you are an idiot for staying with him. and i don't need to know about you or your personal life to come to that conclusion.
you bitch cuz your boy hits you, but you then defend your relationship. really, you don't want help. you will stay with him because he "loves" you and no one else in the world understands how amazing he is, once you know him deep down. bla bla bla.

you make me sick. i thought that women were supposed to be liberated. you are like a bad trailer-trash stereo type. someone who would be a guest on jerry springer for a show titled "i love my man, even if he hits me."

let me tell you something: i love my boyfriend and he loves me. however, instead of hitting me and throwing me into a wall, he buys me roses and takes me out to dinner.
and i'm betting that your boyfriend also emotionally abuses you as well.
if your boy really loved you , he wouldn't hit you.

and if you're scared of being away from him, you will never experience freedom or a healthy relationship with someone else.

[lay_z_carter]

:) i suppose u have never had a day or event that made ya kinda sad.. and ya had nobody to talk to so ya fessed on line. And I'm glad I make you sick. But most seriously now if you wanna resort to calling me trailor trash and an idiot you can say these things to my face. I ain't afraid to confront some ignorant fuck like you.

trailer trash though. that shit is funny. And it is sweet that ur b/f buys u roses. franky i really don't care. Mine does too. he bought me a $300.00 pair of rollerblades in june, tells me he loves me all the time. But when i was upset that ain't what came to my mind. i realize the nice things he does don't make up for the shitty things he does. and i'm working out my own issues here. Just decided to bitch. However in the future i will be sure to leave interesting posts in ur threads... if u are ever upset and decide to leave a bitchn post.

"i love my man, even if he hits me" yep just exactly what i said.. exactly what i think. ya dink. And yes u do have to know me to understand my situation. Cause u don't know the whole story so all u have is ur strong ability to make ignorant assumptions. but that's cool.. everyone's gotta have their faults

[diva]

Originally posted by lay_z_carter:

trailer trash though. that shit is funny. And it is sweet that ur b/f buys u roses. franky i really don't care. Mine does too. he bought me a $300.00 pair of rollerblades in june, tells me he loves me all the time.

Wouldn't you rather have had him use that $300 to pay for his half of the rent?

LOGIC, WHUT.

[stabmyhead]

AIYA!! My brain hurts... why...? WHY ARE PEOPLE ALLOWED TO POST??!

Actions speak louder than words hunny, I love you means shit all if he's beating on you. Stop contradicting yourself, bitching about him beating you then defending him and your LOVE. Let's justify how much he loves me by what he says the material possessions he gets me oppose to how good he treats me, the amount of love and respect I get, etc. Any guy can take money from his pocket and put it towards some stupid gift for his girlfriend, it take a lot more than that to be a good bf.

This is all my ignorant assumption of course, I am sure I would sympathize with you if you weren't so fucken' stupid... my god.

[*spacecase*]

i was simply refering to the fact that someone in a relationship should show their partner kindness and sincerity, instead of indifference to their physical and mental wellbeing.
so he bougbt you rollerblades. that makes up for the fact that he hits you. i'll bet you buy him nice stuff. you poor thing.

"I ain't afraid to confront some ignorant fuck like you."
ahem. and you wonder why i alluded to you being trailer trash?
you sound like a high school drop out. which you probably are.

this isn;t simply me trying to insult you, either. it's just that you told people your boyfriend hits you, and then you defended him and your relationship. people tried to give you advice and their heart felt sympathy;s, but you rejected that and got defensive that people thought your boy was a stupid fuck.
therefore, people percieve You as a stupid fuck. which, obviously, you are.

go ahead, stay with your boyfriend. i'll bet you'll pop out a few kids in a year or two. then , you can raise your children and let them witness how a disfunctional relationship can be good, if you get rollerblades out of the deal.
if he hits women, he'll probably hit kids too. what a winner.

[lay_z_carter]

Smart people..my god you people are smart

"he bought me a $300.00 pair of rollerblades in june, tells me he loves me all the time. But when i was upset that ain't what came to my mind. I REALIZE THE NICE THINGS HE DOES DON'T MAKE UP FOR THE SHITTY THINGS HE DOES." << so yeah i would prob want him to pay the $300.. actually $340 4 rent instead.. sorry i didn't dive so deep into that subject for you. ask b4 u post.

