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If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better. The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. - Oprah Share this with other women and men (just so they know)... You'll make someone smile, another rethink her/his choices, and another woman prepare, and a man aware. 
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good points and so true, but do i have to be the 1st one to suggest feminest?
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haha well its by oprah, I dont think shes very feminist. (although there are rumours she is lesbian)
But thats just from a girls point of veiw.
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heh yea, she speaks like all men are idiots. could go vise versa
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she acctually says .... All men are NOT dogs.
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understandable ^^
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that whole thing pretty much applied to me and my ex and how she treated me and acted!
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i fucking hate oprah. she's been making too many women feel good about themselves for far too many years. somebody needs to take that bitch out.
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"if you think hes leading you on then he is?" yeah right or you just could be acting like a neurotic bitch. Last edited by SEAN!; Oct 02, 06 at 08:03 PM.
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Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
- So... if a realationship is working, just quit! Slower is better. - So much for love at first sight! If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. - So, just never forgive anyone for their mistakes! Don't settle. - After years of a relationship, go find something new! If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. - If you think he ate the last cookie cuz you cant find it... he probably did! The only person you can control in a relationship is you. - Obviously relationships are one sided! Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? - Smart thinking... seriously! Always have your own set of friends separate from his. - Lead a secret life! Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. - Cuz all guys are made to standard! If something bothers you, speak up. & Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. - So... let him know what bothers you... but dont share anything else! Dont talk to him, and dont let him know things about you! THATS how a relationship works! You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. - So, as said before, if you dont like something he does, just leave him! That 1 quality totally makes everything else you love about him worthless! Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. - So, if you sit at home watching tv all day... your still more important then him as he works all day to pay for everything! Never let a man define who you are. - No shit! Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. - If your BORROWING someone else's man... your not the greatest person either now are you! A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you. - Visa Versa! You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. - So take a week, suck it up, and move on. Because everything in your life will just go away after a set period of time. Nothing will hurt forever! Nothing ever scars you! You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary. - Wow... So, then what IS a relationship? Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. - Why be with one person when you can be with them all! Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted. - So then... dont complain when the man goes out and you have no idea where he is! Never co-sign for a man. - So dont expect him to help you! Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. - Is this just a single point of everything else already said? * Just bored when I wrote this. Do not take litterly. Enjoy it for a laugh!
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I like how alot of these are things that I see more women doing then I do men!
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lol matt, I cant believe you took the time to pick every one of those apart, it was just somthing I saw and thought alot of points were really good, so stop being so fnkanal and shush !!
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