unreliable guys

[tiedye]

lady: "I don't have a condom"
me: "I don't either"

never had a bad blowjob in my life.

[wishbone]

Originally Posted by tiedye

lady: "I don't have a condom"
me: "I don't either"

never had a bad blowjob in my life.

ahha and of course, one must always be a gentleman and offer up a return ;)

But agreed....no rubber = oral ftw.

[tiedye]

of course man.. once you go hippie, sex gets a little "lippy"

[miSsy_chriSsy]

I think this chick has the intelligence of my bathroom door knob.

You had sex without a condom - not once, BUT TWICE. With TWO different deadbeats.

Now your girls have to live with you fighting over two different dads for the rest of their lives. So unfair.

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

I think this chick has the intelligence of my bathroom door knob.

You had sex without a condom - not once, BUT TWICE. With TWO different deadbeats.

Now your girls have to live with you fighting over two different dads for the rest of their lives. So unfair.

I am guessing that she thought the second guy would solve the first guys baby's momma's drama....

[mojo]

Originally Posted by Aki

dude no YOU need to shut up
if he's going to sleep with her without the condom it's 50% his responsibility too.

where did i type that it WASN'T partly his responsibility?

shit i didnt even clarify who was saying those comments. eeeeeeasy big fella.

[miSsy_chriSsy]

I feel like I'm in an episode of Judge Judy....

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

I feel like I'm in an episode of Judge Judy....

Nah, this is definately Maury. The episodes where he does like 15 paternity tests to find the "real" daddy.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Sorry ladies... friends or not picking on a single mom, regardless of how she might have gotten there, is pretty weak.

I really hope that neither of you nor any of your friends ever get into that situation. Reality is a swift kick in the face sometimes and people make mistakes. This is what's wrong with the world nowadays... people are way too short on compassion.

Sad state of affairs if you ask me.

[cinist]

i have all the compassion in the world for people in difficult situations but this chick needs to get a clue, my thoughts are with her kids. This thread is pleading for attention and i'm guessing that's also how she landed up in this position in the first place.

[~god~]

I don't understand what you guys are going about!

Crazy Dave? I've never met the guy, but I'm even scared that i'd get STD's just reading his comments on FnK. let alone sleeping with him? let alone sleeping with him w/o protection?
surely, some sympathy is due... but come on. It's not my place to point fingers, but I have to disagree with some of the posts here.

is it her fault? ofcourse!? stop being a bunch of fake over-sympathetic kiddies... It is completely up to her to choose who she's going to sleep with. it is completely up to her what kind of protection she needs to use. Even if as galaxie stated [where 1 in a 100 might get pregnant], she did infact get pregnant, she has an option of keeping it. Also, eeeeeven if she did keep it, and the guy took off his "mr nice guy" mask and ran to cuba, she could still go to court for support.

Now i'm not trying to be a jerk or anything. and I do have respect for her for taking care of the kids all alone and all that. but don't be yapping that none of this was her fault.
and what about the guys? obviously these specific ones are a bunch of sloppy penises. everyone knows that there are guys around who'd stick it in anything under any price.

Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

Sorry ladies... friends or not picking on a single mom, regardless of how she might have gotten there, is pretty weak.

I really hope that neither of you nor any of your friends ever get into that situation. Reality is a swift kick in the face sometimes and people make mistakes. This is what's wrong with the world nowadays... people are way too short on compassion.

Sad state of affairs if you ask me.

I am not picking on her.......but make no mistake I am not on her side. I am on the side of the children. They are the ones that suffer, not the mother. If the mother is not putting the childs best interest first, which it doesn't seem to be what she is doing here, then I have no sympathy for her situation.

For the record Shawn, I have a very close friend in this situation. But instead of whining, bitching or posting about it on a forum. She is choosing to go through the proper channels and take his ass to court. Her son is her number one priority. She doesn't argue with her sig other in front of the child, she doesn't get upset, and if he isn't willing to pay for something, she moves on from it and does it herself. And when he isn't willing to take his son because he wants to go out and party, she takes on the role of Mother and Father. She just doesn't give the fact that he is an asshole a second thought. In her mind, she doesn't have the time, and if she gives it time, her number one priority isn't a priority anymore.

She is one of the best parents I know. If I have children, I hope I am half the parent she is.

[hardstylin]

Originally Posted by poohbearhoney

they have sex with you....you get pregnaunt...then they fuck off or turn out to be assholes piss me off

HAHAHAHAHAHA

[Ragga_Wh0re]

okay,avana...youre right this is indeed a msg forum,so with you saying its not acceptable and in poor taste to post about personal shit etc then does that mean on a msg forum such as this that we are only allowed or capable of posting mindless tripe that at the end of that day means fuck all?Why cant she post about shit like this?Even if it is a personal attack against a guy,hes a fucking bastard and should be treated accordingly.

Any shmuck that sticks his dick in a woman,busts his nut and is unwilling to deal with what the outcome may be is a fucking shmuck and deserves to be publicly humiliated and have his name dragged through the mud.

