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View Poll Results: Cuddling = Cheating? | |||
Yes.... | 42 | 56.76% | |
No.... | 32 | 43.24% | |
Voters: 74. You may not vote on this poll |
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well, i would never want to cuddle with anyone but my boyfriend and I know he feels the same way.
i would consider it a level of cheating. it really depends. but usually when you cuddle with someone.. well cuddling is very efectionate. so if you are really happy with your other half, you should only really want to cuddle with them. Treat people how you want to be treated. if you dont mind your other half cuddlin with people, then go ahead and cuddle your friends too. personally, i am happy with my boy, so im not planning on cuddlin wiht other people. hugs fuck ya. im a huggy kind of person! |
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meh, to those of us who can cuddle and not end up fucking the person... locking arms, holding hands, sitting on laps, standing in between eacdhothers legs, putting an arm around eachother, leaning on eachother while watching a movie, rubbing eachothers feet to get warm.... stuff like that amongst FRIENDS (which might wierd some of you out, or may seem like cheating to you because you don't do this with your friends.. only people you want to fuck) I dont see as cheating. I'm an affectionate person when it comes to my lovers AND my friends.
a boyfriend... and the people I'm cuddling with, should know the difference. Then again I've had a b/f who was also very affectionate get jealous of mye cuddling with a female friend.. in public, while we were all hanging out. I guess he was just jealous I wasn't giving him the same attention at the time, yet He's done the same thing to me and would have laughed at me if I got as mad as he did. so depending on your b/f or g/f there are some types of physical affection among friends that dont mean anything but just that. but it can cause problems and blur certain lines and such. lying tangled up in a bed holding hands watching a movie alone... that may be unnapropriate, even if you are just friends, but being affectionate with a friend, especially in public etc, doesn't put you in the position where naughty things could happen. Thats always a good situation to stear away from. |
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You people call yourself ravers?!?! Haven't you ever cuddled with anyone you didn't want to fuck?
Now.... thinking of a certain guy right now, if I was with him hes not the type to cuddle with someone uless it meant something. So I don't think it would be fair for me to be super cuddly with anyone because whther I consider it cheating it would feel like it to him... I could deffinately compromise especially if it meant I had a bottomless supply of his superb cuddles. And he didn't get overly jealous when me and a friend sat on eachother or put an arm around the other (certain friends that is, like a girl friend or a gay guy... someone who he didn't have to feel even remotely threatened by the idea that they might want to fuck me and I just might want to fuck them too). |
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