*cough* but we only read what we want to now don't we. And as for droppn outta highschool nope. I graduated ty. But I have not insulted any of you. No offense but that is sort of a lame thing to do over the net. I'm just sayn girl, if you are gonna wanna be sayn these things about someone you don't know then be real and say it to them in person. How can you attack someone on the net without knowing them in person? Does not make a whole lotta sense to me.

[Paroxysm]

If a woman hits me i'll never hit a her, but that doesnt mean I won't shake the hell out of her.

[NinjaBoy]

Originally posted by lay_z_carter:

*cough* but we only read what we want to now don't we. And as for droppn outta highschool nope. I graduated ty. But I have not insulted any of you. No offense but that is sort of a lame thing to do over the net. I'm just sayn girl, if you are gonna wanna be sayn these things about someone you don't know then be real and say it to them in person. How can you attack someone on the net without knowing them in person? Does not make a whole lotta sense to me.

I will say this in real life if you wish. Maybe not to your boyfriend, cause if he's beating up his girl friend lord knows what he will do to me.

And I'm not kidding I will, people have challanged me to comment on things I've commented on here before, and I did go up to them and call them the biggest morons in the world in person, as has stabby...

And we can say what we're saying about you. We are insulting your dealing with the situation, of which this thread is dedicated to.

By your logic, I can't complain about/insult any poltician because I don't know them in real life?

[diva]

Your boyfriend sounds like a loser.
I don't know why you expected anyone to have anything positive to say about him after your first post....

[lay_z_carter]

i don't expect anyone to have anything positive to say about him or me. Nor do I expect them to say anything negative bout me. Either way this is getting old. I came in here to bitch cause i was upset and it turned into a bunch of people pissing on me. And as 4 sayn shit 2 people out there in the real world. Good. Can't wait to see you.

And yes you are free to complain about politicians as long as you know about the subject you are annoyed with. If you research the issues at hand and attempt to search for all sides and angles of them. Otherwise you are talking about something that you really only have a small glimpse of. Therefore you cannot come to any solid or meaningfull conclusion...so go for it.. complain.. it really does not mean anything unless you have full knowlege of what you are complaining about.

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I'm not going to bitch at you because I

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Sorry my computer likes to post before I'm done typing But as I was saying I'am not going to bitch at you because I myself have been there.But I will offer you some advice if you take it or not is you own choice I'm not goin to pressure you . O.k here is my advice I think you need to get out of the relationship because trust me it will only get worse no matter how many times he promises he will never hit you again.I stayed with my abusive ex for almost a year and a half hoping that the promis would one day be true .I finaly got the courage to leave him because he went to far one night during one of our arguements and grabbed me by my wrist while i was trying to walk away and sliced it with a butterknife I realized at that point that all my friends were right and that I had to get out. I wish you the best in whatever choice you make but I do hope you take my advice and leave him before it gets worse

[SoniK]

Fuck you need to go on oprah or something..

This is so fucking lame

He beats you... You wont leave... hell maybe he should beat you a ccouple more times.. knock some sense into your drug filled head.. What he is doing is wrong, but you're too fucking stupid to see it.. So if you wont leave and you think he's going to change..

I suggest going down to london drugs and getting some good make up and work on excuses like "oh i fell in the tub" "I accidently stabbed myself in the leg" "My dog broke the vase over my head" "The goldfish beat me with a 2X4"


Sorry to be a tad mean.. but... well, you're really stupid to keep going back to him.

[lay_z_carter]

eh.. fuck you all :) peace & luv kids

[SoniK]

you start a post about how your bf hits you

and now you tell us all to fuck off?

I am right.. your bf needs to hit you more and harder.

stooopid.

[lay_z_carter]

nah.. i just said fuck ya.. not fuck off ;)

but u can do that too if ya really want to.:Kam:

[galaxie]

1. Dump his sorry ass. He doesn't REALLY LOVE YOU if he hits you. No way.

2. Get a whole bunch of your guy friends together then GO WHOOP _HIS_ ASS. He deserves it.

Or you could just press charges. Either way, dump the sorry bastard.

[galaxie]

Originally posted by NinjaBoy:
I will say this in real life if you wish. Maybe not to your boyfriend, cause if he's beating up his girl friend lord knows what he will do to me.

HAHAH!
oh god...maybe you can use your super ninja boy skillz0rs, Chris!

:D

[lay_z_carter]

eh he's gone.. his face was too long.

told him to take his shit and go

[galaxie]

^--- Good for you.