to my unborn child

[Ragga_Wh0re]

Im sorry it had to be this way,but I know it`ll be the best for both of us.
So you go back to heaven and rest,sleep my child sleep.
Know that your momma loved you,know that I loved you enough to know it cant be this way.
When things are in order and the time is right,you can awake and we will be together.
Im sorry for taking your first breath,first sight and first cry,but I cant bring you into a world of chaos.
So you go back to heaven and rest,sleep my child sleep.
Not day will go by where I wont think about you,wondering how your body would feel pressed up against mine,wondering how your touch would feel,wondering what it`d be like to watch you sleep.
Sleep my child sleep.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Giving it up huh? It's a really tough decision to have to make. My son is 7 now and it was a tough call for us on whether or not to keep the baby. I'm glad now that we decided to keep him because he's the coolest little kid EVER, but we we're awfully close.

Keep your head up....I know this must not be easy for you. :(

[Ragga_Wh0re]

no its really tough actually,to be quite honest although my minds made up my heart sure isnt.
Its hard utilizing logic when youre faced with this situation,its even harder knowing that everything you stood for,you now hypocrisize.

[veN]

I think this is one of those situations that you can never fully understan until you are in it yourself. And even when you are there, I doubt it' hardly ever clear. Good luck, and chin up Val!

[Liqwid]

^^^....yer soo right...

as much logic i try to put into it....

i just don't and wont ever understand...

*HuGz*

~Dal

[COMATOS3]

so...u havin an abortion r just givin the kid away when u give birth?...

[neoh]

some things should really be left off this forum, seriously.
sometimes things should be kept private.

[neoh]

Originally Posted by dekor

so...u havin an abortion r just givin the kid away when u give birth?...

you are kind of retarded, aren't you?

[Liqwid]

^^...agreed

if u care wut other poeple think of you.........

~dalyn

[{dC!}]

Originally Posted by neoh

you are kind of retarded, aren't you?

HahaA Ryan your suttle comments are great lol.

[{dC!}]

Val, ...

Sorry. This must be really hard for you.

[.muffy.]

Originally Posted by neoh

some things should really be left off this forum, seriously.
sometimes things should be kept private.

This is a free forum and people should be able to talk about whatever they want.

[Liqwid]

Originally Posted by neoh

you are kind of retarded, aren't you?

well this thread makes it sound different from wut is actually happeing

i'm even a bit confused now....wut this post sounds like is different from wut val told me she is doing.......

~Dalyn

[neoh]

Originally Posted by .daisy.

This is a free forum and people should be able to talk about whatever they want.

they should. but abortion is.. a very touchy subject.

[neoh]

Originally Posted by Liqwid

well this thread makes it sound different from wut is actually happeing

i'm even a bit confused now....wut this post sounds like is different from wut val told me she is doing.......

~Dalyn

I was talking about dekors comment.

"are you having an abortion?"

"UUUH, DUH - KID."

[Liqwid]

^^....yeah but this thread kinda sounds like shes haveing the kid and giving it
up........

i'm just saying i can see why it might be confusing

~dalyn

[neoh]

^ how is going to heaven, and taking their first breath, have anything to do with ADOPTION?

It's called common sense, son.

[C_squared]

Val... I do not feel sorry for you.

[neoh]

.. by the way.

bringing a kid into a world of chaos, that kid could single handedly change the face of the world from murder and chaos to peace and love.

[Erin]

Originally Posted by neoh

.. by the way.

bringing a kid into a world of chaos, that kid could single handedly change the face of the world from murder and chaos to peace and love.

Or it could be raised in an unstable home with no father and no money. You don't know what is going on at home. It could be anything.

You have to put your children FIRST and if she isn't ready mentally or financialy then it isn't fair to bring a child into that kind of life. I see this as a selfless act. I see this as putting her child ahead of whatever feelings she will face.

[Cdn_Brdr]

Originally Posted by C_squared

Val... I do not feel sorry for you.

Weak sauce Carlos.... some things demand just a little tact no matter how much you dislike the other person. Dealing with a decision like this is hard and you should be glad that you'll never be put in this position.

[wum]

there's no harm in thinking things over

[Erin]

Originally Posted by Cdn_Brdr

Weak sauce Carlos.... some things demand just a little tact no matter how much you dislike the other person. Dealing with a decision like this is hard and you should be glad that you'll never be put in this position.

Agreed. Respect goes down 100 points.

[ebbomega]

Once again, as I am not female and as thus will never have to make the decision, my opinion is shelved.

All I can say is do what thou wilt. And while I may not know you Val, you have my support in whatever decision you make.

"A woman's body is her own fucking business"
- Jay

[Cdn_Brdr]

Originally Posted by ebbomega

"A woman's body is her own fucking business"
- Jay

Amen....