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Old Oct 25, 06
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^ I do see your point. But sometimes its nice to have that one guy who makes you feel like the most gorgeous girl out there.

Dont get me wrong, being single is great. I have all the freedom in the world. But im a little crazy lately and need to calm the fuck down lol
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Old Oct 25, 06
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wrong. nice guys with no confidence or self worth finish last. the rest of us do damn well for ourselves.
Ya i read somewhere that the reason it seems nice guys finish last is that nice guys don't have that pushy attitude or that initiative that bad boys and all that have.

Hence why girls always seem to go for the asshole types who you would think would be the first type of men not to go for. For over and over history shows this is the case alot of the time.
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Old Oct 26, 06
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Ya i read somewhere that the reason it seems nice guys finish last is that nice guys don't have that pushy attitude or that initiative that bad boys and all that have.

Hence why girls always seem to go for the asshole types who you would think would be the first type of men not to go for. For over and over history shows this is the case alot of the time.
Possibly...I don't know, I think I'm a pretty nice guy and for the last 10 years or so I have not had a problem getting quality partners for the most part. But then again, I don't put up with drama. Then again...When I was doing the bad boy thing I got alot of hotties but they were all about the drama.

Point is that you get what you give usually. If you find you're always in crappy relationships or that there is always drama, chances are you are overly dramatic yourself or that you really like being in emotionally unstable relationships...It gives some people the fire they need but it always ends badly...
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Old Jan 08, 07
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BAH!!!
I fucking hate trying to date. It's just fucking pointless.
Guy's drive me up the fucking wall.
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Old Jan 08, 07
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Old Jan 08, 07
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BAH!!!
I fucking hate trying to date. It's just fucking pointless.
Guy's drive me up the fucking wall.
what now :|
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Old Jan 08, 07
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Hey now girls drive some guys up the wall as well
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Old Jan 08, 07
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^^

I will second you on that, it's a 2 way street.
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Old Jan 08, 07
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what now :|
Oh you know.. Same shit.
He's just useless

Then he said all he needed to, to let me know exactly how things are between us.

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Old Jan 08, 07
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Sometimes Girls need to open their Eyes and realize that there is a good Guy interested in them and ditch the asshole.

Speaking from experience on this one.
Its actually really sad how true that is. Ive sat back and watched friends of mine get hurt over and over again by guys who are assholes. And Its just hard even after you give a warning they get hurt and hurt again. I think Some girls need to stop searching for "Prince Charming" and realize that he's been standing infront of them the whole time.
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Old Jan 10, 07
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people suck in general.

its alright though, just bury your feelings and become a manipulative selfish asshole, that way you can get what you want from them and never expose yourself to the potential of getting hurt.

it works until your a 45 year old loser who needs to go to dr phil to solve all your self inflicited problems.
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Old Jan 14, 07
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Old Jan 15, 07
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Old Jan 15, 07
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^ I do see your point. But sometimes its nice to have that one guy who makes you feel like the most gorgeous girl out there.

Dont get me wrong, being single is great. I have all the freedom in the world. But im a little crazy lately and need to calm the fuck down lol

I never really thought of you as being crazy ;)

Call me please when you get a chance, we have some catching up to do, long story.
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Old Jan 16, 07
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hey if guys dont do the trick, try girls. It's the raver way, just listen to house music and move to san francisco.
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hey if guys dont do the trick, try girls. It's the raver way, just listen to house music and move to san francisco.

that actually made me laugh out loud.
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Old Jan 16, 07
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I've come to this conclusion along with the one that love is very over rated.
That's my 2 cent's on these topics today.
boys are stupid
throw rocks at them
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Old Jan 16, 07
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Maybe your going after the wrong guys??? Maybe your standards are too high/too low??

Or maybe just dont try so hard??...

Nice guys usually end up finishing last....and sometimes they're hard to find..but I waited 4 years and now I have erik...I was single for all that time and I have no complaints...sometimes good things come to those who wait...
it takes time...
you're an attractive girl...so unless your a huge bitch , you shouldnt have a problem finding a decent guy.
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Old Jan 17, 07
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Set your standards really high - not unreasonably high but make sure you don't settle for qualities that you know will later come back to haunt you (jealousy, possessiveness, etc.)

Looking back now I find in the past there were so many occasions where I was just settling - where I really had no real desire towards the guy but dated him out of pure convenience.
It was a terrible way to go about things and I can acknowledge that now but I think I definitely learned to be comfortable with the idea of being single;
And it's funny because as soon as I accomplished coming to terms with that concept I met someone incredible.

Boys really don't suck, there are tons of guys out there and some of them are amazing :)
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You know what?

You and Heffy sound like you'd be a perfect couple.
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Old Jan 17, 07
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Old Jan 17, 07
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boys do suck tho.. *sigh* i wanna get one of those machines where u make the ideal man and he would be everything u wanted and he wouldnt be a ass or anything..
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Old Jan 17, 07
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Old Jan 17, 07
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Maybe your going after the wrong guys??? Maybe your standards are too high/too low??

Or maybe just dont try so hard??...

Nice guys usually end up finishing last....and sometimes they're hard to find..but I waited 4 years and now I have erik...I was single for all that time and I have no complaints...sometimes good things come to those who wait...
it takes time...
you're an attractive girl...so unless your a huge bitch , you shouldnt have a problem finding a decent guy.
the problem there is:

now you have erik.

if that isn't "settling", i don't know what is.

p.s. tell erik to PM me so i can get my digital camera back, thanks.
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