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View Poll Results: Cuddling = Cheating?
Yes.... 42 56.76%
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  #76 (permalink)  
Old Dec 10, 05
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hahaha man my hair was LONG back then!!!!

that was lotsa fun.
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  #77 (permalink)  
Old Dec 10, 05
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well, i would never want to cuddle with anyone but my boyfriend and I know he feels the same way.

i would consider it a level of cheating. it really depends. but usually when you cuddle with someone.. well cuddling is very efectionate.
so if you are really happy with your other half, you should only really want to cuddle with them.

Treat people how you want to be treated. if you dont mind your other half cuddlin with people, then go ahead and cuddle your friends too.

personally, i am happy with my boy, so im not planning on cuddlin wiht other people.
hugs fuck ya. im a huggy kind of person!
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  #78 (permalink)  
Old Dec 10, 05
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What kind of cuddling are we talking about? If your two good friends bonding or being there for one an other the intent is like snuggling up to mom.

If you wouldnt like to see your S/O doing it... than you shouldnt either.
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Old Dec 10, 05
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meh, to those of us who can cuddle and not end up fucking the person... locking arms, holding hands, sitting on laps, standing in between eacdhothers legs, putting an arm around eachother, leaning on eachother while watching a movie, rubbing eachothers feet to get warm.... stuff like that amongst FRIENDS (which might wierd some of you out, or may seem like cheating to you because you don't do this with your friends.. only people you want to fuck) I dont see as cheating. I'm an affectionate person when it comes to my lovers AND my friends.

a boyfriend... and the people I'm cuddling with, should know the difference.

Then again I've had a b/f who was also very affectionate get jealous of mye cuddling with a female friend.. in public, while we were all hanging out. I guess he was just jealous I wasn't giving him the same attention at the time, yet He's done the same thing to me and would have laughed at me if I got as mad as he did.

so depending on your b/f or g/f there are some types of physical affection among friends that dont mean anything but just that. but it can cause problems and blur certain lines and such. lying tangled up in a bed holding hands watching a movie alone... that may be unnapropriate, even if you are just friends, but being affectionate with a friend, especially in public etc, doesn't put you in the position where naughty things could happen. Thats always a good situation to stear away from.
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Old Dec 10, 05
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You people call yourself ravers?!?! Haven't you ever cuddled with anyone you didn't want to fuck?


Now.... thinking of a certain guy right now, if I was with him hes not the type to cuddle with someone uless it meant something. So I don't think it would be fair for me to be super cuddly with anyone because whther I consider it cheating it would feel like it to him...

I could deffinately compromise especially if it meant I had a bottomless supply of his superb cuddles. And he didn't get overly jealous when me and a friend sat on eachother or put an arm around the other (certain friends that is, like a girl friend or a gay guy... someone who he didn't have to feel even remotely threatened by the idea that they might want to fuck me and I just might want to fuck them too).
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Old Dec 10, 05
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Depends on the person, with certain people a cuddle is just a cuddle. Others its abit more, so it kinda varies. But i wouldn't call it cheating i would call it a no no for some people tho...
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Old Dec 11, 05
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he is a really good cuddler i must say :p
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Old Dec 11, 05
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meh, to those of us who can cuddle and not end up fucking the person... locking arms, holding hands, sitting on laps, standing in between eacdhothers legs, putting an arm around eachother, leaning on eachother while watching a movie, rubbing eachothers feet to get warm.... stuff like that amongst FRIENDS (which might wierd some of you out, or may seem like cheating to you because you don't do this with your friends.. only people you want to fuck) I dont see as cheating. I'm an affectionate person when it comes to my lovers AND my friends.

a boyfriend... and the people I'm cuddling with, should know the difference.
couldnt have said it better myself...so no i dont consider cuddling cheating. I mean sure i can understand why some people may get jealous, but i dont think its cheating.
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Old Dec 11, 05
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Old Dec 11, 05
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haha YUP!!
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Old Dec 12, 05
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fuck no...i mean its just hugging right? as long as your not feeling eachother up

although i would say no if your boyfriend/girlfriend isnt there ....

hasnt anyone ever been in a cuddle puddle?
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Old Dec 12, 05
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hasnt anyone ever been in a cuddle puddle?
I think those days are long gone and long forgotten. :(
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  #88 (permalink)  
Old Dec 12, 05
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eeewww "cuddle puddle" that word makes me cringe *lol*
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Old Dec 12, 05
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I think those days are long gone and long forgotten. :(

no? i was at a rave not too long ago in vancity that had one...
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Old Dec 12, 05
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no? i was at a rave not too long ago in vancity that had one...
Are you serious? Wow.. it's been so long since I've seen one of those.
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Old Dec 12, 05
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its chodaboy, he probally started it

*ew*
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Old Dec 12, 05
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its more of an oldschool thing thats why they are mainly at parties oldschoolers attend...
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Old Dec 12, 05
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its chodaboy, he probally started it

*ew*

you didnt seem to mind when my fingers were in your crack
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Old Dec 12, 05
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its more of an oldschool thing thats why they are mainly at parties oldschoolers attend...
True enough..
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Old Dec 12, 05
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you didnt seem to mind when my fingers were in your crack
that is fuckign disgusting
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Old Dec 12, 05
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i know

you should learn to wipe your stink nuggets
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Old Dec 13, 05
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^^
wth is wrong with you?
Do you have some sort of mental illness?

Your attempts for attention is quite sad
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  #98 (permalink)  
Old Dec 13, 05
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  #99 (permalink)  
Old Dec 13, 05
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definately can be a tricky situation, i think its harmless unless you know its something more. Sometimes girls just wanna cuddle ;)
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Old Dec 13, 05
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i know

you should learn to wipe your stink nuggets
shut the fuck up
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