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Why does everyone bring her beautiful baby in to the situation? I mean god, props to any single mother who can do it, having a child between two people is hard on its own let alone one person. I mean you are a nurse and dont you want to be a doula? Will you call those womens kids bastards to just because they decided not to abort when the dad wouldnt stick around? I understand dissing people i do it all the time but what has the baby done to you. |
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I think it's just an easy way to make a jab at someone annoying, cause she knows it'll hit home. Not the most mature, but neither has Ragga_Whore shown herself to be so I say fair game.
Diva clearly has nothing against single moms in general, just this one. Last edited by prozac; Oct 20, 06 at 05:53 PM. |
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Yes but bringing her child in to the situation when it doesnt revolve around that.
Yes Val has made comments to both of you so i understand why you would respond. But its like why pick on a baby or bring it in to a situation that isnt about it at all. Being the line of work diva is in I do not find her comment very appropriate, I thought she was a bit higher then that. |
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You can make fun of someone for being a ditz and over weight, does that really hurt you? I mean you dont take her seriously i hope.
But her daughter is a serious part of her life, It may not bug her, who knows I think Val is above the comments and more then thrilled with her daughter so doesnt take notice. I just find it disgusting. |
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I would give a client who was a single parent the same level of care that I would give a client who was married and had a stable home life. In school we learned that our values and opions are valid and should be examined and reflected upon before caring for clients. I could give excellent nursing care to a convicted rapist and still think he was the scum of the earth and deserved to die. My opinion of goddessa/ragga_whore is that she's a waste of space who has a very slim chance of ever contributing anything of value to society. That opinion was pretty much confirmed when she admitted to smoking while she was pregnant. I think she should have had her cervix stapled shut when she reached puberty. I don't have a problem with single moms at all. Only the ones who clearly aren't equipped (emotionally) to be in change of another life. |
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Yes i just didnt expect it from someone wanting to work with Children thats all.
As i said she probally did somethign to you to make you make that comment. My opinion was i didnt expect it from you partially because of the line of work and the Doula part. You think that of her but do you know her?? All im saying is dont take jabs at her child god its pathetic and something that i wouldnt expect ANY mature adult to say. I didnt expect it from you from talking with you when i was pregnant through pm's, you seem very mature thats all |
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and os she didnt smoke her whole pregnancy quit shortly after that....
40 years ago when my aunt had my cousin she was smoking at the hospital while having contractions with 2 other women ... It was normal then so you dont say anything about it.... I do agree with the smoking comment while pregnant i quit when i found out i was, but if your whole opinion of her is on that then so be it. |
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And I don't want to work with children. I don't really like them at all. I hated my pediatrics rotation. I do however derive great pleasure from helping women deliver the healthiest possible babies. I never said I was mature. If I was, I probably wouldn't waste half as much time as I do on this website. I definitely have my moments of immaturity. |
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And my opinion of ragga_whore wasn't just based on the fact that she smoked while she was pregnant. I thought she was a waste of space for a long time before that. Last edited by diva; Oct 19, 06 at 09:08 PM. |
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You should just admit that you're reacting this way because you took my comment, and for some strange reason, applied it to your situation.
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