You know what sucks!

[project.one]

When you hear your grandmother is dying!

Doctors say she wont make it past this weekend!

All my family is in Toronto, but I cant afford to go out there, as is my dad is borrowing some cash to get out there. But it is more important he goes!

But I wont get to see my grandmother ever again now!




I cant even describe how bad I feel about not going, or how bad this sucks!

[cutienikki]

OMG Matty Im so sorry! *hugz* If there is anything I can do let me know. Can I ask what is it that she has?

[project.one]

Originally Posted by cutienikki

Can I ask what is it that she has?

Cancer
All throughout the whole lower of her body I think. Dad was trying to tell me about it, where it was and stuff, but he didnt really explain it well, but I didnt want to ask.

[cutienikki]

Again Im sorry my grandma had the same thing. They found out that it spread through out...I couldn't go see her in Winnipeg. Cliche however, she isn't going to be suffering anymore.

[project.one]

Originally Posted by cutienikki

Cliche however, she isn't going to be suffering anymore.

Yeah I know.


Just sucks.
Dad and I we're planning on going out there this Christmas to see the whole family again. My Grandfather is susposed to make it much past this winter either. So Im not sure how well he is going to be doing with this blow.

[decypher]

Yeh a whole bunch of my dad's family passed away in the last few years including my grandmother. Never really knew any of them.

I hope things work out for ya.

[prozac]

been there, done that, beside the stinky-ass death-bed.

sorry if that's too graphic for you, but I've been through a few of these, front-and-center and I feel so much of what your family is going through.

Welcome to planet earth and being human. feels like a shitty deal doesn't it?

[Heffy]

my sincere condolences my friend.

[LeeBrat]

Originally Posted by prozac

been there, done that, beside the stinky-ass death-bed.

sorry if that's too graphic for you, but I've been through a few of these, front-and-center and I feel so much of what your family is going through.

Welcome to planet earth and being human. feels like a shitty deal doesn't it?

true. I have also been there. my grandpa died of liver failure from being an alcoholic at the age of 64 I belive.
and my grandad died lung cancer. i was young when they both did but i still remeber it, specially my grandad.


anyway, Im sorry to hear that hun, i know your going through alot right now, and if theres anything I can do to help, please let me know.

[Play-it-hard]

I hope everything gets better matty, I cant even begin to imagine how you feel. I havent ever lost anyone, but my favorite person in the world is getting closer and closer to it everyday, I dont know what I will do when the time comes. Just call her and let her know that you are thinkin of her and will never forget her, that will mean the world.

[Séguin]

You get a discount thgouth the airline. I went through this last year.

[BongMan]

Dude it sucks I know, but remember everything comes in full circle it is her time. As nice as it would be to be there beside her life just doesn't agree all the time. Go to a church even if you aren't religious and light a candle for her say a little prayer, it may just make you feel a bit better.

[Ms.Tarantula]

Im sorry to hear that matty... were you very close to her?

I lost someone to cancer in feb :(

[Gusto]

yeah i just found out recently that my grandma is going to die of cancer too. sucks.

[Jeaninah]

The docs told me last september that my Nana wouldn't make it past her bday, which was the next week. Guess what, shes still kickin in. And she pretends shes fine, even though shes blind, has a failing heart etc. I've got a tough old grannie, sometimes they have so much fight in them.

I wish your grandmother all the best and I wish you all the best too. Its hard, you not being able to be there, just make sure to let her now that your thinking about her all the time.

[nuttyrat]

<3 Matty

I lost my grandparents on my moms side to cancer .... my step-dad has lung cancer ... and my mom might have breast cancer .... i feel for ya bud ...

[project.one]

Originally Posted by Séguin

You get a discount thgouth the airline. I went through this last year.

Discount or not, still dont have enough for both of us to go. My dad is already there now, which is most important right now.

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

Im sorry to hear that matty... were you very close to her?

I was pretty close yeah. Wish I had been closer, but none the less!



Thanks everyone for your words! It does help! Im sure Ill be ok, it was just a harsh blow on top of everything else Ive had to deal with latley.

[thechix0r]

I know that feeling, I chose not to seemy grandpa when eh was dying because I wanted to remember him when he was healthy, and I dont' regret it. Like Jeff said up there... keep her in your thoughts however you choose to do so

[LLaaUUrrYYn]

Im so sorry..I wish you and your family lots of love through these hard times.c

[Skitzo_Style]

Originally Posted by projectone

When you hear your grandmother is dying!

Doctors say she wont make it past this weekend!

All my family is in Toronto, but I cant afford to go out there, as is my dad is borrowing some cash to get out there. But it is more important he goes!

But I wont get to see my grandmother ever again now!




I cant even describe how bad I feel about not going, or how bad this sucks!

i know exactly how you feel man.

i just recently lost my grandfather a month ago to cancer as well. and just like you, i was unable to go see him before he passed away (since he lived in victoria and i live in mississauga). the only thing i wish i had do before he died was talk to him and tell him that i love him and that he will always be with me wherever i go. but i didn't.

so matt, if you have not talked to your grandmother since you heard this unfortunate news, don't make the same mistake i did. call her and tell her that you love her.

once again, my condolences.

[justShell]

im so sorry to hear that matty. thats the part of life that sucks. but at least her pain will be ended

[project.one]

Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

so matt, if you have not talked to your grandmother since you heard this unfortunate news, don't make the same mistake i did. call her and tell her that you love her.

Already talked to her for a while. But it was hard for her to talk, so.

[C_squared]

Matty I'm sorry to hear that... when my grandma passed, I wasn't able to go see her either. I know how you feel dude... keep your head up dude.

[Arrrika]

I loved my grandma but had never really expressed this to her in the past. She had major blood clots in her lungs and were dying from them so she went to ontario to have a serious operation. I was the one that took her to the airport and the last one out of my family to say goodbye to her and I couldnt squeeze the words I love you out. So if there is one thing you can do call her and tell her how much you love her. I will regret not saying this for the rest of my life because I really thought she was going to be coming back.

[freekbeetz]

sorry to hear about your grandmother dude. I lost a very close uncle last week. since I've moved to BC 3 years ago, I've lost 4 close family members, 3 close friends (one in afganistan serving our country), and I haven't been able to make it home to halifax for any of this, and won't make it there till next may. on top of that, 2 years before I moved out here, I lost my bestfriend, my grandfather. I def. feel your pain man, its hard but things work out, and as someone said before, light a candle, say a prayer, it'll help.