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Old Aug 12, 02
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Lost the spark?

Is it possible to lose the spark in the relationship and not blame anyone for it?


~Tim
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Old Aug 12, 02
DONT BE BITTER BE BETTER
 
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yes.
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Old Aug 12, 02
 
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yes..
sometimes you just realize you were 2 different people...
sometimes its just manotiny in the relationship..
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Old Aug 12, 02
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fo shoz yo! especially in the teenager life...if he/she is "the one" the light is from an electric outlet or else the light is just from a burning candle...the light will eventually die out by itself.

its actualy better when u lose the spark and not have neone to blame for....soooo much more peaceful.
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Old Aug 12, 02
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it is better if you don't even have a spark to start off. so you won't get burned in the end.
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Old Aug 12, 02
break dance, not hearts
 
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human beings like to play with fire
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Old Aug 12, 02
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yes.


but its not impossible to get it back in some relationships.
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Old Aug 12, 02
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yes. people change
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Old Aug 12, 02
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Yes, but you can try everything to get it back and if that doesn't work then I think its just time to move on.
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Old Aug 12, 02
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^^^ yup.
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Old Aug 12, 02
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I made one last effort 2 get it back and no success.

Now the question is. Can a friendship still occur? I personally the chances are 1 in 10 that an actual friendship will blossom. The other 9 will be hate, bitterness or just plane awkard.

But can you blame someone who is the "9", and aren't friends after a breakup?
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Old Aug 12, 02
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If there's no one to blame for the lack of spark, then a friendship wouldn't be as hard to blossom if you had fingers to point to a source of the trouble.

As with all things, it takes time.. whether or not you are willing to put in the time and patience to wait for something to escalate is up to you. It WILL be akward, someone might still be bitter, and there would be moments where you think the spark is back and you want to go back... but that's just relationship withdrawl.
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Old Aug 12, 02
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it really depends on the people, and the situation,
each situation is different..
thats somethng you have to talk about
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Old Aug 12, 02
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Quote:
Originally posted by dj4mula:
I made one last effort 2 get it back and no success.

Now the question is. Can a friendship still occur? I personally the chances are 1 in 10 that an actual friendship will blossom. The other 9 will be hate, bitterness or just plane awkard.

But can you blame someone who is the "9", and aren't friends after a breakup?
Yes a friendship can occur but most of tha time it doesn't. One person is usually all bitter and mean to the one who broke it off which is stupid an immature. But havin a friendship keeps you in touch which is good especially if that person means somethin to you....it also gives a chance for another relationship in tha future.
So I say try to be friends and if tha other doesn't want to....then at least you tried.
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Old Aug 12, 02
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Don'T GET INVOLVED AT ALL !!!!! THAT IS THE WAY !!!!!!!
if you get involved always be PREPARED TO GET BURNED !!!!!!
cause remember FIEGS CAN NEVER MAKE UP THEIR MIND !!!!!
THAT IS A FACT !!!!!
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Old Aug 12, 02
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i say just stick with casual sex with strangers.
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Old Aug 12, 02
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ya.... CASUAL SEX WITH STRANGERS WORK !!
but remember the rules......

NO CONTACT AFTER THAT NIGHT !
NO HAVING PHONE NUMBERS !
NO WISHING YOU COULD DO IT AGAIN !
1 NIGHT STAND IS THE WAY !!!!!!! <- NO Feelins will ever get involved......
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Old Aug 12, 02
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Tim ( 4mula ) if you feel like both you lost the spark... honestly... talk about it with her and see how you can RE KINDLE that spark.... IE : SEX !! SEX !! SEX !!!....
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Old Aug 13, 02
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Quote:
Originally posted by Timdareez:
Don'T GET INVOLVED AT ALL !!!!! THAT IS THE WAY !!!!!!!
if you get involved always be PREPARED TO GET BURNED !!!!!!
cause remember FIEGS CAN NEVER MAKE UP THEIR MIND !!!!!
THAT IS A FACT !!!!!
Although I told him to stay friends..........I still agree with that fact Tim.
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Old Aug 13, 02
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Originally posted by Timdareez:
FIEGS CAN NEVER MAKE UP THEIR MIND !!!!!
THAT IS A FACT !!!!!
same goes for guys dude, same goes for guys...

i think it is the human species that is messed up
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Old Aug 13, 02
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Originally posted by Timdareez:
ya.... CASUAL SEX WITH STRANGERS WORK !!
but remember the rules......

NO CONTACT AFTER THAT NIGHT !
NO HAVING PHONE NUMBERS !
NO WISHING YOU COULD DO IT AGAIN !
1 NIGHT STAND IS THE WAY !!!!!!! <- NO Feelins will ever get involved......

No! 1 night... not enough me and my b/f have been having sex for 5 months and it gets better and better.. once u get more comforable with sombody u can try new things :PartEkid:
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Old Aug 14, 02
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Originally posted by wALkiN:


same goes for guys dude, same goes for guys...

i think it is the human species that is messed up
Naw man were more chillin and relaxed than girls......girls are more sensative and analyze shit way more......but I smoke pot so I analyze shit hardcore too, especially when I'm baked.
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