Girlfriends and their responsibilities

[craz_e_blossom]

Originally Posted by Ms.Tarantula

eww. ive seen so many girls make their boyfriends do so much stuff and then take it for granted..

Hey it is always the opposite for me...I always have a gold digging boyfriend that uses me...Thank god I am single...


*COUGH* *COUGH* You know who I am talking bout...And if it doesn't come to your head right away leah you'll get it soon after...

[galaxie]

Relationships are all about give and take.

If I were flying in to SeaTac and my boyfriend didn't have to work I'd expect him to pick me up. If I were in his shoes I would WANT to go pick him up b/c I'd probably be missing him like crazy and would want to see him ASAP - even if that meant driving 2 hours (whoop dee do!) to Seattle.

[Prissypants]

My general rule of thumb is I don't ask for things I would not want to do myself....

[crookedking]

Originally Posted by Skitzo_Style

to be completly honest, i can't ever recall any guy ever telling me that they took their date to dinner, and she picked up the tab.

does that really happen?

happens all the Time. i'm a ninja at getting that done for me.

[Heffy]

I know all too well what you are all talking about here. I dated a girl that I pretty much had to do everything for. I don't regret it, at the time we were in love. Doing things for your significant other should not be a chore. If they are and you still do them , the yes, somthing needs to be done. I find that usually things like rides to and from places should be seen as an opportunity to see the person and not to be thought of as "fuck, im a taxi".

I dunno. the whole "love" thing can totally change perspectives. The trick is to be giving to the point that YOU want to, but to not let the expectations that your generocity may create make you a tool.

[Ms.Tarantula]

Originally Posted by craz_e_blossom

Hey it is always the opposite for me...I always have a gold digging boyfriend that uses me...Thank god I am single...


*COUGH* *COUGH* You know who I am talking bout...And if it doesn't come to your head right away leah you'll get it soon after...

HAAH! of COURSE I know who you're talking about.

And hes diggin in someone else's pockets now so dont even worry about it lol.

[craz_e_blossom]

Yah and I dunno how many times I have warned her too...And she is still with him...I even warned her this weekend when I saw her at Josh's and for fuck sakes he was hitting on me again...I wanna punch him

[Ms.Tarantula]

you DID punch him. HAHA

[craz_e_blossom]

I punched him again on Friday?!?!?!?!...NO WAY!

[project.one]

I go off the 'give what you get' method.

I dont mind going out of my way to do something for a girlfriend or anything. But as long as it comes around. If I know she does things for me as well, its all good.

Im done dealing with girls who expect eveything for nothing.

[Heffy]

^^ Werd

[Hero.Skye]

im going to invest in a fleshlight, some girls just piss me right the fuck off.