enuf is enuf

[Jess_C]

I've had it! Seriously...it seems so many people in my life are in my life for the most stupid reasons. Many, yes, are in my life because they are honest friends. However, I'm slowly finding out that certain people are my "friends" for certain "reasons" and it's pissing me off. Can people be any more materialistic???? I'm beginning to wonder who I can and can't trust. When I do something for them...no thanks at all!? ARGH!! Have you no sense of dignity or shame!? Seriously! I've had it! :052:

[stabmyhead]

trust no one, everyone is always looking for a way to kick you in the face :)

[Jess_C]

but you should be able to trust those closest to you!?:040:

[frogprincess]

a true test of friendship:

tell your closest (assumed to be closet) friends that you have leporsy. the ones that stick w/ you are true, the ones that leave you are wise.

take care of you and kitten.

[walkin]

leprosy isn't contagious!

[~lazee_grrl~]

Originally posted by Blondie_Jess
but you should be able to trust those closest to you!?:040:

yeah..u "should" be able to trust those closest to u..but u can never be too careful with trust...ur closest friend could very well turn out to be ur worst enemy...its just that u never know wut the other person is thinking sumtimes..and no matter how well u think u know sumone..there will always be surprises...its certainly hard to tell with sum people..wishing ya lotsa luck..cuz this kinda struggle lasts a lifetime for just about everyone..~

[Jess_C]

Originally posted by ~lazee_grrl~
wishing ya lotsa luck..cuz this kinda struggle lasts a lifetime for just about everyone..~

Thx! I needs it! Whatever, people who know me, know what I will & will not put up with. It is their choice to fuk that shit up! I've had it, I'm straight up and if that is their choice of game...

....fuk 'em :210:

[SoniK]

Originally posted by Blondie_Jess
but you should be able to trust those closest to you!?:040:

oh god good no.


party happening tomorrow


friends did the shroomies last night.


what a great bunch-o-friends.


- SoniK

[BeatItFarmer]

k I don't know u I think I might have seen u at spooky with adam so try not to take anything the wrong way....I've noticed u posting a lot about ur friends and how u can't trust them etc...so it leads me to assume/believe a couple possibilities...

1.your feeling sorry for yourself and assuming that they use when perhaps they aren't....maybe they're acting differently cause u've changed???

2. Your friends or most of them are the fucking pathetic hypocritical ppl who have no respect for themselves or u...in this case fuck them! make new friends...from what I've seen and heard of u, u seem like a mature person with good morals...u seem to care about the more important things in life and u should be around more ppl like urself

3your not communicating with ur friends....maybe they don't know that u feel like ur getting walked all over...

Maybe try looking at the events that leads u to believe that they are materialistic from one of their points of view....eg. if u offer to drive their drunk asses around every weekend and never want to be driven around they may take ift for granted that u will be driving and assume they can get a ride from u or count on u to drive them...in a case like that could u really blame them for not thinking the whole situation through carefully?
well that was a bad example but I hope u get the just of what I'm trying to say...

[Jess_C]

Originally posted by BeatItFarmer
k I don't know u I think I might have seen u at spooky with adam so try not to take anything the wrong way....I've noticed u posting a lot about ur friends and how u can't trust them etc...so it leads me to assume/believe a couple possibilities...

1.your feeling sorry for yourself and assuming that they use when perhaps they aren't....maybe they're acting differently cause u've changed???

2. Your friends or most of them are the fucking pathetic hypocritical ppl who have no respect for themselves or u...in this case fuck them! make new friends...from what I've seen and heard of u, u seem like a mature person with good morals...u seem to care about the more important things in life and u should be around more ppl like urself

3. your not communicating with ur friends....maybe they don't know that u feel like ur getting walked all over...

Maybe try looking at the events that leads u to believe that they are materialistic from one of their points of view....eg. if u offer to drive their drunk asses around every weekend and never want to be driven around they may take ift for granted that u will be driving and assume they can get a ride from u or count on u to drive them...in a case like that could u really blame them for not thinking the whole situation through carefully?
well that was a bad example but I hope u get the just of what I'm trying to say...

Your exactly right! As bad as it seems, the people I am around are fuking pathetic. They don't realize what they are doing to themselves half the time, have NO goals for the future and are just driftig through life with nothing achieved. They do use me [not in driving] but in other ways quite a bit. It's frustrating but I suppose they don't see anything wrong. Maybe I give off the vibe that I don't mind doing things for people all the time....I dunno. But thx for pointing that one out. Cuz I've had it, I'm out....achieved a goal and I'm outta this town soon. Thx! [yes you saw me at Pulsate] :c-tard:

[BeatItFarmer]

Originally posted by Blondie_Jess


Your exactly right! As bad as it seems, the people I am around are fuking pathetic. They don't realize what they are doing to themselves half the time, have NO goals for the future and are just driftig through life with nothing achieved. They do use me [not in driving] but in other ways quite a bit. It's frustrating but I suppose they don't see anything wrong. Maybe I give off the vibe that I don't mind doing things for people all the time....I dunno. But thx for pointing that one out. Cuz I've had it, I'm out....achieved a goal and I'm outta this town soon. Thx! [yes you saw me at Pulsate] :c-tard:

glad it helped....I understand what ur saying about the goals thing....my parents and sister pointed that out to me and I realized that it was true for many of my friends (that they were lacking direction) but then I thought.....that's their choice and it shouldn't affect me....if it does then u should pull away.....but if it doesn't really affect u then it shouldn't matter cause maybe what matters to u in life doesn't apply to them in the same way...I noticed that some of my friends habits became mine....noww that I realized this I'm stopping or at least slowing them to a smarter/safer level.....oh and I wasn't at pulsate....

[Jess_C]

Originally posted by BeatItFarmer


glad it helped....I understand what ur saying about the goals thing....my parents and sister pointed that out to me and I realized that it was true for many of my friends (that they were lacking direction) but then I thought.....that's their choice and it shouldn't affect me....if it does then u should pull away.....but if it doesn't really affect u then it shouldn't matter cause maybe what matters to u in life doesn't apply to them in the same way...I noticed that some of my friends habits became mine....noww that I realized this I'm stopping or at least slowing them to a smarter/safer level.....oh and I wasn't at pulsate....

Ok...we've established that you weren't at pulsate *snickers*...anyways, yes i have already been through the *friends* habbits rubbing off on me last year...and i quickly snapped out of it...but you always seem to have that one deceiving person in the group that unknowingly tries to pull you down...that is what WAS occuring...thankfully i noticed...i'm going somewhere...am on my way to be a primary teacher...blah blah...and nothing/nobody will get in my way from that....other people's habbits can't rub off on me...hell...i even have quit smoking...*shrugs*....just gets frustrating when they can't see all this...very frustrating...

[galaxie]

Um Jess, no offence intended, this is just an observation, but maybe you need to work on your friend picking skills. Seems to me you apparently have very bad taste!

[Cowboy]

jess...that was BEATFARMER u met at pulsate....me and beatfarmer are friends with adam....beat IT farmer is also a friend of ours...the guy u met was Skipp..not brendan...

and i choose not add any real info to this thread since all that really needed to be said was already....

jus remember that its not hard to see past those people that are only there for personal gain or when u have something to offer.....those friends are called "fair weather" friends..theyre only around when times are good....(or when the weather is good..otherwise known as when u suddenly come into a shit load of money...u can do something for that person..etc...)

i think u need to establish ur friends from ur aquaintances...or u need to start communicating a hell of a lot better....

u want an example of a good friend....
a guy that never gets up before 3 and offers to help u move out of ur house...not jus u but ur entire family...and agrees to comin over at around 12ish...to come throw out his back on the 200 lb boxes that ive packed......little does he know....muhahahahaha...hehe...

ahhh good ol giles...what a guy...

corrie