other guys at bars

[B-Funk]

Im tired of guys at bars who are mad at me because im dancing with my girlfriend and her friends. i understand it comes with the territory and hating is all part of the bar scene, but man recently more than ever i got tons of people who look pissed at me. i've had a record number of guys giving me the stare, and also a lot of guys trying to shoulder me when i walk past them. last friday i was just out on the dance floor having a great time dancing around with soleil and her friends and someone throws an ice cube and it hits me near the eye. i just kept dancing like nothing happened but i know where the ice cube came from and it was a table with 4 guys who were sitting there the whole night by themselves without any females.

Tonight, these five or six guys were trying to start a fight with me as i was walking to the car with soleil and jen. making comments that i asume were supposed to make me mad to the point that i was going to mouth them off back. i just said, "this is why i love the bar, 5 on 1... thats awsome". then they all started calling me a fag. i was thinking in the car on the way home, they are calling me a fag, yet im the one going home with 2 girls and they are the group of guys leaving empty handed.

i dunno, just had to go off on a little rant here. although i've heard i look angry all the time and shit, im actually happy just trying to do my thing and mind my own business and if anyone wants to talk im all for it. anyways, life goes on, just thought i'd share that. later

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[sNyx]

find better bars? pay the extra two bucks a pint and go somewhere with some class.

[Gusto]

yeah i've never had this problem before.

[frogprincess]

GUSTO you're a super star

[Gusto]

why would you do this to me in front of all of fnk? :(

[frogprincess]

Originally Posted by gusto

why would you do this to me in front of all of fnk? :(

i just want all of fnk to know how wonderful you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sNyx]

Originally Posted by gusto

why would you do this to me in front of all of fnk? :(

don't worry, if your posting only few will stop on the scroll to care. few.

[Gusto]

Originally Posted by frogprincess

i just want all of fnk to know how wonderful you are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

haha nice save.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Hi, I just wanted to pop on FnK to tell everyone how awful it is to be me. You know I'm really cool and OMG like popular too and I hang around with so many hot girls that other guys are like so jealous of me.

I mean I never come on here or anything but I thought that all of you would really care that a guy as hot and cool and rad as me is being harassed almost daily by packs of crazy guys at all the hottest clubs.

Like OMFG.... totally hard being me. Please rain sympathy down on me.

Thanks.... see you in another 8 months with another random post!

[Gusto]

loooool

[B-Funk]

Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

Hi, I just wanted to pop on FnK to tell everyone how awful it is to be me. You know I'm really cool and OMG like popular too and I hang around with so many hot girls that other guys are like so jealous of me.

I mean I never come on here or anything but I thought that all of you would really care that a guy as hot and cool and rad as me is being harassed almost daily by packs of crazy guys at all the hottest clubs.

Like OMFG.... totally hard being me. Please rain sympathy down on me.

Thanks.... see you in another 8 months with another random post!

easy there, you missed the point. im not trying to sound cool i was simply discribing the reaction i have gotten at bars for being with some of my female friends. i was waiting to see how long till some dork made a reply like this and once again FnK never fails. i dont have to post on here everyday either, i look through and read the threads and i reply to something relevant to me. i dont need to score points by having the highest post count. and dude, this is the punching bag... i thought this was the place for people to bitch about things. seriously grow up and stop trying to cut people down so everyone in your little FnK social group and pat you on the back for it.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Hahahahaha.... you missed my point.... it was a joke. You know, a joke, people say funny things to make other people laugh?

Don't take FnK so seriously.

And for your information, my FnK social group isn't little ok! It's MASSIVE! hahahahaha

LIKE OMFG I'M SOOOOOOO POPULAR! OMG HI TO YOU! I LOVE YOUR NEW TATTOO, IT LOOKS SO GOOD ON YOU! IT'S LIKE TOTALLY UNIQUE, SO ORIGINAL, I CAN'T BELEIVE THIS!

[matéo]

I thnk the Geographical location of these clubs you party at have alot to do with the rude stares/comments. Just a shot in the dark though.

[B-Funk]

even though it is fnk, when you insult my online persona you insult me cuz im still the one who came on here to write what was on my mind and see what other people thought. cuz perhaps it felt like a little way of getting it off my chest just to lay it out in front of everyone. insted i got someone trying to nail me for it and sure you can tyr and pass it off as a joke but i take everything serious and will continue to take everything serious.

[B-Funk]

Originally Posted by matéo

I thnk the Geographical location of these clubs you party at have alot to do with the rude stares/comments. Just a shot in the dark though.

well last night i went to pure to support a friend of mine who was throwing the opening of his new night, i wasn't drinking... i didn't even want to stay till the end. maybe its burnaby people, the other club with the ice cube was the mirage. dont really have a lot of money right now so i havent been able to go downtown for a while. still when i went to clubs in surrey and new west and burnaby before i never thought i had this problem.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Originally Posted by B-Funk

sure you can tyr and pass it off as a joke but i take everything serious and will continue to take everything serious.

OMG ARE YOU SERIOUS!?!?!

[sidekick]

^insults on the internet are still insults. it bothers me when people make fun of someone and then say 'oh it's okay, it's just FNK, we can be friends IRL"

[Gusto]

thing is that he didn't insult him, and his comments were obviously tongue in cheek.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Originally Posted by Sidekick

^insults on the internet are still insults. it bothers me when people make fun of someone and then say 'oh it's okay, it's just FNK, we can be friends IRL"

Thanks Jake.... I know you've NEVER said anything derogatory, joking or not, on FnK ;)

IT WAS A FUNNY, nothing more, nothing less.... take THAT seriously.

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by gusto

thing is that he didn't insult him, and his comments were obviously tongue in cheek.

i was talking more to shawn and his 'dont take fnk so seriously' thing.

i mean, yeah, fnk is a fun place and we're all sarcastic and make biting comments. but it's a lame way to back out of something to say 'oh it's okay it's just fnk, lighten up'

[sidekick]

Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

Thanks Jake.... I know you've NEVER said anything derogatory, joking or not, on FnK ;)

I'm so nice on fnk!

ooookay that' s a lie...however, when i say something sarcastic i don't go "dont' be mad! it's fnk!" afterward. that was my point.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Fair enough.... but my original intent was just to make some people giggle! I'm not backing down.... at least I don't think I am.

[sidekick]

meh, i don't really care that much. it's just one of my little fnk peeves.

[fable]

Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

Hi, I just wanted to pop on FnK to tell everyone how awful it is to be me. You know I'm really cool and OMG like popular too and I hang around with so many hot girls that other guys are like so jealous of me.

I mean I never come on here or anything but I thought that all of you would really care that a guy as hot and cool and rad as me is being harassed almost daily by packs of crazy guys at all the hottest clubs.

Like OMFG.... totally hard being me. Please rain sympathy down on me.

Thanks.... see you in another 8 months with another random post!

this isnt "tongue + cheek" it's passive agressive

perhaps its because your struggling with the fact that you think hes "hot and cool and rad" and cant accept it, thus you lash at out at the object of your pent up lust?

[Cdn_Brdr]

HOLY SHIT... you totally figured it out!

and to think I was gonna pay my shrink to try and figure it out for me! :haha: