["friends" that could care less]

[omega_image]

dont u hate them.....ur so call friends that could give 2 shits about u or how ur feeling or anything to do with u......like knowing that ur pissed off and yet buggin u.....or knowing ur down and giving u more bad news......or just blowing u off.....its not just something to get mad over its depressing too......u on the other hand go out of ur way sometimes to make them feel special or try and cheer them up.....maybe its to selfish to ask for the same back? i guess u cant expect it from everyone.....but i thought i could from some......guess i was wrong
-adam

[roxi]

Ya~ friends like that totally suck! I've run into my share of those types in the past, but now I'm really alot more careful of who I make good friends with... not saying that you can't be friends with them, but I've learnt not to expect anything from people, unless they really prove to care about me.. I used to try to be really close with everyone I befriended, and I'm pretty generous so I'd totally give more than what I got back.. jus cuz I considered them my friends, and I like to do nice things for my friends... but then it wuz always give give give, n gettin nuthin in return.... so now I only do that with the ones who have proved to care about me equally... the rest I have developed really low expectations for so I wont be disappointed when they let me down... and for those people who are considered your "friends", but really don't give two shits about you, they simply aren't worth ur time, so jus be friendly and draw the line there. don't give into what they want if they aren't deserving, cuz then they'll jus think they can get alway with taking advantage of your friendship... don't let urself be taken advantage of, good friends are equal friends.
~breezy

[~lazee_grrl~]

a friendship with only one person trying..sucks..hurts and just ends up not working..it's just not fair when u gotta put all the work into the friendship..like when they need u to be there or to understand...ur all there..but when u need them for anything..they could care less..its hurtful....its a two way friendship or no friendship at all..=(

[Jess_C]

argh! that totally sucks hun! i know where you're coming from! kinda a flashback to the weekend!? it sucks when people you consider a "friend" are too self absorbed in their own lives to help you out in a time of need. sometimes it may not even be a time of need, you may just want an ear to talk to. i know that! anyways, some of these "friends" seem to be making you quite angry lately. personally i think you should re-evaluate your "friendships" with those people. for you're a great guy, with a good heart and don't deserve this shit anymore! so think about it. only choose to involve those in your life who you know want to be there for the RIGHT reasons. i've totally been asessing certain people in my life lately...just kind of filtering out the bad apples. at any rate, if you ever want to talk, vent...whatever, you know how to reach me! trust me, i won't blow ya off. take care!

Jess*

[tribal_guy]

adam, dude man, ur goin through sum harsh times it seems.. but turn that frown upside down man. if i lived by u, we would b chillin but everyone thinks abby is hella far away for sum reason.

if people like that do that to you, then they arent ur friends. they are the fuckin users who juss want to benefit frum ya anyway they can. and when they are done, they leave. trust me, it happened to me 2 many times to even count. but i juss come across new people and chill wit them and now im fuckin realizin my "now' friends are way better than the ones before and i see it in them that they wont jew, or do it intentionally. too bad we only meet up at parties, u seem almost exactly like me, xcept that u can DJ and all and i wack my shit real good. jokin on the last part

[BeatItFarmer]

What's up man?? You know we're all there for u!!!

[Bitchin]

I so, know that feeling hun.. I went through the same thing... but now i dont.. not because my friends changed but because I changed...Yeah, i'll still be there for them, but now I wont let them be there for me unless they are truely a GOOD friend of mine.. yeah, ppl think I closed myself up, and I know I have but only to an extent. It's work so wel for me, tho... the majority of ppl think i have issues,..but then again, who doesnt have em'?? So basicaly just be picky with who your going to trust n' stuff. Cause friends are fake at time.. And I'm sure oyu dont want to get hurt in the end..cause that the WORST part...ugh...

But if ya need some one to talk, icq me... tho i think i've only met you once..:)

[omega_image]

well thnx for the input guys.......but its not only that....its like they have to do whatever's cool with the "group" or else its not "cool"........fuk that! who fuckin cares if u have to go by yourself with ur friend to do something? just to make sure they have a fun and safe time......how many times have i done that? fuk......and they all try to play it off like they are there but really they're not.....oh we'll be hear to listen when ur down.......yeah? really? where the fuk have u been when i called? or y did u ignore me when i tried to tell u something? fuckin bullshit if u ask me......maybe i'm just so bitter cuz its my birthday and i'd expect a lil more from friends....not to rub it in or anything....FUK
-adam

[Bitchin]

Then maybe your nat hangin out with the right ppl hun!?Maybe they are just fakes trying to reach the 'top' of the social status..
Do what YOU want, Because the most important thing to yourself should be what YOU want, not all he time, but most of the time..ugh..i dunno how to explain it overa puter..but I hope you get what I'm trying to say..
But if your friends bug you -that- much, then think twice about them..are they your 'real' friends.. or are they just aquaintaces<-(sp?) Yeah, it maybe hard, but you are gonna have to face the facts.. if you don't want to now, in the near future you just may have to, unless you just let it roll off your back, and you dont mind being hurt.

[Cowboy]

sometimes friends have to do something for themselves rather than think of someone else at times...maybe that friend might not like it but its the way it has to be for the other friend...

the reason ur all agro is becuz u had expectations of people...when u have expectations ur gonna be let down.....the key is not to have expectations and always have a back up plan or what not...

hehe..i know with me and u ive gotten pages from ya and i haven't gotten back to you...thats becuz im a bum...honestly...or i was somewhere that i couldn't meet up with ya...

corrie

[Jess_C]

Adam, I'm very very sorry! I let you down on your birthday, said I'd come meet you at the club. However, I couldn't even get in! They turned me away! I tried to get you to come out with me. I'm sorry, and I try to call ya but you're never home. Anyways, I'm very very sorry if I've let you down. You know me and I'm very very sorry! I hope you have more fun at Simple! I will for sure see you there!

[stabmyhead]

yeah ppl tend to do that. expect more out of you than they give, its cuz in their mind they're thinking they are doing enough, that they are doing good as a friend. tell them you think they're being stupid cunts about things and they'll smarten up.. or leave you.

remember kids, real friends stab you in the front, not the back. :Kimmie:

[tru_azn_69]

wut da fuck'z wrong dude...all this shit'z changed since i check't this place out...

If shit'z goez down, or any prob'z...u kno we be there 4 u dude...
don't worry bout lil thing'z like dat...2 stressful 2 think bou tdat shit'z..........just relax, n' chill g~bro. Mayb that person didn't even kno u were pissed, or depressed at the time...don't worry bout it aiight'..

take carez' dude