moving....

[BuTTeRCuP_GiNa]

hmm.. well here i am.. not knowing wut to do.. jus finished crying my eyes out.. and here i ask myself ..... WHY... why is it that once i get used to my surrondings.. my parents decide we have to move.... i cant count on my fingers the many times ive moved.. first being born in Montreal.. then Moving to the Toronto Area.. and then moving back to Montreal wen iw as 11... and then wen i was 14 i moved to BC.... now since July 2nd 2001.. (date i moved to BC) i have moved in total of 3 times.. now.. my mom tells me she is selling the house... so wut this is gonna be the 4th fukin time...?! OOOO FUKIN GREAT!... makes me s0o0o fukin mad... and i never ONCE got an oppurtunity to help decide where to move... i mean.. i keep moving to less and less civilization.... i was fine w/ Coquitlam... but n0o0o0o hadta move to Maple DITCH.. now where.... Mission.. Abbotsford, Chilliwack.. Kelowna..? like wtf..... do u guys see where im coming from..?! o well.. if not.. i jus needed 2 say sumthing.. to get it off my back... hmm.. anyways..
if u guys have any idea wut im talking bout respond to this thread... if not.. jus meh...

[]D 3 @ C 3

[miss.myra]

Moving is a real pain in the ass, I can certainly vouch for that. Don't forget there is something exciting about change and new beginings and all that...and you have that to look forward to.

And well, you're only 16, that's why you don't have a say in where you move. I'm guessing you probably don't pay for rent/utilities/groceries and don't do the bulk of the cooking/cleaning/maintenance..sooo until you do...then yeah, it's only fair they have the say.

[BuTTeRCuP_GiNa]

hmm.. but the thing is.. im portuguese.. i do things aroudn the house.. and yes im 16.. but thats the thing im 16.. im gonna TRY and count the many diff places ive lived...... lets see.. 19 times ive moved.. that i can REMEMBER.. im 16.. i shoudlnt have to move this much.. like why cant i jus grow up in 1 place.. and then wen i mvoe out.. my parents move off to where the fuk they wnat to.. like one day my step dad decided to quit his job and 3 days later he drove from Montreal to BC... like wtf.. who does that anyways.. thanks for ur opinion.. u r are tru in sum notes....

[Dean]

that really sucks

i've only moved once in my life and that was when i was like 3

[All!e]

be glad you dont live somewhere that war is going on.

i think you've got it pretty easy, as most of us do .. imagine fearing for your life everyday?!

[BuTTeRCuP_GiNa]

hmm.. well considerign where i used to live in Montreal and Toronto... i did havta fear for my life.... think of it liek this.. was there a detective car parked in front of ur hosue evry nite... gang wars..? .. friends of urs gettin shot... drive by's.. escaped convicts running around in ur neighbourhood..? hmm.. well if thats not considered fearing for life.. then.. hmm then i dunno.. but ye.. its all good.. im hopefulyl movign back to sum civilization

I h8 moving more then anyone in the world.
but I have to do it again March 1st....bah...

[NeVeRLooKBacK]

yea moving really does suck.. Ive moved bout 12 times now
its never that much fun leavin people behind

[Holidazed]

I've moved 7 times. twice across the country to the US (with family)...but 3 times in 3 years around vancouver on my own. pain in the ass.

but yah, be happy you are at home still with your family to help you pack, move and unpack everything. it sucks doing it on your own

[Jingles]

*LOL*
how quickly we forget what it feels like to be 16 and forced to leave your friends and start a new life elsewhere.
every single one of us should be thankful we don't live in a wartorn country - that being said i remember how hard to was to think that way when i thought my family was going to move away from my friends -- Your friends mean everything in your teen years, usually there are ongoing battles with family memebers and friends are who you hold closest

It's easy to say 'be thankful for what you have' that doesn't mean she can't be sad or frustrated that she is being uprooted. My broher had to move with my parents back to Toronto almost 2 years ago when he was 16. It was difficult to watch ..to know that in a time that is already filled with enough self doubt, that he was going to have to 'start over' elsewhere..and teens (if you remember) aren't always the most kind and inviting folk..there is an established social hierachy and jumping into it is hard

Sure be thankful for what you have - but don't belittle someone else's frustration because it doesn't seem that major to you!

[Mc*Phee]

Hang in their Gia! have you told your parents how u feel?, but i guess if their mind is made up u wont have much of a say. Where are you moving to now?

[BuTTeRCuP_GiNa]

ye.. wen my mom told me we were gonna move.. i looked at her and i was liek "why do we always havta move... rite wen we get used to the place" and she was like 'well its for the best"... i guess.. every situation we moved there was a reason.. and the option was for the best.. but.. i dunno.. i jus hate having to move.. like to a new area.. where i kno no1.. i already hate maple ridge i never chill here.. i always take the bus out to Coquitlam.. but meh.. i hope i move out of this Ghetto WANNABE hardcore thug area... meh.. my mom said we might be moving into the Port Moody Coquitlam area.... so finally sum relief... jus i dun wanna move.... meh.. o well.. in life there's begger's and chooser's i guess im not one of the chooser's