Her doing this doesnt reflect poorly on her ,shes hurt and has every fucking right to be.Show compassion and quit handing me this bullshit that "oh im on the kids side" if you were on the kids side youd be saying exactly what the mothers saying about the goof because guaranteed when the kids are old enough to put 2 and 2 together theyre going to be saying the same fucking thing as thier mother.

And newsflash,child support doesnt father a child it just helps pay the bills...whatever few measily dollars you can squeeze out of the bastard that is...if any at all.

It takes a village to raise a child,start being a part of that village and show some compassion for her and quit dehumanizing the situation and just perpetuating the actions of the sunofabitch that fucked off.And missy chrissy,you should be ashamed.Shes a MOTHER,single or not SHES A MOTHER.Give respect where its due because it could have easily been you in this situation and lets not forget that life has a funny way of throwing you curve balls,so down the road this could easily be you in the exact same situation.

[PwInCeSs]

Theres alot of good single mothers
but hell it happens, my friend was married had kids and guess what she now is a single mom.
hell she was with the guy 5 years before they even married.
So this girl tried, Im not gonna comment on the second time im not her i dont know the situation.

Chrissy hate to say it but hell we are both pregnant, sure befor i was pregnant we had decided to marry, but either way YOU NEVER KNOW. Cross my fingers and yours but that could be us one day ......

I kno your relationship is very sturdy as is mine, i kno we are both in love but it does still happen, i dont for see it happening to either of us but it does happen.

Have some compassion all of you really , you do not kno how great there relationship was befor the baby or even right after, so dont judge.

[aaron.young]

Amen Goddessa, Amen! we need more people like you around these days, that's for sure. Tell it how it is.

Ashes to ashes, dust to dust,
A world full of sin, betrayal, and lust.

[miSsy_chriSsy]

I have plenty of compassion.

Just not for stupid people.

[PwInCeSs]

getting pregnant is now stupid?
From what i was told her Second was planned.....
Was yours?
i kno mine was not
I dont think im stupid

[miSsy_chriSsy]

lol lol lol. totally missed the point.

My life isn't the maury povich show...

[PwInCeSs]

I just think without knowing the story people houldnt judge.
It does happen all the time for all different things, But i dont think this is something that was her fault fully
I mean just feel lucky that our children will have there dads in there lives

[galaxie]

Originally Posted by miSsy_chriSsy

I have plenty of compassion.

Just not for stupid people.

You're pregnant and you're treating her like this?

Sweeeeeeet jesus.

You know, call her stupid all you want, but you're being ignorant by bashing her. I'm just baffled that you can't put yourself in her shoes even for one second! How would YOU feel if your baby's daddy ran off?

[miSsy_chriSsy]

Originally Posted by galaxie

You're pregnant and you're treating her like this?

Sweeeeeeet jesus.

You know, call her stupid all you want, but you're being ignorant by bashing her. I'm just baffled that you can't put yourself in her shoes even for one second! How would YOU feel if your baby's daddy ran off?

I sure as hell wouldn't spite him by getting knocked up a second time!

She's told us some rediculous story, and she's looking for sympathy. Which seems to be exactly what she's getting. Hence why I'm not participating in the "Awww poor baby" bandwagon. And I sure as hell wouldn't post the FATHER'S NAME on FNK! Let alone make these deadbeat dads appear to be %100 at fault. It's just so childish. Which highlights my point of her posting for attention in the first place.

Clearly there's women out there who are amazing single moms... but dear god, this one girl is just an idiot, and this is the only situation I'm referring to.

[decypher]

Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

That's not really fair to say.... the child doesn't necessarily have to suffer. My son is 8 and the way I look at it he's got so much love from so many people it's ridiculous. Yeah it's too bad we split up but I've taken responsibility and on top of that my ex and her husband do a great job of taking care of him.

I pay my support, I see my son as much as possible. I could have stopped it from happening sure... but then I wouldn't be blessed with an amazing little boy in my life.

Dave is copping out.... he's missing out on what could be the single most rewarding thing in his entire life. *shrug* Too bad for him.... sure as hell doesn't mean that the child is loved any less, just by one less person who quite frankly, judging by what I know of Dave, doesn't count for much anyways.

Yeh i guess it was a bit unfair of me to generalize like that. I was talking more about parents who do this without really thinking it through and the fact that she did it twice. Why not make sure the guy is right, get married, then have a child the second time around after learning what happened before.

I was more directing that towards parents who bring kids into this world and then don't give them the care they need because they are not ready or not equipped to care for them. Congrats for you though takes alot of work and determination.

[Aki]

isn't the 'heart to heart' for this kind of stuff though? sympathy? most of the posts in this section are written by people looking for advice or a shoulder to cry on or whatever.
i personally wouldn't write about stuff like this, but if others want to so be it.
if you really want to bash on someone bash on that chick who always writes a 300 word essay every week on her being sick or whatever...we get it, your sick, enough already!!

[tiedye]

^^
actually.. if you want to be anal about it.. this should be in the punching bag. she was bitching about unreliable guys. soooo shh.

you're just being hypocritical anyways. "I'm horribly sick" is a lot different than "I fuck multiple guys without BIRTH control, and get pissed off when I have babies". Everyone's entitled to their own opinons.. hers just happens to be outnumbered.