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Planning a pregnacy with your boyfriend/husband is hardly the same as getting knocked up by accident by a man who doesnt love you.
It's hard for a child to be raised by a woman who gets pregnant in hopes of keeping her man, and then grows to resent that child because shes raising him/her alone. I hope that you are a decent person in real life and that your daughter will look up to you as a role model. I sure hope she doesnt become the trash-mouthed bitch that you are. Using racist stereotypical names just shows your own intelligence level. Anyone here could use a bunch of rude 'wop' comments towards you..but then we would only be sinking to your level. I guess having a child doesnt always mean more maturity =) |
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And if youre also trying to imply I resent my daughter,you really ought to pull your head out of your ass because that satement couldnt be any further from the truth. If theres anyone I resent its his parents,for raising such a morally reprehensible shmuck.And I resent him for learning by example. as for the supposed "racist" remarks,go fuck yourself you hippy bitch. Call me a wop,call me a daego,call me a guinney...I really wont take offense.I use those terms quite frequently,infact all of the wops and daegos I know use those terms quite frequently as well!oh no!there we go being a bunch of racists!!!!!! Now excuse me I have to go cloak up,its cross burning time! |
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bye bye credibility. |
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Now also with this comment,it sounds like youre implying that getting knocked up by a man who doesnt love me is somehow socially unacceptable and reprehensible?That somehow my child is iligitimate and not deserving of things that children coming from 2 parent households are? But if I were to have been impregnanted by a man who did love me,it would be a-ok in your books? The way you have worded your statement and the negative connotations that go along with the words you have chosen dont leave much room for me to think anything else. Now,what was that you said about trash mouthed bitch?And the whole unintelligent statement?Way to contradict yourself. INfact,your whole rebuttal is no longer credible and now you are infact at the same "level" as me.Oh and lets not forget the whole "maturity" statement. See,if you really were that much better then me you wouldnt have said anything at all.And this is something that happens quite often with you.You shoot off at the mouth and while youre all caught up in the moment you lose credibility because you say too much. so,I think hypocrite would be a very fitting title for you. |
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However, I do commend you for keeping your child and being responsible for your actions. The question I have been asking and you have been avoiding all thread, is WHY do you act like a rude, unintelligent, uneducated, complete bitch if you are not one? |
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I didnt imply anything. Merely statements =) As an adult..and someone who has already had an abortion..why wouldnt you use protection? Do you think its fair for a child to grow up without a father? Because its not. Not if it's because of your stupid mistake. I am not saying single mothers are selfish for not having a father figure for their children. I have two nephews with absent fathers..and I see the effects it has on them. As far as racism..If you want to go around calling your friends and family stereotypical racist names..go ahead. How would you feel if your daughter was in school and all the white kids were calling her a 'hairy wop' or something horrible like that..im sure it would break your heart. |
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Sometimes that sort of situation is completely out of hand - my mother and father divorced when I was one and I don't feel as though i'm less priviledged than any other person. My mom did an incredible job raising me, she never left me with babysitters, she taught me to be kind, compassionate, hard-working and ambitious. Seeing her drive, and the struggles she went through has only made me a stronger person. I maintained a civil relationship with my father too, I visited him on weekends until I was about 10 when I decided I didn't feel as though he was an adequate father because I felt more like an obligation to him than a daughter. These things can't necessarily be controlled and being raised in a mother/father household does not necessarily make someone a better person. There are tons of families that are completely dysfunctional and unhealthy - just because they're 'complete' it doesn't make them more valid. Also, things change and people can come and go - I have a fantastic stepdad who took on the role of my father when I was 7 and I have the utmost respect and admiration towards him for being so great and loving towards my mother and me. |
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My one nephew is almost 5. Luckily for him he now has a GREAT stepdad.. His real father has seen him maybe 25 times in his life and has recently decided that he just doesnt want to be a father anymore. My nephew still calls this man his father. He asks for him. He loves him. He's sad when he doesnt see him. My sister had plans to marry this man and thats why she had a baby. My other sister has been pregnant multiple times, had multiple abortions and now doesnt even get to raise her son. He cries everytime he goes to his dads..and he is confused. He's 2 and im he thinks grandma and grandpa (who are raising him) are his 'mom' and 'dad'. It's not fair that she got pregnant because of her own stupidness.. Im not saying you need a mom and dad to be a happy healthy kid, because I dont believe that at all. I just think that people need to be more responsible when it comes to having kids. =) |
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I got pregnant without trying to twice. :)
1 miscariage then we have my daughter. I was taking the Depo shot. I wouldnt make a statement when you dont know whats going on in other peoples lives aswell, Do you know if she was on birth control or not? I was it still happend, i can name others who were to some on this board. Last edited by PwInCeSs; Feb 06, 07 at 09:21 AM. |
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I shouldnt jump to conculsions about someone without knowing their situation. I understand that life happens even when you are being responsible. Ragga loves to make assumptions and bitch everyone out. I guess im comparing her alot to my younger sister. =) |
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because thats how others act towards me,even if im being nice intelligent and educated. :) |
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Now as for singleparent households having irrepearable psychological effects on children...YER WRONG!There have been countless stuides done on singleparent households and the effects left on children...and there isnt any conclusive evidence backing the theory.SO STFU!kthx. When i was in school I got called a hairy wop,along with many other things.And these statements were coming from ethnic minorities as well.Ya see,its the white devil that feels the need to be overtly PC and screams bloody murder when a racial slur is slung...but yet,its ethnic minorities that sling 99% of those slurs. isnt that ironic? so pretty much youre a fucking tard hippy bitch,whos white.who needs to stfu asap.kthxagain. |
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I have full custody of my child.I support myself and my child without the assistance of anyone else.I live in a 2bdrm townhome with myself and my child only.I dont go out and party EVER.I dont even drink.Im on mat leave for another 5 months,then Ill be going to school. So fuck me if Im wrong here,but Im really failing to see the comparison between your slut sister and I? get off my jock bitch,the hardon that youve got me for me is getting old. |
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Quoted from Child Development: Its Nature and Course, 5th ed. You may not be a teen but here is some evidence to prove that single parents homes DO have negative effects on children. So please try to be a good mom kthnxagain. |
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Theres some pretty sweet low income townhouses out there ;) The simularities are that you are both trashy slut-bags. Thats about it =) You are about as trashy as surrey girls get. Good luck, I hope you dont become a statistic. |